A woman with a poor upbringing who is a father

After all, through my experience as a father, I realized that ``nurturing'' is extremely important for any woman.

In the first place, it may not be relevant for women who are active fathers and men who only seek sex.

However, a man like me who is looking for something other than sex from a woman who is working as a father.sex. ”I think that's pretty important.

After signing the contract, he develops a relationship with a woman who is working as a father, often having meals together.

Especially if you are having dinner with women, depending on the restaurant, you will definitely need some ``table manners.''

Honestly, even if it's common etiquette for us, it's not so for the woman we're with.

The question is, ``Are you using knives and forks from the outside?'' or ``Are you using them from the inside?'' Even though women who are working as dads don't even know that, they choose shops that say so. I could not hide my surprise when I was asked to do so.

It's not like I'm looking down on it.

Did you receive the kind of etiquette education you learned when you were young? Have you not received it? That part is the problem.

I was there with her, and even though she was a young woman, there was such an atmosphere that it was hard to pay attention to her even if I noticed her.

Besides, the other woman probably has pride as well.

If I were to warn them about something, I could predict that the atmosphere would turn out to be quite strange, and I also find myself a little concerned about how the women can make the meal delicious. .

However, if I didn't say anything, I would end up drinking the appetizer soup with a dessert spoon. (This happened recently as well.)

This makes me think that education is really important.

Of course, he is a father and his partner is a young woman.

In my opinion, I think I've come a long way, but when I go to a place like a Michelin-rated restaurant like this, where I'm expected to be a little more sophisticated, I still ask for a minimum level of manners.

That said, I think the young woman I signed a contract with is cute.

Therefore, I don't want to embarrass myself as much as possible by choosing a place where I don't have to worry about it, but I want to go to a place where the other woman said so herself. Therefore, there are some parts that I say reluctantly. (Maybe they want to take a selfie and show it off on SNS.)

Honestly, I'm nervous while eating. (Sometimes, food doesn't go down my throat.)

This isn't a question of whether your family was wealthy or anything like that.

Human beings have a variety of upbringings.

For example, a woman who grew up in a family that valued good manners is considered to me to be well-bred, even if her family is not wealthy.

Because you don't have to worry about it no matter where you take it.

However, this is not the case for women who grew up in families where manners were not valued that much.

Anyway, whenever the woman said that to me, I would say, ``Hey, are you okay?'' No matter what she did in front of me, I started to worry about her, and I was always concerned about what other people thought about me. turn into.

That's what I mean when I say "a woman with a bad upbringing."

I always think that the easiest way to judge a woman's upbringing is by having dinner with her.

I wonder if any man can relate to this? However, women with poor upbringing spill food on table mats anyway.

As a result, when the waitresses clean up the dishes after eating, they are almost always dirty.

So I always say, ``I see.''

In the first place, a restaurant that is said to be a high class restaurant doesn't really expect customers to spill their food.

For this reason, table mats are made of very good material, and if you eat with good manners, you won't spill anything. (There are some people who spill food and eat it regardless, but to be honest, I don't think it's appropriate for that restaurant, and I think it's necessary to at least prepare for entering that restaurant.) (I think this is common sense in our world. But it's too cruel to confront women who are trying to become fathers. That's why I always pretend not to see it.)

Therefore, I always try to distinguish between women.

It's been a while since I became a father to a young woman, so perhaps I've come to expect "quality" from each woman.

There must be men who choose women solely for that purpose, such as ``I like girls who are good at sex.''

I guess, to put it simply, I'm like that.

Lately, I've been choosing women who are classy and well-bred rather than girls who are good at sex.

Why is that?

My contracted children may be the only well-bred children, but no matter where I take them, my heart swells.

I guess you could say that I'm happy that other people look at me and say, ``You're bringing a nice woman.'' (Actually, people around me may not see it that way, but I guess you could say that it makes you feel self-satisfied.)

If you are going to take the trouble to pay a certain amount of allowance every month, wouldn't you want to be accompanied by a woman you can be proud of? Wouldn't it be better to say that this is the ``perfect woman'' who is not only good in appearance, but also has good manners and manners?

By the way, all the women I'm currently contracting with have perfect basic manners.

Some women have even learned how to make tea and flowers for a long time. (Also, most of these types of women are very talented. I also like that.)

In my real personal life, I have never had a relationship with a woman who is almost perfect, including her appearance, so I thought I would at least seek out a woman who is active as a father.

There are probably many men who have become fathers who are looking for the type of woman they were unable to experience or meet in their lives. I think so. (By the way, I am one of them.)