【Questions】

Is it okay to go on a first date at a family restaurant?　

50s male

(This question was sent to the dating club "Universe")

[URL]https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/13085

 

[Answer]

Thank you very much for your question.

This question is about dad life.Therefore, if the allowance is good, the other woman is likely to not complain at least on the surface, whether it is a family restaurant or a Mac.Rather, I have to say that daddy active girls who go to a family restaurant and say giggle are rude but lack professionalism.

He is a man in his fifties who chooses a family restaurant for the first date.And I have enough assets to register in the universe.

You can get as much money as you want if you say, "It's fun anywhere with Mr. XX," but I have to say that I'm a third-rate daddy girl who misses that chance.

 

Well, basically I am against using a family restaurant for a first date.To be precise, it would be more correct to say that it is extremely inefficient for men to choose family restaurants on their first date.

There are certainly women who think that "family restaurants are fine", but women who think so don't get angry at a decent restaurant.On the other hand, there are also a certain number of women who think, "I don't like it unless it's a decent restaurant," so it's an extremely irrational choice to choose a family restaurant at a stage where you can't make that decision. prize.

However, this time it's about dad life.Of course, the current rationale is sufficient as a reason to oppose family restaurants, but when it comes to papa katsu, there is another extremely important reason.

As the name suggests, Famiresu is a restaurant for families.Yasuhiko Masagaki, the founder of Saizeriya, said in his book, "Saizeriya is a place where you can enjoy meals with friends and family."

The questioner and the other woman are neither friends nor family.In other words, if you put it to the extreme, you are an "uninvited guest".

Of course, even uninvited guests should not be refused entry to Saizeriya.However, if you find yourself as an uninvited guest, I think it is the behavior that adults should not use for their own sake and for the sake of the store.

Especially when it comes to dad activities, you will probably talk about allowances and so on on the first date.The story is not suitable for a family restaurant.

 

In short, you can read the atmosphere.Of course, even if you have a conversation at a family restaurant saying, "How about XNUMX at a time with an adult?"However, it's a different story if you don't hate it just because you can't be punished.I'm usually just a disgusting customer.

So even if both the questioner and the other woman think it's okay to go to a family restaurant, isn't it still an adult's preference not to use a family restaurant on the first date of Papa-katsu?