I choose a woman after careful consideration.

I have met many young women in the position of father.

Then, I guess you could call it a generation gap.

Because we grew up in a completely different era, there are many cases where what is normal doesn't apply to us.

Of course, if you take it in a good way, you can learn from this as we are also living in the current times.

However, if taken in a negative sense, it can be stressful.

For example, when you try something together, you give up quickly.

Some children think it's normal to end important conversations only on LINE and not set up a place to actually talk face-to-face.

To be honest, if you give examples, there's no end to it.

I'm sure all men who have become fathers have already experienced this.

However, why am I becoming a father? That's because the positives are clearly more for me.

Having said that, I don't want to have any bad feelings.

As I was thinking about this, I realized that there is a difference in the way women choose women between now and in the past.

At that time, when I first became a father and signed a contract with a woman, I chose a woman based on my desire that ``I'm fine with being young and beautiful.''

For that reason, I almost always signed contracts with the women introduced by the dating club.

It's rude to women, but as long as he looks good, he's satisfied in his life as a father.

However, after being a father for many years, I have come to understand how tired it is for people to judge women based solely on their appearance.

Of course, I'm not saying that all women with good looks are bad.

There are some women who have everything perfect.

However, this is a fairly rare case in my experience.

Basically, if you sign a contract with a woman based solely on her appearance, something will come with it.

Will something like that be a big handicap for me? Shouldn't it? It becomes a story.

If I may give my personal opinion, I feel that most women have a big handicap.

What I would say is that I felt stressed.

So, year by year, when choosing a woman to act as a father, I have become much more selective. (This may come naturally to all men as they become fathers and gain experience.)

To be honest, I'm much less stressed now than when I was choosing a woman and signing a contract without thinking about it.

In other words, it's just a lot of fun. (I hope the other woman feels the same way.)

Even if you are a woman who is also a father, if you carefully examine the relationship and say, ``I won't make a contract that easily,'' you can see a variety of things and enjoy it in a sense.

For example, when we meet for the first time.

This may be just my opinion, but most young women don't come because they think they'll be refused a contract.

For this reason, I have the impression that many children react by saying, ``Huh?'' when we just give them money and let them go home.

Of course, I'm not asking people to come to the event to enjoy the reaction.

If I can judge that she is a wonderful woman, of course I would like to sign a contract with her on the spot.

However, if you are going to have a long-term relationship, wouldn't it be natural for you to want to sign a contract with a woman you are satisfied with? (For some reason, the allowances aren't cheap either.)

In this way, there are now several women who have carefully thought through their choices and signed contracts.

I hope everyone will take a closer look.

To be honest, there are quite a few women registered in dating clubs. (It seems to be increasing every year)

I will not sign a contract with a woman who only tells me what she wants.

When I meet a woman for the first time, I usually wonder what reason she has for being a father. Or what kind of hope do you have? etc. I try to listen. (The things men talk about with women may be different depending on the man.)

So, I think there are fathers' needs, but do you ever have a child who only talks about their own needs? What can I say without asking you what your hopes are for me that are commensurate with that?

To give you an example, a conversation I recently had with a woman when I met her for the first time went something like this.

"I'm so busy that I can hardly see you. Is that okay? But, to be honest, life is tough. And I also have a dream. I would like to sign a contract with a man who can lend me his strength."

So I answered:

I answered, ``Yeah? How often can we meet? Also, what are your hopes?''

The woman's answer was as follows.

``I can only see them a few times every two to three months.Depending on the month, I might not be able to see them even once.My hope is that I can still pay my current rent and living expenses.''

Isn't this amazing? Probably, in these cases, I think she's a woman I rarely meet.

However, I just want a good allowance.

If this happens, of course you won't be able to have a physical relationship.

Since I am a father, of course I also want to help women.

But that won't work unless there's some benefit to it as well.

The terrible patterns so far are quite rare, but this is a true story that happened recently.

However, although this is a rare pattern, if a woman recognizes that she is beautiful or has some kind of value to herself, there are many girls who will say these conditions first.

In particular, the child in this example is a woman in the entertainment industry.

That's why I'm confident in my appearance.

Was there ever a man in the past who accepted these conditions?

But I guess the fact that he was there means things aren't going well with the other dads. I could imagine that.

The way I interact with women who are working as dads, I would never sign a contract with a woman like this.

To be honest, even if you sign a contract, there is a high possibility that you will waste a lot of time and money during that period.

Even though I am basically a dad, I have recently taken the approach of not signing a contract unless there is some benefit to me.

The reason for this is that in the long run, you won't be able to have fun with the woman you contracted with, and above all, it won't last long.

That's all there is to it.

I sometimes feel like I'm going to make the wrong choice if I look pretty, but basically, this is how I interact with women who are working as fathers.

Weird compromises don't really lead to productivity.

I think this is especially true when it comes to being a dad.