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    This is an accounting event.

    On the way to the checkout, a man handed me a wallet.
    Is this...

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Question date: 2020/08/07 12:59

The first time I went out to eat with a man
This is an accounting event.

On the way to the checkout, a man handed me a wallet.
I was instructed to pay now
even though it feels unnatural
2 yen worth of kaiseki cuisine for 5000 people
We paid in cash.

The wallet is full of banknotes
After all, the one who gave me an unnatural payment method was
Because you wanted to show me this wad of bills
felt.

This is how you claim to have money
Very disappointed.
Having a lot of cash is a personal choice.
I didn't want you to show it on purpose.

A woman who is thrilled by such a thing
Are you there?

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It is effective to put the handed wallet in your bag as it is and pretend to steal the wallet.

A good person says, "Yeah, I just gave you my wallet. That's not true! Give it back ^^;"

People who are small-minded, can't understand jokes, and who don't have time to spare are frustrated.

I hope this gives you some idea of ​​what's going on inside.

  • Answer date: 2020/08/07 13:29
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Nozomi Ito (Staff)

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This is Ito (female) from Tokyo Chief.
If it were me, I wouldn't accept the wallet even if it was handed to me.
This is because there is a risk that you will be suspected of being a thief later, such as "It is decreasing from the 1 wallet."
Even if you didn't steal it, the possibility of being accused is not zero.
I don't take money out of people's wallets and pay for them, regardless of what I do with my dad.

There must be some women who will make your heart flutter.
I don't know if the man handed over his wallet to show off.
If that was a strategy to get the questioner's attention, it seems like a failure.

  • Answer date: 2020/08/07 15:51
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Papua

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It's Papua.

When a question like this comes up, I always

"Are you really rich?"

In the makurakotoba, he answers as if he knows everything about the world, but there is no way a third party can know whether the man is rich or not.

real rich people don't drive mercedes
Real rich people don't like their private clothes
Real rich people don't own branded goods
etc.

Really, really, do you think you know the truth?You're overthinking!





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Unfortunately the man is very disgusting.
I'm the type who asks for a three-color cheese beef bowl with a smug face at a beef bowl restaurant.


While saying that, I also wear clothes that show off my cleavage without hesitation, so I realized that I'm on the same level as that disgusting man just by being of a different gender.

Kyosuke Takagi's face at the baseball gambling apology press conference made me cry.

  • Answer date: 2020/08/07 13:21
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Paper

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Cute man, isn't he?

I understand how you feel, but it's pretty unnatural if it's a club accounting.
The fact that you were dissatisfied means that you were only able to see it, but there was no benefit...
Take as much allowance as you like from there... but if you don't have anything to do with it in the first place, it's hard to get it... it's a person's wallet...
I guess I have no choice but to leave the wad of bills as it is...if I don't get it back on that day, I've never had a chance to return it...
Oh, I'll give you a wallet as a present and put it in it... it's impossible... even if I leave it in...


> Mac
If you are in a relationship or have a relationship, do it normally.

Because the questioner is suddenly at the club

> The person who seems to be the accompanying mom is doing well.
>As a man, I feel like I'm letting the secretary do chores

It must have been unnecessarily uncomfortable to be treated like that...

Also, if you show it (once you hold it in your hand), a man should give it (think it's something you can't return)...

eh?I feel quite uncomfortable when I suddenly touch someone's wallet when I meet them for the first time.

Oh, I can't rely on what ordinary people who can't afford spinach for 248 yen (if I buy expensive vegetables and go home, my wife will scold me...)...

  • Answer date: 2020/08/07 13:24
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Kazu

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This is Kazu, a male member.

I heard that from a man after a long time (laughs)
There are some people who pay their bills that way, but they don't seem very elegant.Also, I think it's the first time I've met a woman.
By the way, when I was an idiot in my twenties when I started earning money, I used to keep around 100 million yen in my wallet and snort wildly.It's embarrassing when I think about it now.

Oh, the reason I started keeping that amount in my wallet all the time was because my credit card limit was small.Look lame.

Around that time, when I left my wallet on the desk at work, I was reprimanded by an older employee who was working as a restaurant clerk at the time.He said, ``The president trusts his employees, so he may leave his wallet on the desk without worrying about it. It is also kindness not to give the opportunity to insert.”I thought it was reasonable, and since then I haven't left my wallet or entrusted it to someone else.

Come to think of it, I remembered that when I was snoring as I wrote earlier, when I handed my wallet to a geisha I knew in Kyoto and asked her to pay the bill, she scolded me for not being classy.I thought she shouldn't have done that.

Maybe there are women who are excited about money.


> Mac
>If you've been eating and drinking, do you know the credit card fees? Like XNUMX% or XNUMX%.
Yes, and the food and beverage industry has a high gross margin, so I understand that credit card fees don't hurt.Also, as long as it is a member store, the merchant should include the commission in the cost calculation.

Whether or not to consider the profit of the store is up to each person, so aside from that,

>Isn't that what you mean by "Please don't let me run errands" (^^;
That may be the case.Even so, I think it's nice not to hand over the wallet to a woman you've never met before and let her pay for you.
Sure, it could be regional.Tea houses in Kyoto are a credit-based society.

  • Answer date: 2020/08/07 13:54
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Meg

This is Meg, a female member.

Huhuhuhuhuhuhuhuhu

Laughable…

Interesting question after a long time~

You're a pretty man, you want to brag about me

I wonder if the person who likes Yukichi-san is Tokime-kun...

Do you want to beg a lot?smile






If I were you, I'd look for someone else!

  • Answer date: 2020/08/07 13:29
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Akari

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I feel that the point of feeling uncomfortable is off.

I didn't want to brag about my money,
Didn't you want to treat me like a woman who handed me a wallet and made me pay?

I don't mind it, but some people may come with a click. .

  • Answer date: 2020/08/07 17:55
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Yamato Aizawa

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Maybe you have other thoughts.
Aren't you the kind of person who steals money?And
Aren't you the kind of person who changes his mind when he sees money?You may be looking at something.

Of course, there is also the possibility of bragging, but
I think I've been able to earn money through hard work
Isn't it okay to think about how cute it is?I think.

If I become rich, I want to wipe my sweat with bills on a hot day like today.

  • Answer date: 2020/08/07 13:22
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Watanabe Miyu (Staff)

This is Watanabe, the Chief of Universe Club Tokyo.
It's scary to be handed your wallet!Did you really trust the questioner?
But you might think I'm a cute guy just like Paper Airplane.It doesn't make my heart flutter, but...
I often hear that men are creatures who want to show off, but that may have been the man's way of doing things.

  • Answer date: 2020/08/07 18:00
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Anonymous

A male member's heroic dad gentleman.

I also agree with Mac.No one wants to be happy with money that fits in their wallet.

Hand over your wallet and pay.It's a common story to go to the bathroom during that time.

It's up to you how you feel, but you're reading too much into it.I think it's too much for the bad.


  • Answer date: 2020/08/07 14:01
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Maezawa (Staff)

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Maezawa from the president's office will also answer.

Answers are better than questions.

Maybe the man trusts you.
As for how much I trust him, I can deposit a wallet containing 100 million yen (Is it about XNUMX million yen?)
I trust you tremendously.
I like it that much.
I wonder if it was an appeal

Things take an unexpected turn
You're heading in the worldly direction without showing such a wad of bills.

I wonder if he didn't feel like showing off
I feel sorry for that man

It seems better not to make a strange appeal.
Also, maybe even if you don't hand over your wallet
If you have a wad of bills in your wallet, they might think you're showing off.

Instead of paying in cash, it's better to just take out your black card and pay.
Is it really smart?

However, it may be better to pay in cash because the shop has a fee for the card company.

  • Answer date: 2020/08/07 16:27
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Marika

This is Marika, a female member.

Let's say a woman earns $300 a year.
A man who is dating is 3 million yen.

Small things are fine, but what if your sense of money is 100 times different?
Even the questioner has 2 to 3 in his wallet, doesn't he?
Much less if you're a dad active girl?

If you multiply it by 100, it will be 2-300 million yen.

Cash people put in that much.
That's how it was with someone I used to date.
The person said that it would be nice if there was a 100 million yen bill.

A woman who doesn't have a daddy might think you're proud of the fact that you have several XNUMX yen bills in your wallet.
Well, I don't think the person who asked the question bothers to show it to others.

  • Answer date: 2020/08/07 16:33
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Anonymous

Megumi is a female member.

There may not be women who flutter.
I don't think I was trying to brag.
I often ask my sister (laughs)

The man was very open-hearted, and I think he thought it would be okay to ask a questioner for the first time because he was trustworthy.
(Or maybe the minister is so good that he thinks it's okay even if that amount is gone...)

So, I think it's okay to say that they trusted me.

  • Answer date: 2020/08/07 17:09
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Joe Rubicon

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I'm Joe.
When we went out to eat as a family, my father, who was drunk, handed over his wallet to my mother to pay.Joe does it sometimes too.I'm sorry, it's not good quality, I'll be more careful from now on.
What's even more mysterious is that the girls hand over their wallets.
The other day, an 8-digit girl handed me a wallet saying, "Joe, pay with this!"The payment was slightly over 5, but when I thought about it, the Dior wallet was bought by Joe in Bali, and I felt that the money inside was also given by Joe, so I politely paid him. I declined.Was this correct?In the first place, what kind of message is handing over a wallet from a girl?

  • Answer date: 2020/08/07 19:26
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BB7

This is BBXNUMX, a male member.

>This is how you claim to have money
>very disappointed

I don't know what the man's intentions were.
If you just wanted to appeal to yourself as a rich man,
I thought he was a very sad man.

Even if there was no such intention, the other woman
that you may feel uncomfortable and distrustful
unthinkable or unimaginable men who do not
Probably

Personally, regardless of the presence or absence of rich appeal,
The act of suddenly handing a wallet to a woman you meet for the first time and paying for it
I'm used to it, and I can only think that it looks bossy and lacks quality.

However, if you don't think anything of it or see a wallet full of money
Are there women who get excited?I think, so I wonder if that kind of woman's appeal is good
think

  • Answer date: 2020/08/08 23:12
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It's Mr. Saito♪

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This is Mr. Saito, a column writer.

Kimo! lol

  • Answer date: 2020/08/09 20:44

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