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How I Became a Dad

The reason why I wanted to become a “papa” in “Papa-katsu” was because I wanted a girl with a dream to have a bigger dream.

It's going to be a pretty personal story, but please bear with me.

I run a company and take it every year regardless of gender.

And I'm always disappointed at various drinking parties with young new graduates.

Also, every time I hear it.

Can you say "generation gap"?

At first, I was handling it in my head.

However, as the days go by, I wonder, "Is this really good?", "Is it really fun?"

Every time I hear the story, it's so boring that tears come out, and it's lonely and sad.

Living in the present age, "I wonder if my daughter is like this?"

Children today give up on their dreams too quickly, their dreams are too small, and they give up on them too quickly.

Compared to the past, there were many times when I thought, ``There are more fun things waiting for me,'' so pitifully.

When I advise them, "Why don't you make a little more effort and change the environment?" The part that said.

I always just think "poor".

I vaguely thought, "I wish I could be of some help."

However, I also can't throw money away meaninglessly to children I don't know and make meaningless donations.

I am not a volunteer organization.


So, I met "girls with dreams and big hopes" through women's "papa katsu", and I thought, "What if we adults could help, even if just a little?"

We adults may be the reason why today's young girls have given up on their dreams and lost hope for a great future.

I thought both.

In the first place, it is enough to say that this is a “social phenomenon?”

Papa-katsu doesn't just give the other party some pocket money. The feeling of being there.

So, in other words, I think of it as an “investment” in young plants called “papa katsu”.
(I also like the part where I can invest with my own pleasure, which I don't go through at all, such as companies. I feel good because I'm investing in a place where I have nothing to do with ties and useless adult opinions from the outside.)

I have one daughter, who is already an adult.

There is no problem if you put a certain amount of money into your wife.
(It's a bad way to put it, but that's how it goes with relationships between middle-aged couples.)

If I'm alone, frankly speaking, I almost never spend the money I've saved.

Even if I say I use it, it's my daily hobby of golf and weekend fishing.

After that, light eating out.

In that case, invest in something that you can “empathize” with and “support”.

Is there anything more significant than this?

The older I get, the more I want to invest in these things.

It may be a bad analogy, but it would be great if you could buy a horse, run it, and win.

It may feel like this.

On top of that, you can also get healing from the other woman.

I think that all men who are dads are thinking, but this healing.

Most people think that real healing can be bought with money.

However, there are many different types of healing.

"Money purpose" and "healing given by the other party" are not all healed.

Of course, the place will be healed.

However, since it is not "healing" with "satisfaction from the bottom of my heart", it disappears from me immediately.

However, "investing" in "women who work as dads" and "healing obtained there" are different.

The top premise is that the other woman also says, "I want to make a dream come true" rather than "I want money".

A woman who is one or two times younger than me, who I usually don't meet first.
(Benefits that you can meet with peace of mind because it is a dating club)

Such a woman is purely as a sponsor, not for money.No, I will be spoiled here as a papa.

On the other hand, the satisfaction of being able to fulfill the dream of this side and the woman side together.

The women give us a sense of comfort with their smiles and their usual private lives.

There are times when he acts as a cook.
(The homemade lunch we ate together was really delicious.)

To be honest, it may be a part that only "men who have become dads" can understand.

That's a different dimension from "single-shot healing bought with money".

After that, there are many people who are addicted to gambling and cabaret clubs as they get older.

From my point of view, spending money on such things is a waste of money.

The joy of being able to dream together is amazing.

From my point of view, if I were to compare the areas of “fun” with “spending the same amount of money,” wouldn’t it be more fun to see the growth of young children?

Besides, I honestly thought that this would lead to a contribution to society for young children.

In fact, when I became a dad, there was only a plus for me.

By the way, he often recommends and talks about it with his friends, saying, "Why don't you try being a dad once?"