When you become a dad, there are always moments when you get lost

Dear fathers, how are you doing?

Last night, I spent the night with a woman at a hotel for the first time in a long time.

It's been a while, so it's a situation where the heat hasn't cooled down a bit yet.

Well, if you are a man who is a father and has been registered for a long time in a dating club, you will surely have experienced it.

Yes, the confusion at the first meeting with a woman.

Naturally, I think there are more women who can successfully sign a contract.

yes?Are you okay with making a contract with this girl?Don't you think?For example, I have a question at the first voice.

Some children suddenly speak in Tame language.

Therefore, although it is my own opinion, I would like to introduce here that it is better to refrain from contracting with such a woman.

Anyway, wording is important.

The language is always the most important thing for me when meeting a woman for the first time.

It's been quite a while since I registered with the dating club.

So I've seen women raised in a variety of home environments.

However, did you grow up in a pretty bad home environment?Anyway, there are women who have bad language.

For example, let's say you meet for the first time and drink coffee in the lounge.

Then, isn't this delicious?Or I'm hungry.

I don't think it's the first time I've met you... No, I'm getting older to some extent in the first place.

For such a person, suddenly speaking the language is quite difficult.

I will pull the don.

However, since I also have a tendency to look scary, I once made a contract in the past as long as I looked good.

No, it was really cold.

The content of her email is completely zero consideration for me.

And when I refuse because it doesn't fit my schedule, I get a reply like "Oh, see you later."

So I actually asked her about it.

Why are you talking like that?Could you speak a little more politely?When I said that, he retorted in a rude manner, saying, "I'm sorry you didn't have any class."

Have you been feeling that way for a long time?When I heard that, I didn't care about my age.

That's why it's been a Tame language for a long time.

I was even told that if I didn't like it, I could cancel the contract.

Of course, I canceled the contract immediately, but honestly it left a bad aftertaste.

There are others.

For example, while shopping at a store, the store clerk gives you an item with a commanding tone, looking down from above, etc.

Honestly, I was embarrassed to be with you.

That's when I realized that wording is really important.

You don't know everything about a woman when you meet her for the first time.

However, I felt that I should listen carefully to the conversation at the beginning and judge it.

A woman who only sends stamps by email

This is also one of the women I'm very bad at.

Of course, it is one of the gestures that women have after signing a contract.

So, it's a part that you don't know until after the contract.

Originally, there is one definition of a good woman that I have contracted so far.

It can be conveyed firmly with letters such as lines.

Even if it's a long sentence, he will tell you clearly and even type a letter to thank you.

So are you happy?And there was a part that was transmitted to this side.

But when it comes to women with more stamps than necessary, there aren't many letters.

Thank you stamps.

How do you like this?To be honest, I can't convey the feelings of the other person at all, and I can only get it if I send a stamp appropriately.

Furthermore, I would say that it is precisely because there is a woman who politely sends me a letter that my eyes catch my eye.

I definitely have to compare.

Until now, I have never been able to build a solid relationship of trust with a woman who has more stamps than necessary.

In addition, children with many stamps tend to suddenly stop replying. (It's just my experience)

That's why you can feel the feeling of sending stamps in your spare time.

It's better than bad language, but I still don't think I want to be with him for a long time.

And only for those who said so, there are many patterns of zero repayment.

A child who listens to me will cook home cooking or do something.

However, is a child with a lot of stamps rough and troublesome?

It seemed that the feeling of giving something back to the other party was lacking.

child who doesn't talk about himself

How should I personally handle this?I always worry.

Some men like girls who are a little mysterious.

Some people may say so, but I avoid basic contracts.

The reason is because I don't know the purpose of papa katsu.

Of course, I think there are reasons for each woman, but it is difficult to empathize with a child who does not talk about herself at all, even if it is only financial support.

That's why, when you can't sympathize, isn't it hard to say that you're helping from a dad's point of view?Even if it's a trivial thing, I want to bring my feelings there and want to be of some help.

But if the description there is zero, what can I do to help?So, even if it's a love game for a young woman, it doesn't have an atmosphere, or should I say that it cools down?

Am I just not having fun?

I have a feeling that I really want to see women doing their best.

So, even if it's cleaning the bathroom, if it costs money, I want to cooperate.

The reason is that it becomes a topic of conversation between just the two of you.

But if you don't say anything, it's nothing.

However, depending on the man who is a dad, I think there are people who want to have sex.

On the other hand, some people may find it troublesome to talk about various things and help them.

So, since my own goals and how to get along with women are the base, I'm basically not good at women who don't talk about themselves.

Some women who don't talk about themselves are very cautious.

I am fully aware of that too.

But will it loosen up over time?I have contracted in the past with the expectation.

However, the results were not good.

After all, women who couldn't tell me much about themselves on their first few dates had the same relationship even after dating for half a year.

Some of them were open to me, so I won't say everyone. (percentage is quite low)

However, if it were me now, I wouldn't think of signing a contract even if I shouldered that risk.

If you say it to the dating club, you can get a new introduction.

I find it more meaningful to spend money on women who are open-minded and purposeful, rather than spending time and money that is not wasted.

By all means, if there are people who are going to be dads, I would appreciate it if you could keep it in mind as a piece of wisdom and hope for a contract with a woman.