Attitude at a dating club where dating always fails

Thank you very much for always watching.
I'm Toritani, in charge of the Universe Club Kyoto Branch.

This time, I have some feedback from men and women that I felt recently.
Among them, I was worried about the story of failure regarding dating.
So what I'm going to talk about this time is that I will definitely fail on a date.
However, I would appreciate it if you could understand in advance that this will be a story based on Toritani's feelings.

What Makes a Date Fail?

What is it that a date will always fail to do?
・Inconsistent personality?
・The story doesn't mesh
・I don't like clothes
etc
I think there are probably too many to give up, and if you keep adding them, you'll probably end up with over 10 characters, and even those who read them will give up.
So, what I'm going to write this time is to write something like a mental attitude.

Attitude XNUMX [Don't be surprised]

The key here is not to surprise your opponent.
When using a dating club, women usually call men to join them.
However, if you know the woman's face to some extent, you may want to call out to her.
However, in such a case, I think it would be better to wait until the other party calls instead of suddenly calling out when you find it.
If so, I don't think women will be surprised and scared.

This also applies to what is going on during the date.
For example, even if it's a woman's birthday, celebrating her for the first time may make her feel depressed.
If you are celebrating a birthday or something, I think it will be clearer what the woman wants and what the man wants to give after getting along to some extent.

※important point※
Surprise sparingly...

Attitude XNUMX [Look at the opponent]

Here, I will mainly tell you about the contents of the date.
I'm on a date, but I think men are busy.
In such cases, there are men who respond while looking at their mobile phones instead of looking at women.
Of course, I am very aware that both women and men are busy, but even so, it is not pleasant to talk while looking at or touching a mobile phone.
So I think it's best to keep your cell phone in your bag while you talk while looking at the other person.

In addition to actually seeing women, I think it is also important to feel women.
What are you thinking?
What are you interested in?
What do you want to know?
I think it would be nice if you could see the inside of a woman together.
I think that there are also people who feel that attractive people who have a beautiful style and firm breasts want to see more of their inner self.
So I think it's good to be able to keep an eye on the other person's feelings.

※important point※
Turn your face and feelings toward the other person

Attitude XNUMX [Do not fight]

To be honest, I don't think it's much here, but it's best not to fight with the other woman.
Whether it's verbal or physical.
For example, if you feel that a woman's attitude is very bad, please keep your feelings calm at that time.
After that, I think it would be better to have a date with an early dissolution in mind.
Even if you argue there or point out the bad parts, it will only cause stress for the man.
So, I would like to hold back my feelings and think about disbanding early, and after the dissolution is over, I would like to ask the club staff to tell me and talk with me.

Also, the same applies if the response is not bad but you are concerned about a certain part.
If you point it out, some women will become emotionally withered or sad.
If there is something that bothers you, I think that the best way for a woman to agree is to point it out after you have become friends with her.

※important point※
Don't put yourself at a disadvantage

Attitude XNUMX [Don't take everything the other person says with a grain of salt]

I think it's best not to take everything the other person does, does or says seriously.
However, I think that there are many women who are solid and serious in their responses.
Even so, there are some people who make complaints or say that they were told by the club instead of themselves.
Of course, most people don't do that.
So I think it's better to have a date while making a certain amount of judgment by yourself instead of taking everything with a grain of salt.
 

On top of that, we absolutely do not recommend giving a large amount of money from the first time for those who will be doing transportation expenses or monthly contracts.
I think it would be better to give a certain amount of money after you have met the other party many times and have a good relationship and feeling.
If you propose to meet monthly from the first time, that's fine! !I would like you to consider it with a woman who seems to be.

※important point※
Don't take it for granted until you feel you can trust it

Attitude XNUMX [Be smart when leaving]

This is the end of the date.
The question here is how to respond to others.
If you have already paid for your transportation, it is fine, but if you haven't already, I think it would be a good idea to prepare a pocket bag beforehand.
I think it would be nice for women to be able to put the amount in there and hand it over as it is smarter than being handed over in cash.

And if a woman is concerned about time.
Therefore, I think that there is a lot of time for trains such as the time of the last train to be considered the most.
・The next day is busy from the morning
・If you don't go home soon, the child will...
・Last train is approaching
I think there are such things, so if a woman is concerned about time, I think it would be better to ask a question once and consult about the dissolution time.
If you do so, there is a high possibility that women will be relieved, so please try it once.

※important point※
Firmly eliminate what the other person is worried about

A Final Word

I tried to include things like what Toritani thinks will fail, but what do you think?
However, since it is honestly Toritani's idea, there may be some parts that may not be helpful.
And of course, this is written only by men, so there is a possibility that women will not be able to talk about it unless they are equally considerate.
So I wrote this article not to forget such feelings for each other.
I hope that even one person can contribute to a good encounter.
Thank you in advance.