There are good and bad for women who live as dads

Recently, I have something to think about myself.

It's about the characteristics of a woman who works as a dad.

I have been told one thing by my friends around me.

I can't get it out of my head, so I wonder if it's my duty to tell you in a place like this?he thought.

After I became a father, I met many women and, of course, said goodbye.

However, in the encounter part, I noticed that I didn't really talk about the so-called not-so-good episode of a woman who said, "I met you, but there is no development after that." she (or was pointed out)

A friend of mine said something like, "Are you saying only good things about being a dad? Is there something behind it? A bad episode or something?"

Certainly he has a point.

I have a lot of joyful stories about becoming a basic dad.

But it's true.

It's been a long time since I became a dad, and I've met many women through dating clubs.

There are basically few unpleasant memories there.

But when I think about it, it would be a lie if I was asked, "Was everything going well?"

Then, when you look back at yourself, was it your fault?If you ask yourself, you can say "NO" with confidence.

What is the basis for that?

Originally, from the beginning when I became a dad, I was concerned about the other woman to some extent.

I'm a shy person by nature. . .

There is a place where you can see the other person's complexion, and this is why you avoid saying "self-centered" opinions even in private. (This has been the case for a long time.)

That's why I don't think it's basic that the other person thinks I'm self-centered. (Especially for women)

Even for me, there were women who were uncontrollable dads.

I didn't sign a contract with such a woman, and I only had a faint memory of her.

In that case, of course, I wouldn't even bring up the topic from my own mouth. (He won't talk even if people ask him)

However, if I tell people around me how easy it is to be a dad, from the listener's point of view, it might be "important."

So, this time, I'm thinking of telling everyone about my experience, "Beware of women who start like this."

A woman who is only fiddling with her smartphone when meeting for the first time

This may come as a surprise.

So aren't men normal?Many people feel that way.

But that's a big mistake. (I didn't even care at first)

If it's me now, I wouldn't overlook it.

 

If it's the first time you meet a woman who behaves like that, you basically don't want a long-term contract on the spot. (If she doesn't do well, she will end up with just tea on the spot.)

This is my experience. (Please understand that this may not apply to everyone.)

Anyway, when meeting a woman for the first time, she is always fiddling with her smartphone.

What do you think of a woman who spends all her time fiddling with her smartphone when you're with her?I honestly don't feel so good.

The reason is that I don't think it will happen during our time together.

What are you paying for?There is also myself who starts to think about it, and I can't help but pay attention to the other person.

Perhaps most men who are dads can't pay attention to that situation?Even if it's not a warning, why are you always looking at your smartphone screen when you're with me?I can't even say that.

Originally, explaining common sense as a person out loud may not be a good thing for a young woman.

The reason for this is that the place will inevitably become a sermon-like atmosphere.

Therefore, a man who keeps silent.

A woman who doesn't quit her smartphone, thinking that if she takes care of her, she will be forgiven for her behavior.

If you ask me, you don't need to worry about a woman who says this.

Also, a woman who works as a daddy, and a "good woman" basically never does such an act even if she sees it for the first time. (I can assure you)

why not?It's because I know that this is jealous and hateful.

And above all, this is the feeling of being able to pay allowances and help yourself = gratitude.

Besides, you don't have to say that to a man out loud.

But can't you tell just by looking at their actions?Does this woman have respect for us?aren't you?Papa-katsu is a relationship that can never be established if there is no mutual love between the papa and the woman.

In particular, there is an age gap between us and women.

From the beginning, I had no intention of imposing the common sense that an adult man has on a young woman, nor should I have any intention of receiving sympathy from her.

However, when it comes to making friends in the same space, I would like you to have at least the right amount of behavior in a contract with a woman.

I wonder if I've become accustomed to meeting a lot of women now.

Originally, I was shy, but I became quite open, and I was able to convey my thoughts on the spot.

So, if I met such an insane woman now, I would say, “Is that a habit? I'm happy." I think I'll say it.

So, if there is no prospect of improvement, we will never sign a contract.

This is no matter how beautiful the child is.

However, I would like to add my little piece of advice.

Basically, when you first meet a woman who only looks at her smartphone and can't talk to you properly, it's better to just give her your feet and leave on the spot.

Certainly, there are cases such as "a woman who will improve after that" or "I can't look at my smartphone because I'm nervous at the moment".

As for improved women, that's a pretty rare case as far as I've seen.

A woman who is nervous, looking at her smartphone and can't look directly at her.

As for this, I think you'll understand if you're together on the spot for about 20 minutes.

Shy women do exist, and I have met many times in the past with women who said so.

However, if you have a little tea, you will be able to put down your smartphone and look at this.

I also didn't want to give up on a smartphone like this.

Regarding this, if I allow it at the beginning, it will be tiring for me to pay attention to it for months. (Exactly what my experience says.)

However, if it's a really dry relationship and you don't talk about anything, it may be an ant if it's a "body only relationship" or a "short-term relationship."

I really want to get along with women for a long time, so I can't recommend it to such people.

By all means, please observe the woman carefully when you meet her for the first time.