Daddy-active girls who know nothing about society

When you've been a father for many years, you sometimes find yourself dissatisfied with women.

If I had to complain about it the most, it would have to do with social common sense.

I'm sure any man who has ever become a father has at least experienced the question, "Huh? Don't you even know that much common sense?"

This is a surprising question, or you could say it's a problem that will never be solved, and you can't get rid of your dissatisfaction even if you want to.

The reason is simple.

This is because each woman who becomes a father has had a different upbringing.

Some women are really good at it, and sometimes I wonder, ``Are they really that considerate?''

But on the other hand, sometimes I think, ``I want to see my parents' faces.''

I can't help but think it would be a shame if I signed a contract with such a woman.

In the first place, there are no minors in Papakatsu.

Therefore, when we, uncles, come face-to-face with women who have reached a certain level of maturity, we must be careful in how we treat them.

It's not a good idea to talk from above, nor is it a position to teach too much.

Because they're not your real parents.

Considering this, in my experience, if you sign a contract with a woman who has no knowledge of social common sense, it often results in an accumulation of stress.

Therefore, we are careful when signing contracts to avoid this as much as possible.

But this day was different.

This was just a few months ago, so it's a fairly recent story.

When I first met her, my impression of her was that she was quite cute.

This one word is enough to clear everything up.

So, in order to get to know the woman I was meeting for the first time, I didn't ask a lot of deep questions.

Really, what are the conditions and what do you usually do? There was only one question.

The next week I went on my first date with her.

Honestly, she's such a good-looking woman, I wonder if she can talk well? She remembers how nervous she was.

Then, on the day of the actual date, I met up with my girlfriend and immediately headed to dinner.

At this point, I had no way of knowing how insane she was.

First, I entered the restaurant and sat down with my girlfriend.

The first thing we said in the conversation was, ``Isn't that clerk's attitude bad?''

From my point of view, the staff's response seemed normal.

No, on the contrary, I felt that he was quite serious about his work.

But it didn't seem like that to her.

And above all, he criticized the staff within minutes of entering the store. (Also, it speaks to me in such a loud voice that I can hear it on purpose.)

I was disappointed at that point.

I simply felt that he had a bad personality.

Maybe I made a contract with a really bad woman? I almost regretted it on the spot.

"This is terrible! What should I do?"

This is what went through my head.

Normally, when I meet a woman for the first time, I ask a lot of questions to get to know her better.

However, this time I decided based solely on appearance.

At that time, I had a lot of regrets.

So I thought about it.

I said, ``Okay, let's do something to her that I don't usually do.''

Now, if they don't like it, that's fine, and it's also an excuse to break the contract.

That's what I thought.

So I said to her:

"I've been to this store several times, but this is your first time, right? You don't know anything about this store yet, and you shouldn't say things like that out loud at the beginning, right?"

That's what I told her, in a somewhat preachy manner.

I thought to myself, ``Maybe this is the end of the fight.''

So, I was like, ``Let's just enjoy the meal while we're there.''

However, her response to me was unexpected.

"I'm sorry, Dad. That's true. I have a habit of saying things without thinking about the other person...This time, it's my dad who's there with the store clerk. I caused a strange atmosphere. I'm sorry. I'll be more careful from now on."

eh? He's a pretty honest kid, isn't he?

I couldn't believe my ears.

I didn't expect such a serious response, and even without further explanation, he admitted his fault and apologized.

This is not something even our generation can do.

Maybe it was a good idea to sign the contract? I was quite confused.

As any man who has become a father would understand, it's difficult to deal with such a somewhat ``strong woman'', and it's also rare for them to admit their own faults.

An honest child is simply wonderful.

When it comes to being a dad, it becomes even easier to get along with him.

There will be no more conflicts with women.

On the man's side, as much as he pays the allowance, he begins to desire to have his way with the woman.

It's not good to have that kind of feeling.

There are various factors involved, such as jealousy of how a woman spends her time in her private life.

That's why many men think that they want their partner to be honest with them when they're together.

She is still under contract, and when I asked her about it, she had never had a part-time job.

To be honest, I thought so.

I couldn't get a sense of social common sense from her in many ways.

However, I'm not thinking of abandoning her.

The reason is her humanity.

He has the ability to listen to what those around him have to say, and above all, he is honest and can conduct thorough self-analysis. (In particular, I am also aware of my lack of social common sense.)

In that case, all you have to do is stand by him and teach him as a father.

Thinking about it this way, I now have more fun in ``educating young women,'' something I had never experienced before as a father.

I'm still working on a contract with her, and it's really fun.

It feels good because every time we meet, he learns something from me.

This is partly connected to night activities.

I wondered what would happen at our first dinner, but now I'm really glad I signed her up.

I feel like I found a diamond in the rough.