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Question date: 2023/02/24 06:01

I'm begging you, please stop.

nice to meet you.I have been with Universe for over a year now.
Therefore, I would like to ask male members to stop inviting them out for a drive date.

Papa, who I often meet, always wants to go on long trips, and without prior notice he will take me to places that take about 2 hours round trip by car.
To be honest, it's hard to keep the allowance unchanged no matter how many hours you're detained.
The police will probably get information about the passenger, and I think they will contact your father's family (the name is of course a pseudonym, so I can't answer).
Since we are meeting in such a place, I think that we should treat each other with an appropriate sense of distance.
It's hard for women to say they don't like it, so I'm posting this because I want men to be careful.

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Male member

Die

Not many male members active in the Universe Club are looking at this question box.

That's why it's not difficult for a woman to say it, but the questioner has no choice but to directly convey her dissatisfaction to the dad.

Also, about the drive date, some women may enjoy it even if the questioner doesn't like it.

There is nothing to worry about dealing with accidents if Papa is not married.

Including the fact that the name is of course a pseudonym, I felt that the questioner was taking too much distance.

  • Answer date: 2023/02/24 06:42
Male member

Spring Summer Autumn Winter

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I went on a second date the other day.When she asked what her wishes were beforehand, her answer was to drive.And despite the fact that I'm a married, pretty caring woman.

I don't know what you want to say, but it's not the hope of all women.Also, at one branch, there was a video answering the question "Is the first drive OK or not?" for a while.

"I hate driving"
I think it is possible for the questioner to tell the man.

  • Answer date: 2023/02/24 06:44
Male member

Kazu

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Please do not post to the anonymous question box for the purpose of expressing your opinion.

  • Answer date: 2023/02/24 07:04
Female member

Nana Ayase

What if the questioner told the man directly that he dislikes driving and long dates?
Please write that in your profile
Mismatches are avoided.

I like driving, and I want to go golfing with Papa.
I also want to go to a hot spring.

I don't think it's right to impose your opinion on others.

  • Answer date: 2023/02/24 07:57
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Maezawa (Staff)

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I know what you mean
I know you want to tell me somewhere
Unfortunately, since this is a question box, non-questions are hidden.

In terms of this question

Aren't drive dates prohibited at the Universe Club?

I think I have achieved my goal to some extent with this question.
It's not a good idea to ask follow-up questions when presenting your opinion.

Think of questions that help you say what you want to say
Why don't you try it?

  • Answer date: 2023/02/24 08:37
Female member

potashumu

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In order to hide the weakness that I can't tell others
It's arrogant to make the subject big.
That kind of arrogance attracts people who the questioner feels like Yabapapa.

I will replace the sentence because it does not convey

“I have a request for male members,
I would like you to stop the act of inviting me to treat you with XNUMX or more.
It's hard to say that women don't like it even though everyone's sense of money goes crazy. lol lol

If you make the subject bigger, you can say anything like a general theory.Learn to fear it.

It's my weakness that I hate it with words and can't act.Not everyone has the same opinion as the questioner, and it is the questioner's own problem that he or she cannot have a relationship as desired.
To replace it as if it's everyone's problem... Huh.

If suddenly you are about to be taken for a drive
There are ways to say no.
Rather, because I cannot make such a decision,
It may be said that the man does the same thing to those who have the same opinion as the questioner.
If you want to represent your opinion as a woman's request,
Collection of women's questionnaires as evidence,
And please make sure that the questioner himself can actually act.That is the responsibility of being a spokesperson for women. (A woman who can do that wouldn't express her opinion here, and I don't think she would say her hopes like a spokesperson.)
It's not something to make a statement that makes the subject big without taking responsibility.
Well, I'm rather worried about whether it's okay to be enrolled for a year.

Daddy life is a risk in the first place.
I am registering with this in mind,
You can't do anything to avoid it
This is the questioner's own problem.
How long have you been underage?

By the way, I understand the risks and think about how to deal with it when I go on a drive date, so Dad, please invite me for a drive anytime.
I'll bring sweets and talk next to you v Yay v
Drive safely so as not to become a deceased person's portrait!

Oh, I'm always selfish, so
To represent the opinion of such a woman
I will not do anything presumptuous.

It's your own opinion.

  • Answer date: 2023/02/24 08:39
Male member

Paper

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It's a drive date from the first day.

On the first day, out of several destination plans (the girl chooses), it is often the case that she will go to a destination that takes about 2 hours round trip.

  • Answer date: 2023/02/24 12:19
Female member

Marika

It's something you should tell your partner.
I love drive dates.
(Limited to those who are good at driving)

Marika

  • Answer date: 2023/02/24 16:24
Female member

Camellia

I thought it might be wrong to post here...

Some people, including me, like driving dates.
I don't think it's strange if there are people who don't like it,
I think it would be best to put it in your profile.

when invited
"Because I get nervous and get motion sickness..."
``It's bad to have them drive for a long time...''
Whatever the reason, you should decline.

I'm planning two drives with my dad this spring.
I'm looking forward to riding in a luxury car that I've never ridden before.

  • Answer date: 2023/02/24 18:08
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Akari


Why don't you stop riding in the car of the person who keeps dating under a pseudonym?

If you can't say it directly, why don't you quit?

Smile amiably and say nothing
Later, if you say it's a mess, don't ride in the first place


I love driving because I love good drivers
Traveling, playing golf, I want to be with you in many ways
Only such people are allowed to date.


Akari

  • Answer date: 2023/02/24 22:26

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