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    It is often said that the standard for breaking up in a relationship is 3 months, XNUMX months, a year, or XNUMX years...

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Question date: 2024/03/25 12:30

I've been dating a particular dad for about a year and a half.
It is often said that 3 months, XNUMX months, XNUMX year, or XNUMX years is the standard for breaking up in a relationship, but is it okay to think the same way about relationships like this?

Now that I think about it, I didn't have anything to worry about over the past year and a half, even though my dad liked me so much, because of my negativity, I was worried that he would dump me at any moment.

Lately, I feel like my dad's fever has calmed down, so I'm worried about this.
When I look back on the past, I feel like I have the same feelings as I did.

After a year and a half, we started seeing each other at a slower pace than before, and in the past, my father asked me to marry him after we'd been dating for about two years, but it varies.

Is there any such guideline?
(It's been 8 years since we've been together, but I'm sorry that I don't understand this. I think everyone likes me. I'm not that beautiful or have a great figure.)

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Seattle

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In my case, my allowance hasn't changed, but if the number of adult relationships decreases, it might be a sign that I won't see you anymore.

I'm getting tired of having sex in one pattern, so if my partner isn't fun to talk to, I might end up breaking up with him suddenly.
If the character is fun, it will last for several years without an adult relationship. ◯The year and other boundaries may not matter.

  • Answer date: 2024/03/25 20:39
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Katase (female)

What happens as the relationship gets longer? Will this continue? I have this anxiety too.

It's true that the newness is gone, and there's some familiarity in a good way, but the relationship becomes more natural, so I'm definitely not good at this part. I think it will continue as long as we don't have each other.

After that, it may be difficult to hold back as not only your feelings for each other but also the environment around you changes.

I don't think the date of the month matters. I think it depends on each other's "feelings" (´∀`)

Katase female

  • Answer date: 2024/03/25 20:44
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Kazu

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I don't think so.
In the first place, I believe that believing in such things as guidelines for breaking up in love is an abandonment of thinking and a lack of independence.

As you said, "it varies."

I think the only indicator is what the man says and does to you.

  • Answer date: 2024/03/25 12:50
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Fuu

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I don't think I know the standard because it depends on the person.

I don't think anxiety is bad if it's mild.
positive monster
It's better not to look at the other person
I can't pay attention and I can't put myself in the other person's shoes.
As a result, I feel like the breakup will be quicker.

Anxiety, I think that's what it is.
Sometimes I get anxious, but I try my best
I'm getting compliments
Repeat with a little confidence
good

But someday we'll have to say goodbye
Have as many relationships as possible
Hopefully less damage lol
Let's prepare

  • Answer date: 2024/03/25 21:14
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flag maker

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Although the person who asked the question probably didn't write it down, I feel like he already somehow understands the loneliness and sadness of men.

That's right. Men are lonely creatures even if they have money and status. On the other hand, I can't take the risk of giving up something to fill that loneliness. A lonely, inconvenient creature.

I think I'm starting to understand that somehow, so generalizations like ◯ year don't matter.

It's just as the questioner thinks, so it's okay if you do whatever you want.

  • Answer date: 2024/03/25 22:59
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Paper

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I think it depends on how grateful you are, how you feel about the benefits of the relationship, and how you convey that feeling.

If you feel like it's time to break up, your partner will probably tell you and break up with you, and if you feel strongly about the benefits, I think your partner will be less likely to break up with you as long as they need you.

I think there is very little need to break up because it is a relationship where both the adult and the allowance benefit.


Thank you for your continued efforts.

  • Answer date: 2024/03/26 01:20
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date ◎ dream

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I will respond after a while.

I've been with my current partner for 6 years now (lol)
There is no change in your treatment.

Since we started dating, we've only seen each other twice a month, but it's been going on forever with no sign of it ever ending.

My partner is still going! They are strong and, well, we get along well.

The longer you've been in a relationship, the more your lifestyle will change.
It's good to be able to adjust that well and enjoy socializing without straining each other (lol)

  • Answer date: 2024/03/27 13:10