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Question date: 2023/08/12 11:49

I would like to ask mainly male members.
Unlike apps and the like, clubs allow you to choose the girl you like based on unprocessed photos and staff comments, so I think that men usually face a meeting with a woman thinking "this girl is good". , Is there a moment when you think ``this girl is not good after all'' at the stage of meeting or the 2nd or 3rd date?what kind of moment is that?

I don't have any experience as a daddy and I've only registered as a female member for a while. I don't want to disappoint you.
Appearance, grooming, behavior, dining etiquette, etc... Please let us know if you can tell us from your own experience.

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  • Age: 20s
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In the early stages, it usually ends quickly, so it's not interesting because it doesn't talk, or if it's going to be an adult, it's tuna and the reaction is weak.

  • Answer date: 2023/08/12 13:47
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I don't know about other people, but in my case, I don't meet in a state where I think "this girl is good".
"This child may be a good child."

I can't think that "this girl is good" just by looking at the information that other people gathered in an interview for an hour.

So personally, I often end up just meeting once.

Also, if I force myself to be covered by a cat when I meet, I feel like I'm not a suitable person.
I think it's better not to be too enthusiastic or make too much when you think about a relationship that will last, not just once.

  • Answer date: 2023/08/12 12:36
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In my case, I started from rejecting the offer to the child I thought was good, to suspicion of dating type fraud,
Based on the experience of failing, staff comments are important.

The disappointing thing was that I couldn't date even though I said, "Dating OK!"
Oh dear,
I don't think it's unreasonable because he's not handsome and he's a perverted old man.

When we meet, it's better not to push yourself too hard and ask them to tell you what you can't do.
It is said that even if a woman meets a man for the first time, she can decide within a minute whether or not she wants to be in a relationship.

In my case, I don't get disappointed with my appearance, and when I think that I haven't heard what they have to say, I'm a bit disappointed.
I fully understand that there are times when I can't talk about young daughters' interests, but...

In that case, I would appreciate it if you could talk to me.

  • Answer date: 2023/08/12 13:37
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thanks for your questions.
Maezawa will answer.

> I think that men basically face a face-to-face meeting with a woman thinking "this girl is good"

This is just "good" which means that you like the appearance.

>The moment when you think "this girl is not good after all"

I think it depends on the part other than the appearance.

It's the gestures, the conversation, the way you use your mind
I think that the parts that can't be seen in such a picture will be judged after meeting.

> I don't want to disappoint you as much as possible.

Selfishness points are different depending on the man.
Therefore, it is necessary to somehow find out the selfish part in the conversation during the first meal.

And I think the important thing is that you don't have to cater to people who just want women to be slaves.
Well, if you get more than 100 million yen a month, you might be able to forgive being treated like a slave.
In the case of a low allowance, I think that stress builds up and it does not go well.

I think the best thing is for the person asking the question to be someone you can get along with naturally.

If you're a self-centered person who can't come to terms with women, like this is no good
I have to force myself not to date
I think it's possible to get sick of the mind, so I think it's better to be careful.

  • Answer date: 2023/08/12 14:42

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