when you meet a woman in person

When I first met the girl, I remember being very nervous because of my age.

The first was the hotel lobby.

And I remember having coffee with him.

I can't forget "that tension" even now.
(in a good way of course)

I heard "the story of her dream" there.

She told me that she wanted to become an actress overseas in the future, but now she wants to learn English and needs funds.

Also, what happened when you asked me to go to the gym and aim for perfection in order to build my body?

I was also impressed by her "stoicness", and above all, I was very happy that she "consulted honestly" with an old man like me.

"I want to take lessons to become an actress," she said.

But when I was doing a normal job, he told me that "I don't have enough money at all" and "My family isn't that wealthy."

So he said, "I met me when I was about to give up on my dream."

Somehow, I thought, "Is it destined for me to become her daddy?"

I just got excited about such a story with her in the hotel lobby.

When I met her for the first time, I was honestly happy.

The reason may be "luck of the women you meet".

However, when she openly opened up to me, even though she had a big dream and wanted to rely on me, it was really "I can't explain it in words".

It was also the moment when I felt, "There is nothing that makes me happier than being able to support someone's dream together."
(Maybe I should say it's the feeling of regaining the excitement that I had forgotten.)

Originally, before I met her, I had a bit of a stereotype about young girls.

The younger generation gives up on “dreams and hopes,” which is the most important thing for human beings to live.


That was my impression.


For example, I haven't heard anything like "I want to do this" or "I will do my best to become like this" for a long time, so I was really happy inside.

I honestly thought, "Okay, let's support her," and above all, just listening to her talk made me feel fulfilled every day, and I remember, "I can picture her working very hard."


After such a conversation, I went to "Dinner at Keio Hotel".

We talked a lot during that time.

Even just having a conversation with him made me feel like I was gaining energy.
(The smiles of young children talking about their dreams are really motivating.)

When I think about it now, it might have been closer to the feeling that I was receiving investment from her on the mental side.

Maybe I was the one who was saved.
(At that time, I didn't really have anything in my daily life to put my energy into. It was all the more so.)

At that time, I thought that the young women who are working hard are "extremely energetic" and I can feel their "naked power".

I felt it with my skin at that time.

It is true that I helped financially.

However, I felt that she gave me "mental support that money can't buy", so at that time I felt very strongly that "GIVE AND TAKE" was firmly established.