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Question date: 2023/02/20 18:25

Thank you for your help.The other day, I consulted with you about two cancellations in a row on the same day.Thank you very much for your kind reply.

After that, I made a third offer in hopes of returning to the ground, but the third offer was canceled at the last minute, and so far, I have lost three consecutive first dates with a 3% cancellation rate.

By the way, the other three times are different women.

Since it was a last-minute cancellation on the first date, I don't think I'm responsible for it, but I've come to feel that there might be something wrong with me if it continues for the third time.

I don't have any pictures on my profile on the club site, and I don't write much about my profile, is this the problem? It gives women the impression that "This guy must be Sakura because he didn't write his profile properly."

Or maybe all the women I offered were unfortunately all Sakura, and the offer didn't go through.

If there is a last-minute cancellation on the day, it will be a pain to deal with things like canceling the store, so if you have any tricks (?) to avoid a last-minute cancellation, it would be greatly appreciated.

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Female member

Camellia

I don't think there are any cherry blossoms, regardless of gender.

A man who received an offer in the past,
From a woman who offered immediately after joining
Twice (2 people) I was canceled at the last minute in a row
At the recommendation of the staff, I was the third
I've had offers before.
So it's not out of the question to cancel three times in a row.

About your profile
From a person who writes in detail with a selfie
People with a simple profile without a photo are more likely to
Personally, I have a good impression.

By the way
You don't have a letter date, do you?
I want to play like that from the beginning before we meet
Are you making a strange request?
(Sorry for the random one-sided speculation)

If not,
I have no choice but to switch because I'm just out of luck.
I'm sure I'll be able to meet a nice woman next time!

  • Answer date: 2023/02/21 00:29
Male member

Fullerene

This is fullerene, the man's representative who was canceled at the last minute!
(I decided to call myself Fullerene in the hope that I would not be canceled at the last minute.)

There are no cherry blossoms, so don't worry.
I also have a profile with no photos and a moderate amount of writing.

It depends on the definition of last minute cancellation,
There are some people who do not show up at the meeting place on the day, let alone canceling at the last minute.
About 1% in my experience. . .There are many.I think it's all about my lack of popularity.
(If you include cancellations on the day and the day before, the number will increase even more.)

According to feedback from women,
For the time being, my star rating doesn't seem to be bad (you can tell me if you ask the staff),
As a possibility,

XNUMX) Your profile is disgusting.Not only photos and text, but also age, height, weight, etc.
⇒ You may not be able to say "I refuse to meet you".

XNUMX) A woman misunderstands it as an app.
⇒ Occasionally, when a woman introduces herself, she says, "I registered on this site."
When I hear this, I want to tsukkomi, "Oops, dating clubs are different from other sites."
I feel like it's common for women in the lower class. . .

Or something.

To be honest, whether the profile of the woman is solid or not,
Possibility of last minute cancellation is not very linked.
(I was just pathetic, sorry)

Well, it's okay if it's canceled at the last minute.
Even if you force yourself to meet, it won't go well anyway, and the setting fee will be wasted.
Let's go to the next one thinking that people who are not doing well have left themselves.


If you really don't want to cancel at the last minute,
How about having someone recommend you, or trying someone with a lot of ★?
For your reference.

  • Answer date: 2023/02/21 05:50
Male member

Kazu

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I don't think there is a cherry tree for both men and women.

I think it's better to check if you haven't written anything out of the ordinary like this question in your profile, which you rarely write.
Also, we can't see the profile of the questioner, so I think it would be better to ask the staff at the branch to see it.

  • Answer date: 2023/02/20 18:58
Male member

Seattle

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Offer, don't you only offer people who are likely to come to about XNUMX people a week?
We have never had a same-day cancellation in the past four years.

  • Answer date: 2023/02/20 19:26
Male member

date ◎ dream

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>If there is a last minute cancellation on the day, it will be difficult to deal with things like canceling the restaurant, so if you have any tricks (?) to avoid a last minute cancellation, please let me know.

I don't have any tricks.

>I don't have any photos on my profile on the club site, and I don't write much about my profile, but is this the problem?

I don't think the photo is relevant, but I think that's what it says.
Let's be serious (laughs).

  • Answer date: 2023/02/20 21:25
Male member

Die

I'm sorry, but I imagine the question may be false.

This is because, according to the setting data recently implemented at the club, the late cancellation rate is XNUMX%.

The fact that it happens three times in a row means that this phenomenon is rare on record.

Cancellations on the day will not generate income for the club, and female members who cancel on the day are basically forced to withdraw, so you will lose one female member.

If the setting dates were canceled three times in a row on the same day, I think the staff would panic and do something.

By the way, there are many men who do not write a profile, and it seems that there are many male members who do not post photos.

In other words, I think that the speculation of the questioner is off the mark.

  • Answer date: 2023/02/20 22:47
Female member

Nana Ayase

Dear questioner, you're using too many dating apps (laughs)

There is no Sakura in the dating club.

Don't you choose a woman only by her face if you have 3 cancellations?
This is a question that has been answered over and over again in the forum.

For once, try choosing someone with a normal face but a fuller profile
Because the staff canceled 3 times
Please recommend those who have never canceled at the last minute until now.

  • Answer date: 2023/02/21 03:50
Male member

Fuu

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if true
I was unlucky

If you offer a starred woman
Possibility of avoiding last-minute cancellations
i think it will go up

  • Answer date: 2023/02/21 07:01
Female member

Marika

I don't think so because there is no Sakura in the universe, but I don't think I would be excited to actively meet her.
Don't you need enough information to make them want to meet you?

Marika

  • Answer date: 2023/02/21 09:20
Male member

Zuiki

This is a male member of the liberal arts who is weak in data.

According to the setting data that Mr. Dai has already written, the cancellation rate on the day as of today in February is as follows.
In general, in order of the number of registered female members.
Tokyo Branch XNUMX%
Osaka branch XNUMX%
Nagoya Branch XNUMX%
Yokohama Branch XNUMX%
Omiya Branch XNUMX%
Fukuoka Branch XNUMX%
Chiba Branch XNUMX%
Kobe Branch XNUMX%
Kyoto Branch XNUMX%
Sendai Branch XNUMX%
Sapporo Branch XNUMX%
Hiroshima Branch XNUMX%

Is the questioner in Saitama or Chiba?LOL.
Jokes aside, I was interested in the unexpected regional characteristics.
I thought it would be seasonal.

It may not be a trick, but I hope it will be helpful for the questioner.
Well, the questioner can see for himself.
You probably don't have time like me...

If I dare to give you a tip, it is none other than the person who asked the question who chose and offered the three women who had to cancel at the last minute.We recommend that you carefully analyze your offer trends.
The questioner always has the freedom to choose and offer.

If you consult the branch well, there is a possibility that they will prepare a backup woman!
As expected, if three people in a row canceled at the last minute, the branch staff would probably want to do something about it.

This is my personal opinion wishing you good luck.

  • Answer date: 2023/02/21 18:51
Male member

Chikuwa

I will reply with humility.

We have dated dozens of times, but there are no last-minute cancellations, and we are almost never late.

I have a feeling that there must be some reason.

Why don't you try deleting your profile once or ask the staff to check it and rewrite it?

It may be a good idea to narrow down the offers to people who have dated rather than people who have never dated. If there are 4 or more ☆, it is safer.

There were several times when we faded out before we met on a letter date.
If you are using letter dating, I think you should stop.

It's a date place.
We always meet directly in a private room at a restaurant.This is because many women avoid the public eye.

  • Answer date: 2023/02/23 01:18

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