First second date report

This time, I would like to tell you about my first second date.After going well the first time, from the second time onwards it will be a completely individual match without the involvement of the club. I will write about what the second date was like, interweaving reflection points.

about the other woman

SPEC of the other woman

• Name: Tamako (pseudonym)
• Class: Standard
• Type: D
• Age: Early 20s
• Occupation: College student

in deciding on an opponent

Click here for last date

 I would say the first time was a complete success.

　She seems to have taken a liking to me, and the best evidence is that she made another promise during our first date.The next appointment is roughly half a month later.It's not bad either as a feeling or as an interval.The LINE exchanges continued with a certain frequency, and it seemed that the relationship would continue in a good way.

　But I made a grave mistake here.

What kind of mistake did you make?

It was when I was discussing which store to go to next on LINE.On the last date, Tamako told me that she wanted to go to afternoon tea next time.As for the store, Tamako was supposed to find out which store she wanted to go to.And she was when she presented the store she wanted to go to on LINE

"Then please make a reservation."

I sent him a message as if he were my friend.

I want to go → I researched → So why not make a reservation by yourself?It was a message that I naturally put in thinking,

"Would you like to ask a man to make the reservation?"

Tamako's attitude changed from this point onwards. . .Until now, the exchanges on LINE, which had been quite exciting, became curt, and eventually

"We can't reply because we are both busy, so let's contact you only when necessary."

　sent an ultimatum.This is completely my way of thinking, but since I've become acquainted with it, I wanted to notice a good relationship not only from the relationship between money and body, but also from everyday interactions, so it was completely clear to me. I wasn't looking for a relationship, so my tension had dropped precipitously even before we met.

what was the date

　In the end, I made the reservation and ended up going for afternoon tea.Afternoon tea can't be fooled. It is 1 yen per person.Afternoon tea is just drinking tea in the afternoon, right?I honestly think so, but the strange thing about this country is that the added value suddenly increases when it is converted to katakana.I don't usually spend such an elegant time, and I think, "I'm going to drink black tea all at once!" I think it might be.5,500 yen for dinner isn't cheap, but unfortunately it doesn't feel special.However, 5,500 yen for "Afternoon tea" has a considerable special feeling.It was only for drinking tea at most, but I think the cost performance was not bad. (For details, refer to the store introduction)

　To be honest, I was daunted by the "LINE troublesome declaration" before the date, and I just made a promise, so it was like going on a date just to keep that promise.Since both of them lost interest in each other, the conversation continues on the surface, but it doesn't get lively.I also stopped thinking, "I want to know more about this person."

Now it's the end of the meal. . . .　

We met during the day for afternoon tea, but I made arrangements for after that.Afternoon tea ended in the evening.It is already dark outside.The days are getting shorter.I tried to invite him out of nowhere.

“Do you have time after this?”

I thought it would be refused, but the unexpected answer was

"No problem"

that?What does it mean?

If you think about it, that's what "dividing" means.It's not a matter of being liked or hated.However, since it is said that it is good, there is no option to refuse it from here.Perhaps it was my preconceptions, but even during the act, I could feel a sense of "divisibility" everywhere, and I could not reach the level of "healing" at all.

　After finishing for a while, her back staring silently at the night view of Tokyo alone was impressive.And the way she looked at me made me feel like I was going to part with her.

Later talk

　As expected, after that, the exchange of LINE stopped naturally.For the time being, since it's the last time, I tried sending "Happy New Year", but there was no reply.I didn't want to be so obsessed with it, so I was able to give up completely.And she left shortly after. (Maybe it's just a setting that I can't see the page)

　Thus, my activity, the first woman, seemed to end with two times, but I really don't know what a woman's heart is.Then one day after about half a year, LINE came from her.

“The exams are over and we have time, so would you like to meet again?”

　Since it was a message that I had taken the trouble to receive, I sent a reply to thank him and put a hold on him saying that I didn't know when I would be able to meet him because I was currently busy, but at the moment I don't think we will meet again.The passage of time is cruel.Six months later, the situation has changed drastically.I will write here about my changes in the half year from here.

Lesson learned this time

• Men should make reservations

• If the sense of division is strong, it will wither more than expected

This store

Shinjuku main store Takano Fruit Parlor

• 3F, 26-11-5 Shinjuku, Shinjuku-ku, Tokyo
• URL:https://takano.jp/parlour/originalmenu/detail/fruitstiara/

　There is no doubt that there is only a shop chosen by girls, and it is popular with girls.It's all-you-can-eat cut fruit, so it's really recommended for fruit lovers.
　There are no counter seats, and the inside of the store is super healthy and bright (laughs), so I can't recommend it if you're thinking about "afterwards".After you have a relationship where there is "after" even through bright places, or when it is the first time and you know that there is no "after" They should.