[JP ONLY] Sugar Dating Anonymous Question Box

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Kazu

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I thought I had written something like that, so I looked it up, and it turned out that I wrote it three years ago.
https://universe-club.jp/column/okunohosomichi3

Now my partner is stable and I rarely make offers, so I will answer by remembering that time.

I usually look for a partner to offer myself, but when I do so, it naturally reflects my superficial tastes in women.
If you do that, you may end up repeating the same thing over and over again, and you may end up feeling overwhelmed.

In such a case, it may be a breath of fresh air if you don't choose it yourself and ask a third party to suggest candidates.
Especially in the case of concierge services, staff members have information that is not written in their profiles, so they use that information to make suggestions.

When I wrote this column, a woman suggested to me that I would not have chosen, and I have been in a relationship with her for a little over two years, meeting once or twice a week.
I think it was when I felt a bit of a sense of confinement.

As I wrote at the beginning, I rarely make offers these days, but the woman I've been seeing most frequently recently was discovered by a fellow respondent when he was regularly checking out her profile. This is the woman who let me know because she thought I might like it.
I made an offer to this woman somehow, but for some reason my relationship suddenly developed, and now I have a relationship where I stay at her house several times a month.

I think it's important to have input on a daily basis in order to receive a proposal that sticks, so I think it's important to prepare for the staff so that they know what kind of person the questioner is.
After using the concierge service a few times, I'm sure you'll be able to make suggestions that will stick with you, so please do your best.

• Answer date: 2023/08/30 18:06

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Maezawa (Staff)

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thanks for your questions.
Maezawa will also answer.

>I can't use it well myself.

When you have clearly established tastes in women and want to meet such women
I don't think the staff's recommendation will affect much because the person himself is more accurate about his preferences than the staff.
In this case, I think it's best to search on your own.

However, if I usually talk about my tastes like this,
A woman I overlooked when looking at the member list
Our staff may be able to recommend it for you.

If the staff who interviews every day asks about their preferences on a regular basis,
When a woman who seems to match your tastes comes along, the first thing that comes to mind is the face of the person asking the question.

Therefore, I think that it is difficult to find a woman I like from the list of members.
Even if you think she's not into you based on her profile, she has a deep sense of humor that makes you want to go on a date because the staff is willing to go ahead with it.
In that case, I think a concierge service might be beneficial.

The best way to convey your preferences to the staff on a regular basis is
I think it's like feedback after a date
For that reason, it will be necessary to make a lot of offers, so

I think it's best to search for it yourself first.
When you feel that there is a limit, you might hit the mark.

• Answer date: 2023/08/30 20:15

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> choose yourself

If so, concierge services may be a waste of your time.


If a staff member who has become close to you at the interview joins the company, I think it is possible to become friendly with them in that flow.


At the time of the offer, we may ask for information, but all the people who have been in a long-term relationship are the people who made the offer without hesitation.

Those who couldn't decide on the offer right away may have had some hesitation or hesitation (they weren't that fond of it).

I had the opportunity to meet with him once for an interview, but I didn't feel it was necessary.

• Answer date: 2023/08/31 13:27

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