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Question date: 2023/06/18 14:36

The other day, we had a meeting and agreed to meet as an adult next time, but the content of the message after that was like sexual harassment, and later asked me to stay for a long time. I honestly want to say no.I don't know how to refuse because the schedule and place have been decided.

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Maezawa (Staff)

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I think you should tell it as it is.

this time

Being sent ●● feels like sexual harassment to me
I don't want to see you anymore.
Also, I felt that it was difficult to date for a long time.
It might have been okay if I had gotten along with Chichida better.
It is impossible for now.
I can't go on a date on __, and I can't see you in the future either.
Excuse me.

It feels like

Also, on the second date or so, some men give feedback to the club.
take the lead
I think you should report it to the club.

Mr. 〇〇 was a wonderful person at the first time.
Thank you for your introduction.

He seemed like a good person, so I thought I'd meet him for the second time.
Write something like "*****" and send it to me
I feel like I'm sexually harassed, and I don't think I fit in with people who send me such sentences
I thought.

Also, the next date is written as if you should schedule 〇 hours
I also felt that this was different from what I thought.
Even though you took the trouble to introduce me
I decided to decline the second date.

Actually, it might have been better to endure and go on a date
I'm sorry I declined.

I feel like I should send it like this.

That way, the staff can't say that men are bad, but women aren't bad either.
I can't help it.
Even so, it's only my second time with a man, so I should have been more considerate...

Like, even if a man comes to speak ill of a woman
there's no such thing
I think you will think so.


  • Answer date: 2023/06/18 14:58
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Seattle

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I think Maezawa's answer is the best.

Don't lie about the reason, let's say it's sexual harassment and reduce the number of victims later.

Don't cancel at the last minute, the sooner the better, let's decline now.

  • Answer date: 2023/06/18 20:04
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Kazu

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I think it's best to tell him how you feel and say that you don't want to see him.

  • Answer date: 2023/06/18 14:44
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Paper

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I was wondering if I should just skip it because I had to cancel my sisters, family, relatives, work-related schedules, etc.


Or should I cancel 1 to 2.3 days before because I'm not feeling well...

  • Answer date: 2023/06/18 16:01

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