Conversation Tips for a Popular First Date at a Dating Club

Dating clubs and papa activities are used as places to meet adults.

Even if you make it to the first date, some people may not know what kind of conversation to have with a woman.

Even if the meeting is based on the expectation of an adult relationship, I still feel uncomfortable if the talk/conversation does not mesh.

Also, if the talk is not exciting, the woman may get bored or feel boring.

In that case, it is obvious that it will be difficult to build a long-term relationship after the second or third time.

This time, we will summarize the points of conversations and talks that are popular in dating clubs and dad activities.
 

NG talk at the dating club is dirty jokes?

This time, there are tips for popular conversations.

However, in the first place, there may be men who are developing NG talks against women.

Some people may find it easier to build a long-term relationship with a woman just by suppressing NG talk.

After all, dating clubs and dad activities are special encounters unlike ordinary communities.

Therefore, there are some NG talks unique to dating clubs.

The two typical NG talks that men tend to fall into are:


<NG talks that should not be done at dating clubs or dad activities>

● boasting
●Lower story


Most of the men who use dating clubs are the so-called wealthy people.

By talking about your own achievements with pleasure, you may unconsciously convey it as a boast to your partner.

As a woman, stories that sound like bragging and stories of bravery are often NG.

Therefore, you may want to make a conscious effort to refrain from boasting.

Also, dating clubs are places where adults meet, so it's easy to mistakenly think that dirty jokes are OK.

However, many women don't like excessive dirty jokes.

Especially if you are meeting at a dating club or dad activity, we recommend that you behave like a gentleman.

If you expose your own desires too much, you may be attracted to them.
 

Talk points that increase favorability at dating clubs

In the previous section, we have summarized the points of NG talk at the dating club.

Now that you know the basics of bad conversation, next is a talk that will increase your favorability at the dating club.

Dating clubs and daddy activities often require a moderate sense of distance, such as a financial relationship, rather than a romantic relationship from the beginning.

Therefore, even if dirty jokes are out of the question, it might be a good idea to refrain from persuading her.

I will list the points of talk that will increase favorability in the dating club.


have knowledge
● Chatting is fun
Make women feel comfortable talking
●Don't gossip
●Do not blindly ask about the background of the other party.


I feel that it is easier to go well if you develop a talk with these five points as points.

First of all, the main premise is that the main character is a woman, not a man.

Therefore, with the spirit of hospitality, create a flow for women to have a pleasant conversation.

Also, most men who use dating clubs are over the age of 40.

If you have age-appropriate knowledge, it will be easier for you to make a good impression with a well-informed person.

Therefore, it is a good idea to refrain from conversations that make you feel like a student during a date.

In dating clubs, there are many women who want to hide their identities and gain virtue.

Therefore, it is not a good idea to pry into someone's background when the relationship is weak, such as on a first date.

Rather, I recommend that you start by deepening your relationship by expanding the conversation centered on chatting.

It's also important not to over-promise on the first date.

Of course, depending on the person, there will be cases where you can argue.

However, dating clubs are rather clean meeting places, so if you make them feel unsuitable for a glare or persuasion, there are cases where your favorability will decrease.

Considering the age difference with the other woman, it may be better to refrain from making sudden advances.
 

Summary

I tried to summarize the tips for popular conversations on the first date of dating clubs and dad activities.

It's easy to think that dirty jokes are OK when you meet an adult man and woman, but showing more gentlemanly behavior will lead to a better impression.

Also, it is a good idea to focus on chatting and have a date with a woman in mind to have a pleasant conversation.

During the date, it is preferable to have a ratio of around XNUMX:XNUMX instead of talking only to men.

Therefore, it may be a good idea to have a conversation with a woman and make a date as much as possible.

By acting with the feeling of hospitality to women in mind, you may become more popular.

Next time, I will introduce the necessity of gifts in the dating club.