P to send LINE

【question】

I received a LINE message asking, "How are you?"Don't you realize that you hate me?

I always use LINE after a date to exchange conversations on LINE, but I didn't like the last time we met, so I didn't do anything on LINE to thank you (I sent that one) and didn't even mark it as read. It's a mystery to LINE.

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【Answer】

Thank you very much for your question.

In the economics department of the university, you will definitely take a course called game theory.Game theory sounds like a fun name, but the content is completely advanced mathematics. rice field.

Let's answer this question based on game theory.But don't worry.I will not talk about difficult numbers.It's easy to understand intuitively, and for those who feel nauseous just by looking at the numbers, I will explain without showing any numbers.

who is uncomfortable

 

LINE came from P, and the person asking the question must have felt uncomfortable.

Regardless of whether P has guessed it or not, the questioner's feelings of not wanting to be sent are the very best.

But then I have to tell you this.

so what?

It is the questioner who feels uncomfortable, and P does not feel uncomfortable at all.Even if the person who asked the question felt uncomfortable with it, or if the person who asked the question was sick with nausea all day long, nothing would bother P.

Now, let's think from P's point of view.

In the first place, the questioner's behavior is a typical "guess and move", so there is a good possibility that it is not communicated to P, but there is no end to saying it, so this time it is "guess" I will talk on the premise that.

The fact that you first contacted me means that P wanted to have some kind of contact with the questioner.And unless he contacts him himself, his wish will not be fulfilled.

So what happens when P contacts us? Since P assumes that he is "hated", the possibility of having a point of contact is extremely low.However, it is extremely low and not completely absent.

It's been half a year since the problem happened.It is quite possible that you may have changed your mind.From the point of view of the person who asked the question, I think that "it has not changed", but from the perspective of P, it is not possible to judge whether it has changed.

But even more important is what happens when you fail.Even if there is no point of contact, P will not lose anything by maintaining the status quo.

In short, it's like a free lottery ticket that you can only win.Certainly the odds of winning may be low, but since they are distributed for free, it is only natural to buy as many as you want.

take your own mood

If I am in a bad mood, should the questioner be in a good mood?

Of course not.And vice versa.Just as the questioner did not know about P's mood, from P's point of view, the questioner's mood was irrelevant.