2 ways to get women to like you in a dating club

showing respect to women

A story about the early days when I was introduced to a woman at a dating club.

To be honest, I looked down on the woman who was introduced to me.

Or should I say, I thought there was absolutely no need to approach from here.

The reason for this is that I had the feeling that dating clubs = entertainment businesses, and I thought it was like a Ginza club that provides services.

From a woman who works as a dad, it's a rude story.

Also, regarding the conversation, I didn't make any compromises, so I had a cold attitude.

Again, why should I care about women to pay my allowance?It was a feeling.

So, in the beginning, even if I was introduced to various women from the dating club, the relationship would usually end after three or four meals.

Even now, I still remember feeling lonely in my heart, even though I had a cold demeanor.

However, one day a woman told me this story.

I can't drink alcohol, so I can't work in the water business. (hostess club, etc.)

On the other hand, I absolutely hate customs.

That's why I'm working as a dad.

At that time, everything was questionable.

So, when I talked deeply with the woman while eating, I realized that "this girl has a dream."
(I could understand her roots)

I also consulted with the woman.

No matter how many dating clubs introduce him, the relationship with the woman ends immediately.

That's what it means.

Her reply was this:


Papa-katsu doesn't feel like a bar business, so I'm sure everyone will hate your response.

Besides, if you treat her so coldly, she won't be able to have a romantic relationship with you, and you won't be able to build a relationship of trust.

Is that why?He spoke frankly.

At that time, I was like, "Oh, my understanding was fundamentally wrong."

Certainly, there are women who just want an allowance, and there are many women who want to have a dad to support what they want to do.

And there is a real love with dad or a slightly unusual love that you can't usually do.

That's why I understood that the standing position between women who are dads and dads is established.

In the bar business, romance outside is basically not allowed.
(There may be some people who do, but basically they shouldn't get paid and fall in love.)

Besides, I also reflected that my attitude of showing no respect to women was the worst.

It's true that I was introduced to a girl in a dating club because I wanted to fall in love with her.

It's a natural result.


From the time I received advice from a woman, I changed my response considerably.

That's why I changed my attitude so that I usually deal with women (responding to one woman regardless of the woman who works as a dad).

Then, on average, I started dating one woman for six months to a year.

Besides, before I changed my attitude, women always looked boring.

However, when I bought this attitude, women always made me smile.

As a man, I was introduced to him at a dating club in order to fall in love again, but I'll say it again and again, but it was the worst.


Men are great because they pay their allowances.

This is a big mistake.


In the first place, I changed my mind that I should be grateful that a young woman who is quite different in age from me is dating.

Thanks to that, I've become kinder to not only women who work as dads, but to other people as well.I'm thinking about it.

By all means, I hope that men who are going to be dads will not be mistaken.

A little change in the way you think and receive things can really make a long lasting relationship with a young girl.

Plus, women will like you more than ever before.
 

never preach

What a woman who is a dad really hates is a sermon from a man who is older than her.

I'm sure no one likes it.

After all, men who become dads live longer when they are in a relationship with a woman, for a few months, so there are many cases where sermons flow into sermons.

In fact, in my case, the woman who was working as a dad dreamed of becoming an actress.

And every time we met, I was brought in for advice.

For example, is it better to go abroad and learn English?

Is it better to get a more famous acting teacher?

What am I missing?etc.

I'm a total amateur when it comes to performing arts.


However, even though I was an amateur, I was talking about what I thought at that time because I had lived longer than women.

Then, because I didn't think deeply about it, I didn't stop and told the other person a bit of a sermon.

Naturally, the woman remained silent and did not want to discuss her troubles any further.

That's right.

Women chasing their dreams must be tired of hearing sermons from their surroundings and relatives on a regular basis.

It would not be fun if I, who had taken the trouble to forgive my heart, would talk like a sermon, and it would become negative.

Consideration as an adult man was missing for me.

It made me think that the woman was probably consulting me for the kindness that would envelop me, rather than preaching from me.

Of course, anyone can preach.

Besides, when I think about it, all the popular men I know don't get angry, and they don't preach.

In addition to that, he also has the ability to gently embrace women and digest their stress and worries.

Even if I'm not popular, I should have responded that way if I was older.

Yes, I regretted it.

If you are not a father to women and a man who can be relied on by women, you will not be popular with women who work as dads.

It was the moment when I realized that.

Of course, I took the opposite approach and switched to a style of silently listening with a smile on my face.

So, what I learned was the answer that "there is no need for the sermon itself in the first place."