Dad's common behavior

The temperature has dropped again in Tokyo.

Recently, things have suddenly gotten hotter and colder, which is really difficult for people of our age.

Now, as the seasons change, are you enjoying your time with young women?

I always receive a share of my youth from women who are active fathers.

So, I have recently had a great conversation with a woman I have a contract with.

That's the part called bondage.

I think women who are active as dads will treat men very kindly.

There may certainly be a view that they are just looking for allowances, but that is not the only reason.

I think there is a lot of inherent kindness that women have. (I want to believe that.)

However, don't forget that this is a dad's activity.

I think the saying, ``A break in money is a break in relationships'' is very true to dad life.

Therefore, men need to grow up to some extent.

When I say adults, what I'm talking about is the mental relationship with women.

The woman I contract with seems to have contracts with multiple men in addition to me.

Of course I understand, and if it's important in her life, then of course I should support her.

Because I think this is what daddy life is all about.

Aren't you jealous?If you ask me, I'll probably do it to some extent.

However, if you want to become a father, this is the part where you have to grow up.

It seems that the woman I have a contract with has recently started to feel quite constrained by her father, who has a separate contract with her.

She seems dissatisfied with simply having a contract with another man.

It's true that I don't understand the man's feelings.

He must be in love with her.

In fact, I've been contracting with her for a year and a half.

She's quite a nice woman.

I understand that once you sign a contract, you won't want to let go.

What's more, if you imagine being held by another man, you'll feel sick every day.

Although I don't have a strong male side, I thought that the man who was the father of this child must be very pure.

It's true that young women of our age rarely treat us kindly in private.

Of course, there may be grandchildren and other family members, but in an environment where he is treated like a man, there is basically no such thing.

I guess you could say that there was a hole in my heart.

Then, by becoming a father, a kind woman who has made a contract with him will win back the man's forgotten heart.

Things that I would normally have given up on because I'm too old make me realize that I'm still young.

Actually, I experienced the same thing when I became a father, so I understand the feeling of wanting to keep a woman away.

So, it seems that this is what her father told her.

``If possible, I'd like you to contract only with me. I'll increase your allowance accordingly.''

From my point of view, I didn't think this would be very popular.

I know how you feel.

However, I feel like this is something I shouldn't do when it comes to being a dad.

One of the reasons is that it takes away women's freedom.

Daddy life is all about supporting women.

This is the definition.

Naturally, I don't think there will be a contract unless there is some benefit to this as well, but I think the important thing is to let the woman be free.

For example, the woman who is being talked about this time.

She doesn't work as a dad just for the money.

She has a dream of opening a shop in the future, and is also trying to make connections through her father's activities.

For this reason, I think that allowances are necessary in life, but that is not the only reason for working as a father.

First of all, the man who is the father doesn't understand that.

I guess it's a good style as long as it's good for you.

As a man, I can understand him until he falls in love with a woman's pure kindness, but after that, he's not very popular.

And I understand that you don't have confidence in yourself.

That's why he probably tried to use his allowance as bait.

Of course, there are many father-active women who can benefit from this.

This is also a reality.

Being a father is a business for women.

In this business, it is strange that the compensation does not favor the better one.

However, not everyone is in business just for the money.

There are a variety of situations that intersect, such as being rewarding, connecting with people, and so on.

The woman in question said exactly that, saying, ``I'll give you a raise,'' which made her feel cold.

She also said this.

``I get tired when I'm constrained in some way.To begin with, being a dad is not my main job.To put it another way, I have other main jobs that keep me balanced. Similarly, since I have a separate contract with another man, I can say that I have a good balance between them.That's why I get in trouble when one person asks me to monopolize them. I understand if it's your private life, but to me, being a dad is a job.First of all, I'm disappointed that you don't understand that."

I thought what she was saying was absolutely true, and I thought that's how it should be.

In some ways, constraining men may lead to crushing women's potential.

Isn't it our role as dads to think about this first?I think so.

She also said this.

``Recently, the number of men who are restricting me has increased considerably.''

I told her this.

``It's not a bad thing for 〇〇-chan, is it? Doesn't that mean she's more attractive?'' When I said that, she just smiled at me.

That's what I thought.

Maybe he's being too busy being a dad?That's right.

When I saw her smile, I decided to give her more freedom than ever before.

That means I don't want to meet you or anything like that.

It's a small thing though.

Is it important to accumulate things like that?That's what I thought personally.

If you think about it that way, becoming a father is easy, but sustaining that situation with the same woman may be difficult for a man who is already a father.