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Question date: 2024/01/24 17:23

I'm a useless PJ who keeps asking everyone questions.
After my dad transferred my allowance for January, he asked me why I was continuing to be a dad, so I replied that I didn't have sex with my boyfriend and women have sexual desires, so I could get some allowance while having sex, but then he told me to look for another dad. I received a reply asking for it.
I replied thinking that I should be honest, but maybe it's not suitable for being a father?
Even though I don't even like my dad, it's hard to reply if I do.

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  • Age: 20s
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Male member

Seattle

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Well, in the end, the money was paid in arrears, so it seems that neither the father nor the person who asked the question are unreasonable people. There are many harsh opinions.
The ability to correct is important.

I think the answer to that question is about 2nd place, which is not bad. I would continue.

The best thing to do is to say that your boyfriend isn't interested in you and that you actually like your dad better, but it would be unnatural to lie that much. The people who are suitable for fatherhood are those who have the mentality to lie and say they love him.

If you get cut even though you didn't give the worst answer such as "It's just for the money," then you might not be able to do it anymore.
Let's just say we were able to collect the last amount of money.

It may be impossible to both stay with a handsome boyfriend who doesn't have money and make a lot of money from PJ.
Since you're cute, it might be better to go to the entertainment industry in your free time because you can decide your own hours.

  • Answer date: 2024/01/24 17:28
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flag maker

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The questioner's answer is like saying directly to your dad, ``All I want from you is a dick and money.'' Let's stop hurting the other person needlessly just because the allowance has been transferred.

Please find another father.

As for the correct answer to this, the answer is simple based on the interactions I've had with the dad thus far. Difficulty level is low.

[Correct answer example]
You can't be a dad with just anyone. You can do it because of you. It's decided that way. I don't want to break up, I want to see you.

It may be hard to like lies, but what about this level of nuance?

Special among dads.
Top priority among dads.
As a father, you are the only person I can interact with.
I'm sure there are many men who would be happy with such a nuance.

Let's look for an expression that is just as possible as a compromise.

The skill of providing something that will make the person in front of you happy will be useful in many ways, so let's study it while trying out various things.

  • Answer date: 2024/01/24 18:55
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Kazu

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Personally, I have a much better impression of ``because I can get some allowance while having sex'' than a fake love.
My partner, who is married, has said similar things to me, but our relationship continues.

For me, it's the fake love that makes me more nervous.
You can generally tell what a woman thinks about you from what she says and does on a daily basis.
That's why I say, ``Please find another father,'' to people who make fun of people and tell lies about how much they love them.

I think that's why I just didn't get along well with that dad.

Added after reading Flag's answer
>``All I want from you is a dick and money.''

I think cock and money are very good things.
Personally, I have a much better impression of someone than being told something like being kind, something you would say to someone who has no place to compliment you.

  • Answer date: 2024/01/24 18:00
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sun moon new

I think he is suitable for being a father.

I think it's good that he's honest, that he doesn't separate it from business, and that he has likes and dislikes, that is, affection.

You are not useless.
They ask good questions and provide good topics for respondents.
Respondents are writing like piranhas swarming around their prey.

In the first place, the answerer is established in the relationship with the questioner.
Without questions, there are no answers. You are the source that gives existence to the respondents (lol)

  • Answer date: 2024/01/24 19:13
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Paper

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I don't think you are aware of what you need.


Even though I'm an ugly person who has no recollection of my wife or boyfriend calling me handsome, when I'm a dad-hunting girl, I get told that I'm handsome, good-looking, handsome, and that I like them.

It's obvious, but in a normal relationship between a man and a woman, you wouldn't have to say anything, but I think it's only when there is an allowance (plus relationships such as behavior other than appearance) that words come out.

If you can't figure out what you need and what you value, and if you can't be happy or grateful, I think you'll end up repeating what you've always done before.


Also, the fact that you are able to tolerate living with your current boyfriend even though you are in such a situation that you feel like you have to be a father, I think that the more you are burdened by other things, the more you will continue to get stuck in the vicious cycle. I think they are not looking at it calmly.

Normally, it would not be strange for her to live a life without having to worry about money with the boyfriend she lives with.
If we don't resolve that contradiction, and if we don't wake up to it, I think it's very unlikely that things will progress as expected.

  • Answer date: 2024/01/24 17:46
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Meg

Oh my... I guess they've announced their farewell. disappointing.
But don't worry, I don't think you're a useless pj. You're just doing it wrong.

There's nothing more boring than having a compromising relationship with your dad. That probably won't last, you know it yourself, right?

If we're going to be together, I'd be a hundred times happier if my father, who loves me, holds me and takes care of me.

What appeals to you is emotion, emotion.
Hi, next.

  • Answer date: 2024/01/24 18:52

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