become aware of adults

The temperature has risen a little recently.

It was a little warm day in Tokyo today.

Recently, sex has become a hot topic among dads.

Surprisingly, a lot of people around me have become dads, so I drink with like-minded people almost every week.

The content of the talk on the spot is surprisingly deep.

For what reason did you sign the contract?Or how was your first meeting?Or surprisingly, he talks frankly, and if I am asked, I will talk about it in detail.

After all, men.

On the topic, how about SEX?I'm also asked, and sometimes I ask the other person.

To be honest, people of our age sometimes make mistakes when playing with young women.

Isn't that the same age as the other woman?I get confused sometimes.

To put it another way, I am enjoying myself so much, and to the extent that I forget my age, I think that it is good to be able to devote myself to something.

However, when it comes to the topic of sex, it is often pulled back to reality.

First of all, how do you have relationships with women?That's the point.

Our generation does not bring basic condoms.

No, it's not that I forgot and didn't bring it.

If you are a father reading this, I think there are many people who say that they remember it.

In a nutshell, I think this is a part that I have to be aware of as an adult.I think so.

The other is a young woman.

In the first place, one of the reasons why condoms are not used is that there are various reasons such as feeling bad or troublesome.

This is probably the reason only a man can understand.

However, as I think I'm this age, I've recently come to think that it's not good to have sex without using contraceptives.

I used to not wear it until now, and when I did, I had a problem with feeling bad and not being able to finish until the end.

That's why I didn't put it on, and I've been thinking about the need to put it on.

I came to think that this itself was a really irresponsible act to embrace a young woman.

So, to all men who are dads like me, are you wearing a condom in sexual intercourse?When I asked, they didn't have them all.

I also hadn't done it in the past, so I wasn't in a position to preach to them, so I took the style of thinking together while shaking the topic.

From a young woman's point of view, we are adults.

And have a sexual relationship with such a young woman.

There is of course responsibility.

However, adults who ignore the rules despite the fact that responsibility is born.

A rule is a part that gives priority to the one-sided pleasure part of the man who does not consider the position of the woman. (It seems that there are some women who dislike contraceptives, but I'm talking about the majority.)

I think we have to reconsider.

Papa is certainly in a position to play with young women as he pleases.

Besides, since the women are receiving allowances, they will be more considerate.

However, is it really enough to have such a relationship?Is it not?I talked passionately with those around me.

Somehow, I feel like I can't help but create a composition that can't be helped even if people around me say that I'm forced to have a relationship with a woman using my dad's standing position.

It's a matter of course, but a woman who works as a dad can refuse and cancel the contract.

But if you're a dad, you'll understand.

Haven't you ever seen a scene where most women who work as dads are in a hurry in their lives, including money?Yes, I can't afford it.

That's why the relationship between the papa and the woman who made a contract once.

The other woman also wants to avoid canceling the basic contract.

That's why I'm in a situation where I follow the men's requests with a smile?I felt.

Of course, I want to believe that the female side also liked this and signed the contract.

However, I feel that we should not forget the place called "a woman who is working as a daddy".

If you are with a woman for a long time, you will have a physical relationship and the other person will probably forgive you.

However, instead of being spoiled by it, as dads we stand, I think that "adult common sense behavior" will be tested.

No matter how much you don't like rubber, wouldn't it be okay for a man to offer rubber on the spot?I thought.

This also leads to concerns about diseases for women.

Of course, there are cases in which women have illnesses.

Considering this, contraceptives are essential if you are going to have a SEX relationship with a woman who works as a dad.

Or rather, wouldn't it be nice to have it as a basic rule among us dads?

Besides, doesn't this also lead to "I take care of the contracted woman"?I think that's a very important point.

I always use condoms now.

There are times when women say it's unnecessary, but I always try to wear it.

I don't use condoms and argue with women, and on the contrary, I'm sometimes asked, "Are you thinking about it?"

Even around me, more and more people are using condoms when having sex with women who are dads, and I personally recommend it to everyone.

I asked one of my contracted women what she thought about it.

She also said that she would have been happier if she had used a condom.

However, he also said that it would be difficult to refuse without rubber when it comes to the atmosphere of the place.

Besides, he said that he was indebted to him, and that he wanted to please papa, and that it was complicated.

Hearing that made me feel a little pathetic as a man.

I felt that I should have had the "feeling of caring for others" that I said a little earlier.

I've never used a condom in the past either.

That's why I can't deny people who don't have it now.

However, I can tell people I meet, even if it's soft at a drinking table, and I'm actually doing it.

A young and beautiful papa active girl.

If you're our age, you'll want to have sex without a condom.

However, I think it's important to play with a certain amount of common sense as a dad.

And I have a feeling that such a delicate issue will become an important theme for men who are fathers in the future.