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Question date: 2023/08/09 13:24

There is a woman I made an offer to and met with three times.
She is a good talker and a good listener, and I enjoy spending time with her.

However, the activities of adults are not very good.
It's not that she doesn't have the motivation to act like an adult, but it's not compatible, or it doesn't work very well (I can go all the way to the end.) I can't write it because it might end up.).

I'm wondering if I should continue to meet with her in the future or make an offer to someone else.
What would you do?

In addition, it is expected that the correct answer is to make an offer while meeting with her, but I don't have that much time to spare, so I would appreciate it if you could choose between continuing to meet with her or making an offer to someone else. is.

I'm sorry for the long sentence.

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Maezawa (Staff)

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thanks for your questions.
Maezawa will answer.

>I don't have that much time, so

Unfortunately
It's not a place for people who can't afford it
I think it would be better to start again when I have more time to spare.
If you can't afford it, I think there will be a lot of things you can't do.


On top of that, "It's a lot of fun to spend time together."
If so, what more do you want?
I think
I think it's different for each person.

Does the questioner emphasize sexual activity or does he emphasize personality as a human being?
If you think about it, I think the answer will naturally come out.

I think it's not an easy question, but if you think about it, you'll come to a conclusion.
Why don't you think about it?

  • Answer date: 2023/08/09 16:24
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Aya

If sex is so important, you have no choice but to keep looking for compatible women and keep offering them.A woman like that is hard to find.

It costs money to find a partner who is compatible with the body as well as the inside.


If you don't have the money, you have no choice but to be satisfied with the status quo.There is no such thing as picking the best.


Excuse me for the example of other dating clubs, but my dad has offered about 10 people and is matching with me.

The amount spent will be less than 300 million yen, including the offer fee, admission fee, and date expenses.

If it seems difficult, I'm sorry, but I think I have no choice but to give up.


  • Answer date: 2023/08/09 22:45
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Shirosa

I'm Shirousa, a new respondent.

This means that you are considering an offer to another woman, but you are hesitant to meet another woman until you break up with the person you are dating now.
He seems to be a kind person, but I have no choice but to continue to offer him until I meet someone who feels the same in my mind and body.

A column that Aya recently introduced
“Beware of daddy girls who pretend to like older men…”There are no people in their XNUMXs who like old men in this world!” [Atsuhiko Nakamura’s unnamed column]
have you read?
It's not a burning love, so isn't it a bit too idealistic?

I don't know if the leeway is financial, time, or mental leeway, but I think you should reduce the number of times you meet with your current girlfriend a little and make a new offer.
Why don't you try looking for your ideal girlfriend who is beautiful, has good proportions, is good at conversation, and has a good life?
This is the real thrill of dating clubs.

Also, it's hard to say
Isn't your lead not good enough?
If you are stubborn or rugged, of course her mood will get worse.
It's only the third time, so there may be some tension between us, but please take the lead.

  • Answer date: 2023/08/09 23:46
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Kazu

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I'm over XNUMX and can't decide whether to continue a relationship with a woman unless I ask how others are doing.
I wonder how it is.

Moreover, if it's a two-choice option, it's over XNUMX with an order for the answer.
I wondered how I had survived until now.

If you don't have an allowance, you won't die, and if you can't afford it, I think you'll stop continuing relationships with women and giving up.

  • Answer date: 2023/08/09 13:41
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basil

There are so many women out there, so if you are not satisfied with the most important purpose of this activity, adult activities, then look elsewhere.

  • Answer date: 2023/08/09 14:33
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Mac

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Worried people always regret whichever path they choose.Because I know empirically that I will regret it, so I'm worried.
Therefore, you may think that you can make it easier by shifting responsibility in the form of listening to and obeying other people's opinions, but regret will only turn into tongue-in-cheek to others.
I don't hesitate to choose one way or the other, but I'm not going to tell the questioner about it.After choosing, I think I forget that I even had a choice.

  • Answer date: 2023/08/09 18:30
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Paper

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I don't know why it's fun to meet you even though it's not good enough for adults.


It's special, so it's fun to be together, eat, do whatever you want, and go wherever you go, so it lasts for a long time.

I think it's futile to meet without satisfying the other person as an adult.

  • Answer date: 2023/08/09 13:49

Yo-san

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It's better to quit if you're worried about the work of adults.If you want to continue dating regardless of adult activities, I think you should do so.It's the third time we've met, so let's move on to the next one!

By the way, I don't judge myself only by the work of adults.

  • Answer date: 2023/08/09 18:24
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Taro

It's only natural to want a woman who is good at everything, but if you think one of them is lacking, which one would you choose?The so-called uncurry question.If you had to eat either one, which would you rather eat, poop or curry?that? ?Something's wrong, did I omit too much...

Anyway.If you are dissatisfied, it is a new offer without hesitation.If you don't want to waste money and time, you should cut it off.Nothing will be solved by standing still.If you keep moving forward, sometimes things go well and sometimes you regret it, but anyway, something happens.As you bump into each other like that, what you don't need will peel off and you'll come to understand what you really want.

Taro

  • Answer date: 2023/08/10 00:41

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