New encounters and contracts as a dad due to the corona wreck

The last two years have been quite a year.

In particular, the virus called corona was a serious disease that reached not only the body but also the spirit of people.

That said, there were some aspects that honestly didn't make sense to a slightly older person like me.

For example, how do people who have lost their jobs earn money and survive the recession?

In our time, when it comes to big changes, the collapse of the bubble economy is still remembered.

However, a global crisis like the current corona was an event that even I, who is reasonably old, had never experienced before.

Well, it was worse than the 911.

However, I wonder if there is anything I can do to help.

I was thinking about various things myself.

In the meantime, I decided to take the action of listening to the woman who was originally contracted because I wanted to hear the stories of the young people.

This is surprisingly difficult.

Due to the corona crisis, women have been refused many times because it is difficult for them to go outside.

I must have been insensitive.

For me, it was a proposal that tried to invite people to pick me up and tried to keep it out of the public eye as much as possible.

It was very difficult.

I can't say too much to my partner, but I want to meet and see your face.

From the female side, I was able to hear the voice of the phone many times.

Personally, I was unsatisfied.

So, I had some time to think about it, what is the meaning of the contract?It was also connected to asking.

In that case, it goes without saying that I created a considerable sense of distance, including the frequency of contact with women, although this is a matter of course.

The minimum requirement for the contract with her was to meet him, so the result was that he gradually lost contact with her without being able to give her a lifeboat.

Am I okay with the other woman's life?Are you paying your rent every month?I loved her like a daughter, so that was the only thing that worried me.

At this point, the only thing I can do in my private life is to help the women around me.

However, I ended up canceling the contract without having it for XNUMX months.

She was a woman I really liked, so I wanted to know more about her.

That's exactly why I wanted to see him chasing his dreams a little more, but it didn't come true.

Therefore, it was exactly one year ago, in the midst of the corona virus, that I consulted with a dating club and was introduced to a new woman.

My anxiety is, will I be able to love women in the same way again?Are you as attached as before?I was quite anxious and full.

Perhaps there are many people who have become fathers and have had similar experiences?Please do not worry.

I am one of them.

However, the great thing about dating clubs is that they introduce you to women who will satisfy you.

The first meeting was the lobby of ANA Continental.

The moment I met him, I fell in love at first sight despite my age.

I liked it immediately.

The other woman was also very positive and agreed to sign a contract.

That said, it's not all about happiness.

In me, there is a little uneasy element, and there is also a half-trusted side.

It means it's a corona misfortune now.

Also, is it possible that you have lost contact or cannot meet?I have a lot of things to think about.

However, even if I think about it, it all depends on the opponent.

I decided to let myself go.

However, within a week after signing the contract, things changed.

From the women's side, they actively make various proposals.

To give an actual example, since the corona virus will be hard on my dad, why don't we meet in a private room like this?Or, on days when we can't meet, shall we communicate via videophone?Such.

To be honest, I got a lot of ideas that the woman I had a contract with before didn't come up with.

I was really happy with just that, and above all, I felt a little rejuvenated.

I still remember that it was the momentum to forget the corona misfortune.

This was a new encounter.

I can say this from my own experience, but I really felt that the basic way of thinking is different depending on the woman.

The woman in front was not bad.

I think one of the reasons why I don't want to think negatively is because it's a good memory.

However, if you compare it in terms of correspondence.

I didn't have resistance to the virus called corona in the world.

I think that's all.

But the newly contracted woman had it.

So he was able to show me a lot of suggestions.

I really felt that this was the only part.

Perhaps I have been very lucky.

Other dads are forced to spend their time lazily without such a proposal, aren't they?

I suddenly thought about it.

Isn't it possible for people who have become dads to actively make more and more proposals?I was able to feel it from the previous reflection point.

In reality, I was thinking only about caring for the other person, and even if I said that I would make a proposal, it was all about wanting to meet, which I wrote above, and it was too lenient for basic infection control.

I wasn't even able to talk to him sympathetically.

Not really popular.

今But I have a lot to learn from young people.

The women who are working as dads with affection for both of us have a solid way of thinking.

When I think about it now, I can say that I was able to meet the woman I am today because of the corona crisis.

Because the world is in recession, aren't we, who became dads, able to feel more affection from women than before?

Of course, the opposite should also be true.

I want to say

It's great to be a dad.

Thanks to all of you, every week is really fulfilling.

Thanks also to the dating club.

And above all, the joy of being able to support the girls who are working as dads, even if just a little, gives me a sense of satisfaction that money can't buy.