A woman who is poorly brought up

I'm sure most men who become fathers have a certain level of upbringing.

I feel like the people who grew up without any problems since childhood, including my friends, are now fathers.

I am no exception to that.

To be honest, I've never had a problem with money since I was little, and basically everything I wanted was always at home, and if I needed it, someone would always buy it for me.

I'm sure that at least once, for me and other people who have become fathers, we have looked at those around us and felt envious.

For example, everyone who has become a father may have experienced this, but it is a learning experience.

It's especially easy to understand when you're in elementary school.

Were we able to play while everyone else was playing outside?At my house, we basically had lessons for all six days of the week. (The rest of the day, I study at home.)

That's why I don't remember having fun playing outside with my classmates.

That's why I was envious of my classmates who were able to play freely.

Moreover, no matter how much money the family had, there were things they couldn't buy.

It's games and comic books.

I was told that these things were unnecessary in my education, so they bought me clothes, shoes, and everything else, but my classmates were laughing and talking about them, and they never talked about games or comic books. I couldn't go.

Even when I think about it now, I really envy my classmates from back then.

But now I am grateful to my parents.

I think I am who I am today because of the time I spent there studying and taking lessons instead of having fun, and I think I am able to become an adult and have a lot of fun.

I'm sure there are many men who have become fathers who were in a similar situation to me.

I feel truly free when I look at women who are working as fathers while remembering their past.

Even now, I think there are many children who are receiving the same kind of education as us.

I have never met a woman who seems to have had a similar education to me as a father.

It's not that I look down on fatherhood.

However, I'm talking about a level where I think it's good to have freedom.

If you had this much freedom when you were younger, what kind of life would you lead?This is what I think when I look at women who are active fathers.

Meanwhile, half a year ago, I met a woman who was active as a father.

To be honest, I don't think many people ask about their partner's upbringing when they first meet.

The reason is that it's rude to get too involved when you first meet someone.

However, this day was different.

The woman began to reveal herself.

``To be honest, I don't have as much money as you.And my parents are single parents.Also, when I was in high school, I was going crazy with alcohol.I think that's why my family was on welfare from the middle of my life. .I couldn't go to university because I didn't have money.'' (I wondered if it was because I had a bad upbringing? Is it okay?)

Yeah?Wait a minute?What do you want to tell me at this point?I couldn't understand it.

So I answered:

"It must have been really difficult. So maybe I should help you with the money to go to school?"

When asked, she answered:

"No, I'm not thinking about going to university now. I also think that's my life. I also have a dream. That is to go to nail school and open my own shop. .I want to save up that money.”

At that time, I listened to her conversation with half-belief.

As for her appearance, she has a good figure, but her face is average. (Lori face not my type)

However, there was something about her that attracted me to the way she revealed herself to me when we met for the first time.

So I told her this.

I'd say something like, ``If it's okay with me, you can sign a contract at all.However, I honestly felt that today's conversation was quite heavy, so why don't we start becoming friends on a lighter note?''

Then she smiled and said, "Yes."

From there, I started dating her, and over the days I got to know many different sides of her.

Anyway, I think it's not her fault, but her parents' fault.

For example, when it comes to eating, I can't hold chopsticks properly.

In other words, you hold your hands like sticks, and use chopsticks deftly by grasping them.

I'm able to grab some food, but it's uncomfortable to watch.

Also, when I often separate food, I don't hold the serving plates too close, so things tend to fall off.

This is also very bad manners.

I suddenly thought.

Should I teach something that my parents didn't teach me?But what will happen to this child if no one teaches him?I became worried.

So, even though I was prepared to be hated, I slowly taught her all the manners that I said to her.

Then, what is it?

She accepts my words with an attitude of learning without any resistance.

That's why she had a habit of leaving her shoes all over the place even in hotels.

I made sure to point out that part as well.

Instead of making the atmosphere worse, they accepted my words with a smile and said, ``Yes, I'll fix it next time.''

When working as a father, many women have the impression that they have a lot of pride because of their good looks.

Also, a lot of the women I've signed contracts with in the past were very proud.

But she's different.

He is very honest and is very receptive.

So, it feels good to point this out as well.

Maybe this kid was worth signing?Was it fate in your life to meet me?That's what I thought.

Six months after signing a contract with her.

I still have a contract with him, and to be honest, he's perfect in all manners.

From what I've seen, she seems to have the best manners out of all the women currently under contract.

Women can change so much if they are ready to accept things.

When I first met her, I had the impression that she had a very poor upbringing, and even when we were eating, she had terrible manners. (She probably didn't know anything.)

However, she patiently taught me a lot for half a year.

As a result, he is now someone I would never want to break a contract with.

There is also the joy of nurturing women from within, and I am glad that I was able to sign on as a father.

It's hard to meet a woman like this who gives you the pleasure of nurturing your inner self in a father's life.