"Woman is wise in the way of love" "Woman is foolish in the way of Daddy"

"Women are wise in the path of love"
This means that when it comes to falling in love, women are much better at it than men and can get along with it.
In short, it is women who have various techniques in "love tactics".
There are various things, such as casual body touches, enthusiastic gestures, and meaningful lines, as well as words and actions with a deeper purpose.
What about dad life?

"Women are fools on Daddy's way"

However, in "papa katsu"I can't continue with a good dad because I can't do decent bargaining and do very stupid thingsWomen are leaving no trace.
For example, what would happen?

• ignore the market
• show demeanor
• Do not send thank you or thank you messages
• Ignore unread messages for days after sending them
• request a price increase later
• not deliver promised service

This is probably the most talked about topic.
Let's look at them one by one.

ignore the market

What do you mean by "ignoring the market"?
You entered a restaurant in an office district.
Then, all the dishes on the menu are expensive!
Double or even triple the market price.I asked the chef.
"Why this pricing?"
“Our store used to operate in Ginza, and everyone paid this amount. Therefore, this is the price.”
However, this is not Ginza but an ordinary office district.
If you were told this, wouldn't you silently leave this shop?
I can't understand why you have to pay twice or three times the market price.
Even if a chef says, "I believe my restaurant is better than the surrounding restaurants."
This is a normal reaction, isn't it?
Let's think about it in terms of dad life.
"I'm an adult 10 because my dad gave me that much."
"I'm 30 on a monthly basis. My previous dad signed a contract with that, and I don't want to sell myself at a bargain price."
This is the same as a restaurant charging an extremely high price, isn't it?
“At my restaurant, a meat dish costs 3. In Ginza, everyone was satisfied with that.”
"A course at my restaurant is 10. I'm confident in my cooking, so I never sell it cheap."
If you can hear that and say, "That's true!" and pay easily, you don't need to read further.
Why is the price that was paid before still valid?

Let's think about it for a moment.
A restaurant is set up and priced based on the attributes of the customer at that location.
For example, if there are a lot of salaried workers, the price will be priced so that they can eat with their pocket money, and if there are many high-class wives, even if they serve a slightly expensive lunch, it will sell.
And it should be the same when it comes to love.
If the person you want to go out with is a college student and you don't have money, you'll probably go to a chain store, and if you're a salaried worker with a certain annual income, it's embarrassing if it's not a slightly expensive store.The natural behavior of "thinking about the other person's pocket"And the.
But why can't it be done with "Papa-katsu"?
It is natural that there is a difference in the amount that can be paid by the father, so it is necessary to consider the financial condition of the father.

show demeanor

The next step is to show a lowly attitude.
You ordered a course meal at a French restaurant.
Then the chef comes and says.
"Would you like to order an additional truffle? Actually, it's a special truffle and the best quality."
"How much is that?"
"Yes, 10."
When you hear this, you will think
Why do I have to pay such a high additional charge all of a sudden?
Even though you have to pay the course fee separately.

Of course, in French cuisine and sushi, this kind of service is commonplace, and it is common to say "order with an additional charge".
But if you don't like the store, you probably won't pay for it.
However, the dad active girl who has not met many times says.
"Actually, there is a brand bag that I want, would you like to go see it together?"When.
If you look at the price, it's 20, 30!
Why should you pay such a high surcharge to someone you don't even know well?
Moreover, even though the service for the price was not promised.
"I mean, that's what daddy life is all about, right?"
You may feel thatWould you suddenly ask someone you care about for a bag that costs 20?
If you do that, I think you'll be stunned.
Even if there isAfter dating, ask for a special dayIsn't it?
Even my dad won't refuse a birthday gift if it's someone he's built a certain amount of trust with.
However, even though they haven't built a relationship of trust yet, if you show them this kind of money-laden attitude, that's all it takes to cool off a man.
It's because I feel like "I think it's just a golden vine after all," and it cools down.

Do not send thank you or thank you messages

Next, let's think about "Don't send thank-you or thank-you messages."
This includes not only the message but also the importance of expressing gratitude properly.
After meeting and eating with daddy, there are many dads who expect "thank you words" before parting and "thank you LINE" after parting.
This means"It's natural to say thank you when someone does something for you."Because there is a common sense that.
But many women skip the parting words and this message, which can be sent in just a few minutes.

please think about it.
Go to a French restaurant where you serve 2 courses and have a meal,What if none of the staff bowed their heads without saying "thank you" even though I left the store saying "thank you for the meal" on the way home?How about that?
Don't you think that's impossible?
On the other hand, if the staff and chef come out to the table and see me off on my way home, I think, ``This is a wonderful restaurant, I will come again.''Isn't it?
If you haven't sent a "thank you LINE", this is what you are doing.
If this is the person you want to be your boyfriend, you don't want them to think badly, so you should send something like "Thank you for today. .
However, as soon as I'm a daddy, I can't do this obvious thing.

Ignore unread messages for days after sending them

Now, let's think about "ignore unread for days when you send a message".
This is also a phenomenon in which even though the father sent a message to adjust the schedule, it is left unread and ignored for days.
"I'm busy too, so I don't have time to hang out with LINE like that."
you might want to say
Then ifI sent an e-mail to the store because I wanted to make a reservation for a restaurant where you go with a man you like.Think about it.
"I'd like to make a reservation for two people from 18:2 on ○○ day, are you available?"
like thisIf you didn't get a reply for three days, or even a week, even though you sent an email, you'd think, "What a restaurant. The staff aren't trained." Let's stop going frommaybe.
Since you want to confirm your appointment with him, it is important whether you can make a reservation at the restaurant.
But if you don't get a reply, it's definitely frustrating.
In the same way, the act of ``ignoring LINE'' will only be considered ``rude'' by dad.
You should at least mark it as read and give a brief reply within 24 hours.
Because you will pay tens of thousands of yen to meet once.
And it's especially important when Dad wants to schedule an appointment.
Dad is busy, and he needs to coordinate his work and book shops and hotels.

request a price increase later

Next is "Request a price increase later".
If you were going to your favorite restaurant, one day suddenly“We are going to raise our prices from now on, so the price will go up by 1 yen from now on.What would you do if you said
Would you be willing to pay an extra 1 yen to say, "I thought this store was worth it too!"?
It's not like that, you won't go there anymore if you think "Don't be silly".

No restaurant would do such a stupid thing in the first place.
Of course, there are times when we will raise the price.Even so, isn't it normal to take a method that doesn't make the customer angry as much as possible, such as explaining why there is no way to do it, for example, that the ingredients are soaring?
But this common sense doesn't work in dad activities.
"If it's okay with Mr. ○○, can you give me an allowance?"
As for you, "Other dads are giving out more, and I don't want to see them, so if you don't give me an allowance, I don't have to see them anymore." It may be that you are thinking about it.
but this isJust like a restaurant that raises prices for no reason, it only makes the other party feel uncomfortable..
Instead of simply saying "I want to raise the price", there are ways to say "I want to meet more often" or "I want to pay monthly", and there are many ways to say it that don't make the other person uncomfortable.
When you're bargaining for love, you don't make the other person uncomfortable for no reason.

not deliver promised service

Now let's consider perhaps the most important issue: not delivering promised service.
You ordered a French restaurant course.
Today's main dish seems to be "grilled beef fillet in pie".
you are very much looking forward to
But the chef said before the main dish came out.
"I'm not in the mood for that today, so no main dish."
Or
"I ran out of ingredients today, so I didn't have a main dish."
How would you feel if you were the customer?
Even though you're here to eat the main dish in the first place, you might think, "What is this guy talking about?"

But this is a common thing in dad life, isn't it?
"I don't feel like going to the hotel today, so I don't want to go."
"Today, I'm a girl, so I can't even go to the hotel."
This is nothing but an act of shelving what daddy thought was "a matter of course".
Papa has been looking forward to it in the first place, so you know what it means to suddenly take it away.
Menstrual phenomena can be unavoidable, so at least telling them in advance will not hurt daddy's feelings.
If this is also a bargaining for love, you shouldn't do such a thing.

women are not cooks

I've been talking about restaurants so far, but women may say this.
"Women are not cooks, they are human beings"When.
But sadly basically“Papa-katsu is the provision of services through money”Such you.
At the same time, we must understand that what restaurants really offer is service, not food.
Unfortunately, women who don't understand that don't get along well with dad activities.

• understanding the market
• don't be humble
• to express gratitude and appreciation
• Respond as soon as possible
• Don't raise prices you don't understand
• deliver promised services

This is a natural idea for a service like a restaurant,There are very few women who understand this through the service Papa-katsu..
However, the fact that there are many women who do not understand such an obvious thing,If you are a woman who can imagine the other person, you can easily meet a good dadThat's what it means.
If you're a woman who doesn't know because you've never run a restaurant, you should think about it from the customer's point of view. It's easy to see what you shouldn't do.

A Final Word

There are a lot of women who do incredibly stupid things in papa katsu.
So,A smart woman will be chosen as a good partner just by thinking normally, and you can also choose a good partnerSo it is.
By doing so, you will be able to maintain a long-lasting relationship with them, and you will be able to make a lot of profit in the end.
Remember that what you are offering is a "service".
That's all, your dad life should be going well.
Of course, men can have the same way of thinking, so it is important to think about everything from the other person's point of view.