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Question date: 2024/01/17 08:03

This is PJ, who started working as a father to pay for the loan for hair removal and bust-enhancing beauty treatments. Currently, hair removal and bust-enhancing esthetics have been completed. She lived at home, so I used her salary to pay off the loan, but she liked her boyfriend, so they started living together with the intention of getting married. Since her living expenses are split 50/50, it became difficult to pay the loan, so I started a regular relationship with my dad, whom I met through the Dadkatsu app. My father is kind and we get along very well as adults, but living together seems to be a bottleneck, and I don't get as much allowance as I expected. I felt guilty about my boyfriend, had a sense of urgency to pay the loan, and had a complex and impatience about my appearance, but I initially offered my dad a low allowance, so I regret not getting much, and now I feel like I'm in a state of chaos. However, I am reluctant to take part in finding a new father, since the loan payment is easier due to the regular father allowance, and I am more reluctant to work towards finding a new father than the risk of losing my current father.
How can we break out of the current situation?
Sorry for the long post, but please give me some advice.

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Kazu

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If it's a one-time delivery, I think it would be better to meet with the current father more often.
If it's just hair removal and beauty salon loan repayments, that's enough.

If that doesn't solve the problem, it's impossible for you to live with your boyfriend, who splits the living expenses 50-50.
I think it would be better for you to switch to a boyfriend who is worthy of taking care of your living expenses.

  • Answer date: 2024/01/17 09:05

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