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Question date: 2024/03/16 17:49

I received an offer at a club, but the type of relationship would depend on how I felt after meeting, and in the request column for the woman it was written that ``Only a dinner date is fine for the first time.''
My relationship type is B2, so I don't do anything other than eat for the first time, but what is the intention behind this? Even if someone says, "I don't mind just having a meal," that's what I originally meant...
Also, do people who write like this often have relationships with many women? Considering the various risks involved, I honestly don't think I would want to have a physical relationship with someone who is in a relationship with multiple people, so I asked this question.

  • gender female
  • Age: 20s
  • Member: Universe Female Member
  • Member ID: 73991
  • Who should answer: Anyone

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Male member

system engineer member

On the check screen of the input form when the man makes an offer, there are several checkboxes to select.

・Are you traveling by private car?
・I want you to come hungry.
・Please come dressed casually.
・Is it okay to just have a meal?

There are fields to select from. I've never seen the woman's screen, so I'm just guessing, but I think that if you check the selection screen above, the text will be added automatically.

I guess the answer to your question is that they couldn't agree and made the offer to the person in relationship type B by checking the meal only box.
I don't think there is a deep intention.

Please note that this is just my subjective answer.

  • Answer date: 2024/03/16 18:33
Male member

Taro

It simply shows what the man has checked in the checkbox.

On the men's profile settings screen, there are six relationship types, and the first three are ``platonic relationship'', ``first dinner date'', and ``it depends on how each other feels after meeting'', which is approximately female relationship type A ~ Compatible with C. So, I basically tailor it to women, so when I make an offer I change it to suit the woman I'm targeting. But sometimes I forget, and unlike the female type selection, you can check all of them, so there was a time when I just checked all of them because it was a pain.

By the way, the remaining three of the six choices are ``I want to enjoy the pseudo-romance of a dating club,'' ``Short-term financial support,'' and ``Long-term financial support,'' which seem to be distorted in many ways based on the prerequisites. There is no option to say, ``Money is involved, but I want to build proper human relationships.'' Also, it seems to be economic support, whether short-term or long-term. PATRO is also like that. I think it's reasonable to talk about things like that when marketing to women, but what about when it comes to marketing to men? I don't think it's normal to pay money but be sincere and wrap it up as an oblate before handing over the money.

Returning to the main topic, if you choose ``I don't mind just having a meal,'' it is an option that appears as ``Requests for women'' on the offer application screen. Let's talk.'' ``We're planning to have a meal together, so I'd like you to come hungry.'' ``I'd like you to come in some formal attire.'' ``I'd like you to come in casual clothes that don't look flashy.'' There are 6 options (multiple selections possible): ``You can just have a dinner date for the first time. Please feel free to come.'' ``Do you mind if I pick you up by car?''

I'm confused about this too, but when I make offers to people A to B, I always check the option ``The first date is a dinner date.'' I mean, I understand your relationship type. It's similar to what the waiter repeats when you order at a restaurant, so you don't have to worry about it.

Last question. It is a common request among men that one-on-one relationships are better than multiple relationships, but due to the structure of dating clubs, I think that both parties are initially expected to have multiple relationships. I think we can narrow it down if we are both good, but we have to work hard on that. I choose the shortest date from the candidates that women give me and meet them as often as I can.

I once met a woman who said she only saw her once or twice a month, and when I offered to meet her, she got angry and I thought, "Why?" It is said that a man's sperm can be fully charged in three days, but saying once or twice a month means, ``Don't meet other people, masturbate, and wait.'' Is it the queen? She was too selfish to understand.

Taro

  • Answer date: 2024/03/17 02:58

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