Whether a relationship type A is necessary or not

2018-03-27

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This is Fukunaga from Universe Club Osaka Branch.

This time, I will make my column debut!
From now on, I will write articles for men in the column, and articles for women and everyone in the blog!

Also, I decided to add a comment section in the future.
Since that is not related to this text,Comments on previous blog post, so please take a look if you like.

Well, this timeNecessity of dating type AThis is the correct answer!I think this instead!I will write the idea, so I would appreciate it if you could tell me your frank opinion.

Contents

1 Is dating type A unnecessary?
2 Opinions of positive and negative
- 2.1 positive opinion
- 2.2 negative opinion
3 I think dating type A is an honest person
4 Benefits of choosing a dating type A woman
- 4.1 There tends to be a lot of people who are aiming to meet and talk with rich men, not money.
- 4.2 Great value for the setting fee
5 there is no human
6 A Final Word

Is dating type A unnecessary?

For dating type A"Sweet thinking"And"I don't need a dating club"I often hear harsh words like:
But,Is it really not necessary?
if,If it is not necessary, it should be announced that the person with the idea of A cannot be registered in the first place, or A = not adopted, and if necessary, correct the situation where harsh words are given to the person who honestly selected. I think you have to.

Opinions of positive and negative

First, I will write the opinions of the positive (including neither) and the negative.
*Including my speculation.

positive opinion

・ I want to enjoy a meal date purely because my body is sick
・ There is a sense of accomplishment when it develops into an adult relationship
・There are many simple people who are not greedy for money
・ If you want to date this child, there is no particular relationship type
・I don't choose it myself, but I don't have a problem with it

negative opinion

・In the first place, a dating club is a place to join with determination
・It is not interesting if you know that even if you have a feeling, it will not develop.

I think dating type A is an honest person

I will explain the type of relationship during the interview, so I think that A = only transportation expenses is clearly conveyed to women.
I am very sorry for those who have an image that you can get tens of thousands of yen just for meals, but here the misunderstanding is gone.

When choosing relationship type"Which one do you think is easier to get an offer?"I am sometimes asked,"If you choose something different from your feelings, it won't be a good date, so please choose the one closest to your feelings."and answer.
This is not an answer to your question, but I do not want to lie, and I think I have guessed the answer to some extent when the question is asked.

After knowing that it would be good if I chose this somehow, and knowing that it was only transportation expenses, no matter how nice the other person was, I felt that it would be difficult for me to have a meal date. I think that those who honestly express themselves will choose A and register.
In other words, I think that dating type A is an honest person.

Benefits of choosing a dating type A woman

There tends to be a lot of people who are aiming to meet and talk with rich men, not money.

As a partner to avoid when dating at a dating club"Those who are greedy for money"I think that is mentioned.
I think it's partly because it costs money, but partly because it's not about you, it's about money, and you can't feel the emotional connection.

In that respect, this dating type A woman is less likely to be greedy for money,
I have the impression that many people simply want to meet older men who have a lot of experience and listen to their stories.
Also, I have the impression that many people are reluctant to date adults because they have little experience with men.
(* Of course, it does not mean that those who choose other dating types are those who are hungry for money, and it does not guarantee that A is not necessarily at risk.Please consider it as a tendency.)

Of course, I think it's wonderful to go on a date with a positive woman who has a clear idea, but a date with a woman who can value meeting and enjoying a meal, not money, can also be a wonderful way to fulfill your heart. Isn't it?

Great value for the setting fee

When classifying women, it's supposed to be based only on appearance, but sometimes I get lost in the middle.
We hope to be able to make decisions as objectively as possible after consulting with other staff members, but in the middle cases, whether intentional or unintentional, other factors such as the presence or absence of demand will be considered. I think they are also affected.
For example, if you are unsure, you can choose a higher class if you are a CA, or a lower class if you are an A.
Needless to say, there is no absolute criterion for appearance in the first place, so it is difficult to make a decision that everyone can agree on, but when in doubt, the tendency for A type to be ranked lower is that the setting fee is substantially cheaper. You can also think that

there is no human

There are several couples who met at the Universe Club and got married, but I think they didn't sign up with that in mind from the beginning, but their feelings changed over the course of their dates.
In other words, even if you are in a relationship type A, you just don't have that feeling at first, and you don't know what will happen in the future.
You can enjoy a pure date, but I think it's one of the ways to enjoy it to deepen your relationship over time.
In addition, I sometimes hear people say that they are happy to see them being surprised and moved by teaching them about a world they do not know, or that they enjoy polishing rough stones.

A Final Word

There are men who say they will never go to A, and there are men who say they don't care.
Personally, I don't think there are many disadvantages to having a type A woman.
If there are too many A women, there will be fewer options for those who do not think about A women, but the problem is not that there are A women, but that the number and quality of other types of women are not sufficient I think.
As long as we are creating a category of relationship type A, we would like to create a system and a trend where honest people do not look foolish.

It's been a long time, but thank you for reading to the end.
Thank you for your continued support of Universe Club.

Universe Club Osaka Branch (Umeda)
Ryota Fukunaga

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19 thoughts on “Do you need a relationship type A?”

A Than:

2018-03-27 4: 45 PM

Fukunaga-san, thank you for another good article.

As a positive opinion, "I don't choose it, but it's not something I'm worried about," and I agree, but I would like to evaluate it a little more positively.

The A type has the feeling that "it's hard to say that it's the subject of the offer, but the fact that it exists in that category should probably help."
Rather than being used by itself, I suspect it acts as a buffer to keep other major parts of the system healthy.
It's similar to the existence of the standard rank, and if you can forgive me for being a little rude, I think it's a spot where "not eligible" and "other" accumulate.
If there is no A-type eye in the dating club, it will be difficult to sift through the target.

It's not a perfect mechanism to begin with, but it's far better than nothing.
evaluated as such.

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- Universe Fukunaga Than:
  
  2018-04-01 9:50 AM
  
  Mr. A
  Thank you for your comment!
  "Rather than being used by itself, it functions as a buffer to keep other major parts of the system healthy."
  I'm sure if you forcefully eliminate the category A, you will only move to B with the feeling of A, so you will not be able to distinguish it from the true B. It's going to be a bad result for you. I learned from your comments that it is possible to distinguish between the two because of the presence of A, and that there is significance in the existence of the category for both those who choose it and those who do not.
  
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  - A Than:
    
    2018-04-02 8: 07 PM
    
    I read your comment about the comment section.
    I'm in a different position, but I feel the same way.
    If there is an opportunity to exchange words in the future, please take care of each other.
    
    I haven't offered a type A woman yet, but "dating without bed sharing" is common.
    I'm just a guy with a vague idea that I want to spend useful time with a nice woman, so it doesn't necessarily have to be sex.
    Besides, there is also the existence of "a wonderful woman who does not suit the relationship of sex".
    
    However, my personal behavior is that such a non-sex relationship is just a matter of saying, "It turned out that way, and I don't mind it, so I'm doing it." .
    After all, I have a hunting instinct as a man, so I don't find women who are closed to possibilities from the beginning attractive.
    Mr. Fukunaga's negative feeling that "It's not fun if you know it won't develop" is probably common among men.
    For me, an offer is not something I do because I want to have sex, but something I do because I don't want to miss this once-in-a-lifetime chance that might change my life.
    That's why I'm sorry, I don't offer most of them (^^;)
    
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A Than:

2018-03-27 7: 13 PM

In principle, I don't think there's anything wrong with having an A type.
If you don't need it, just ignore it.

I often look at A-type women's profiles and staff comments.
It's because I'm interested in, "What kind of person is this woman who thinks good things, is naive, puffed up, misunderstood, ignorant of the world, and stupidly honest?"

It seems that about 1% of all women choose Type A, but it seems that only a handful of them are "people who can satisfy male members with meals alone."
In a sense, being able to meet such a woman is one of the merits of the dating club.

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- Universe Fukunaga Than:
  
  2018-04-04 11:08 AM
  
  Mr. A
  Thank you for your comment!
  
  > In principle, there is no such thing as "a problem with the A type"
  I regretted that I did not come up with my own ideas.
  Even though I wrote that there is nothing to worry about, I think I didn't fully understand it at the time of giving the title as to whether it was necessary or not.If I could rewrite it now, it might be something like "three advantages of choosing type A".
  
  > "Someone who seems to be able to fully satisfy male members with food alone"
  As you say, unfortunately, I think it's a handful.
  I hear that many other dating clubs refuse people who only want a meal, so I would like to advertise a little that meeting such women is one of the benefits of the Universe Club.
  
  I tried to think about what kind of people specifically belong to that handful.
  ・Those who can talk enthusiastically about their fields of interest
  ・Those who have knowledge and new ways of thinking and can learn by meeting
  ・People who fell in love so much that they had romantic feelings
  ・People who are cleansed by purity and want to support honestly
  ・Celebrities who are happy just to be able to eat together, or beautiful women who are healed just by looking at them
  
  What a place, such as.
  If the above is correct, I think it is important to delve into and publish the fields of knowledge and interests, experiences and ways of thinking, rather than the bust, constriction, and legs, when describing Type A women. I was.
  
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  - A Than:
    
    2018-04-04 7: 05 PM
    
    Probably a handful...
    By my standards, well, maybe one or two people a year, Universe.
    But well, I'm just waiting for that kind of woman all year long.
    
    I need all the XNUMX patterns you wrote.
    It is not a person who applies to any one, but it is necessary to have all of them (laughs)
    
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A Than:

2018-03-27 7: 33 PM

By the way (this may be confidential) what is the probability that you will receive an offer if you register as type A?
Once upon a time, I heard from a staff member in a chat, "It's hard to get an offer even for a B type, isn't it?"

As I wrote several times, the rational strategy that leads to the Nash equilibrium of the universe's type system is to ``choose B or C and do A activity'', so my guess is that such a ``hidden A'' is Universe Female 7100 I think it's about 3/1 of the people.
I think that the only concrete way to break this rational behavior of women, which could lead directly to the disadvantage of men, is the "abolition of incentives for transportation expenses" advocated by Mr. Kingyo♂.
Also, Mr. Mack's "uncle branding campaign" may be effective in the long run.
I have a feeling that Mr. Kida will come up with some wisdom.

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- Universe Fukunaga Than:
  
  2018-04-12 12: 59 PM
  
  Mr. A
  Thank you for your comment!
  
  I'm sorry.To be frank, I don't know because I don't have an offer rate for each type.
  However, although it is a bodily sensation, there is no doubt that it is less than B.
  
  In a later comment, Mr. A wrote a wonderful idea of "creating a club specializing in food and dad activities", and I thought it would be a solution to the current problem.
  A dating club with only A men and women who set a low admission fee and setting fee (at the time of launch, the current A woman and a woman of B or higher who want this will be transferred), a dating club that gathers men and women of B or higher I thought that if I could divide it into two and manage it, I would be able to eliminate the "hidden A" that is a rational strategy for women.
  In order to realize it, many A dads join the A club, and if we do not increase the percentage of women who can receive offers in this club, it will be a useless result of doing hidden A at a new dating club. I think that will be the key to success.
  
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  - A Than:
    
    2018-04-12 2: 28 PM
    
    I'm a person who doesn't have the ability to launch a new business at all, so I can't say anything, but I think the danger of chasing two rabbits and losing both the original and the child is great.
    As Mr.Kingyo♂ said, the current situation of the universe can be recognized as acceptable from the management side.
    
    Intuitively speaking, I think that the "meal papa specialty club" is already in the world of apps.The cost of staff mediation will not be incurred.Depending on the design of the app, I feel that it will be very crowded.Or rather, isn't there already one?I'm unfamiliar.
    
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Goldfish ♂ Than:

2018-03-29 1:01 AM

(3) S5: G2: PXNUMX: B will be specially sorted by appearance.
(1) By selecting ABCD, the AorA style is one rank down.
Is it this image if it is this sentence?I feel weird.

I think it would be better to support A more as a papa activity.
Already, dad activity = H pear fun meal.I grew up with a bright image.
So, Univa is the original.he is the creatorhe is daddyno mama?
A...Isn't it better to raise them with care?

I'm a D customer, so why don't you try collecting them, A Papa?I think there are
A type limited enrollment fee free.
Because snacks, girls bars, cabaret clubs, clubs and lounges are alive.It will never go away.
If she's a fun girl who sings well, I'll give her some pocket money and go karaoke with her, eat, and have snacks.

I think it will be necessary to educate BCD dads not to do bad things to A daughter.
When my BCD daughter gets tired, when I get a boyfriend, when I'm worried, I need to live with A.I think.

haha i drank

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- Universe Fukunaga Than:
  
  2018-04-12 1: 01 PM
  
  Goldfish ♂
  Thank you for your comment!
  
  Regarding ①, I didn't pay attention to the ratio, but the result is a figure close to what Mr. Kingyo♂ said.
  (XNUMX) It doesn't have that much of an impact, but it's just that it tends to happen when you get lost.
  
  However, when I think about what it means to be lowered in class, I think that the possibility of receiving an offer increases.
  
  AThank you for your opinion that it is better to raise women carefully.
  As you said, I think there is a demand for A women, so I will do my best to get many A dads to join.
  
  Mr. Goldfish♂ As you pointed out, if you try to actively offer offers to A women in the same club, you will need a discount for A professional men and the understanding of B and above men.
  As Ms. A wrote later, I thought that setting up a club specializing in food was one way to cherish A.
  When I saw the last sentence of Mr. Goldfish♂ in this comment, I felt that it is necessary to have a mechanism that allows him to move according to changes in his feelings and circumstances.
  
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Goldfish ♂ Than:

2018-03-29 2:20 AM

Ah, line 6, "It's Papa. No, Mama!"
It was the other way around...failed. (I'm having another drink so I don't have any regrets before going to bed...)

Correction "I'm the creator, Mama. No! It's Papa." is the correct answer.mosquito?I'm so stupid

P.S.
Mr. A. "Abolition of transportation fee incentives" is still a rough job, and is it difficult to adjust?

In fact, there may be A fraud, but it also contributes to Univa's profit in moderation.
(Coupling rate halved = Number of referrals doubled = Sales doubled)
But if this is a 1% coupling rate, it will be like, "I'm giving up."
Probably not "critical mass".Judgment?

There is no point if the industry declines due to too much emphasis on customers.
Do your best in the competition to be the first to the ideal image of the future.
(Actually, I am satisfied with the current situation.)

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Goldfish ♂ Than:

2018-03-29 2:35 AM

At the moment of closing, I looked up the terminology.critical mass.
In the old days, it literally means "fatal quantity", and the bicycle critical mass movement (my friend participated in it lol)
A movement that instantly realizes a fatal increase in the number of bicycles in traffic and forces the construction of bicycle lanes.Hundreds of bicycles go around Shibuya NHK.Annoying ^^;
A reproduction of the roadway created in the early days when cars buzzed on the carriageway and sidewalks and many injured and died.

→ If the fatal quantity is exceeded, it will disappear if you do not respond.

I was converting in my brain.impoliteness.

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A Than:

2018-03-29 5:40 AM

Mr. Goldfish♂, as usual, you seem to be joking, but the richness of your practical eyes is enlightening.

As you said, it's a "rough business", so I don't think Mr. Kida can hire him now.
I think it would be a good idea to create another 'luxury' club with a different concept and try it there.

Kida-san's achievement in this industry is that he used that as a lever to gather girls and surpassed the critical mass point for the first time. However, it seems that they have recently been plagued by the decline in profit margins due to their success.
It seems that it is no longer possible to ignore the fact that the customer's heart is a little distant, and it seems that the purchase itself has been taken over by the app.
Maybe you're confused as profits start to dwindle from both sides.

I'm optimistic that Mr. Kida will survive because he's a smart person, but I think I should start working on the "luxury club" and "app" fields.
If it were me, I'd pick Mr. Takita for "luxury" and Mr. Fukunaga for "app" (laughs).

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A Than:

2018-03-29 5:59 AM

I thought the argument "A type is valuable. Rather extend its potential" is also very nice.
This is a topic of discussion from time to time, but I think it would be better to create a "meal papa katsu specialty club"...or rather, I'd like to run it myself (laughs).

There is a man who became a bandman even though he is my cousin BonBon, who I have known since I was a child.
It seems that the so-called "payment drinking" mediation that I used to do in my spare time is no longer ridiculous.

I think it would be interesting to hear the story.
A huge demand is sleeping there.

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Aspen Than:

2018-04-08 1:12 AM

Before I became a member of Universe, I met several women (college students, office workers, self-employed workers, nurses, etc.) using the Papa Katsu app, and I had an A-type relationship, a so-called dining dad. .Meals and transportation expenses 3 will be borne by us.But if you meet the same woman three times, you'll run out of topics to talk about and there's no development potential, and you can't really feel the benefits of dating.One day, a certain woman began to demand an allowance even though the relationship was intact, so I took the plunge and told everyone that the relationship was over.
So I joined Universe and made an offer to a C-type woman first.We decided to go out with each other and agreed that the allowance would be 1 hour per hour and 3 transportation fee, ie XNUMX teas, XNUMX meals, or more depending on the situation.However, after several dinner dates, when I asked if it was okay to book a hotel for the next date, I refused to answer. It was the so-called "hidden A" that Mr. A said.
Even a dumb person like me has learned from this experience. As a "specific measure to break this woman's rational behavior," when negotiating the terms of a relationship for the first time, I decided to ask her directly, "Can I have an adult relationship?"So far I've gotten the answer "I can" and made it to the hotel, but if the answer is "I can't" I don't think I'll be dating
In my opinion, you don't have to dare to have a type A relationship through a club, and you don't have to have a type A in a club that pays not cheap admission fees, annual fees, and setting fees. increase.However, even if the A type is removed from the club, it is not possible to prevent the "hidden A" from entering.

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- A Than:
  
  2018-04-10 12: 28 PM
  
  Aspen's activities will surely evolve rapidly.If possible, I would appreciate it if you could write a column like Joe and Mack so that I can share more of your experiences.If we can know the process of evolution of Mr. Aspen, it will be a new kind of column.
  
  It's interesting that you were doing a meal papa in the app.I think that was probably during Aspen's training period, but the atmosphere was that evolution took place and he graduated in no time.Needless to say, the problem wasn't on the side of "the woman who gets bored after three times", but on the side of "I didn't know I was the one who got bored with women after three times."This may have made women feel bored and felt like they couldn't do it unless they were paid more.
  
  I think that the conditions with Mr. C, who wrote it, are too generous and are even becoming a hindrance to progress.If you can get a total of 4 for a meal, it is reasonable for women to be satisfied with that and not jump to hotel activities.The woman may not be "hidden A" but "became A".Then it's a design mistake on the father's side.
  
  Also, setting your allowance by the hour is too rational and not recommended.Don't let women think "self-sufficient".That's the way of thinking about customs and cabaret clubs.
  
  I don't really recommend going to the hotel after having a couple of dinner dates.Women also want it, but the success rate is rather low.If you have more than 3 meal dates, even people who weren't originally an A type may "become an A".If it's just a meal for the first time, I think a tempo of "I'll invite you next time. Make up your mind."
  
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  - Aspen Than:
    
    2018-04-10 5: 31 PM
    
    Mr. A
    Thank you for your comment.I learned a lot.
    You're right, I don't think I know myself or women very well yet.
    In this field, there are limited opportunities to be taught or listened to by someone, so
    I became complacent.There is no such thing as a manual.
    After joining the club, it is very helpful to hear such two-way opinions.
    I would like to make use of it in my future papa activities, so I look forward to working with you.
    
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  - A Than:
    
    2018-04-10 7: 13 PM
    
    I wrote a lot of things, even though I have a wide mouth, but it's just a general theory.
    Dating is a world where individual differences between men and women are very different, so it's not very good to be caught up in generalities, but there are times when such things are necessary.
    I meant to be kind.
    
    I feel that Mr. Aspen has "quality" (laughs)
    In other words, I feel that I have a strong ability to learn from failure.
    That's what matters in dating clubs.
    
    I think the best thing that happens when you play in a dating club is "self-discovery".
    Discover a lot of yourself that you don't know yet.
    
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