[JP ONLY] Sugar Dating Anonymous Question Box

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The best time to negotiate a pay raise is when you're ready to break up with the man.

It is better to think that it is unlikely that a man will talk to you about raising your allowance.

Regarding grooming, I think it's best that Umu Potashi writes about it.

I am also a socially embarrassing mistake, forgetting to cut off the suit tag, but I am grateful that it was pointed out.

But if you don't want me to walk next to you because of age-appropriate blemishes on your face, I don't want to walk with you either.

• Answer date: 2023/02/21 00:02

• iine

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Female member

Nana Ayase

① You are a kind person to the questioner, but you are a secondary person, aren't you?In that case, even if you don't raise a special allowance, it's something that other people receive more, so isn't it okay if he doesn't have guts?
let's get in touch with more leeway
You can stay in a hotel suite because it's your company's money.
Since you're in your 30s, I'm assuming you know what I'm asking...If you want a long-lasting relationship, it's better not to say a lot of things so that you can last longer.

As for appearance, if it's about nose hair, I think the questioner should cut it.
If the questioner asked a man to do something about spots and wrinkles, what would you think?I think I'm a rude person.

• Answer date: 2023/02/21 03:34

• iine

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Male member

Kazu

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I think that you should ask for more help when you feel like it.
I don't know if I should wait for an offer from a man.
If you can't read what your partner is going to do, there's no way I'm a total stranger.

In my case, if a woman only asks me to increase my allowance, I say goodbye to her.
If you ask me, "I want you to increase the amount of the allowance each time, how can I increase it?"

I have never wanted to increase my allowance.
As I mentioned earlier, if a woman asks for money for some reason, I will respond to consultation, but I don't think I will present a proposal to increase the allowance each time.
In order to respond to this consultation, if you are a person with whom you have feelings to meet many times a month, you can discuss it, but if you meet once every few months, there is no room for discussion.
I think that meeting once every few months is a thinner relationship than a familiar prostitute.

This is just my way of thinking, so maybe the man will take it easy if you say "I want you to increase your allowance".
Therefore, I think it is useless to ask strangers about such things.


I don't think it's a good idea to point out your appearance.
It seems that it can be easily dealt with if it is about nose hair, but do you think you should wear a wig if you have thin hair?

If you don't want to walk with her, I think you should pretend to be the woman you want to have sex with, meet her in your hotel room, and immediately push her down and go to bed.
There is a risk that the feelings of the man who wants to go on a pseudo-romance date will go away, but there is less risk of making the other person uncomfortable than pointing out the appearance.

• Answer date: 2023/02/20 12:06

• iine

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Female member

potashumu

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①I won't ask for an increase.
I don't think I should.
What should be in the first place?
② If you are in a relationship that is building a relationship, say it.

The reason is as follows.

the questioner is
I am a woman worthy of receiving 7-10 from other dads, so I understand that you want to impose that value on the man in question this time.

While saying I'm sad that I can only get XNUMX
what the questioner is trying to do

You (male) is a man of a level that you can't find the value of meeting even if you get a XNUMX.
I think that's what I want to say.

Although the questioner himself says that he is sad at XNUMX
I can't understand why you can do the same thing with men and don't feel sorry for them.

for that reason
①I never asked for an increase.
Because you don't have to ask.
If the other man feels that meeting me is more valuable than it is now, he will naturally increase the amount and take action that the man will think is worth it.
At the stage of trying to make the other person feel the same pain even though they know their own pain
I'm broke when it comes to relationships.
It would be fine if it was prostitution, but it's a business.

②Regarding appearance
I don't say it to date me.
What I say is To avoid the disadvantages of men themselves.
It's not just dad
The window of the boss's society is left open,
Even if the white tag sticks out from the back pocket of the suit
I'll give you a sneak peek.It may be embarrassing at that time, but if it's someone who feels embarrassed for a long time, it's even more painful.
(Because I understand the personality of the other person, I will tell them whether it is my boss or my dad.)

My dad wants to walk beside me, and he knows that I'm doing my best, so he takes care of my appearance and maintains my figure.
I think this is because my father naturally holds more value than I think even if he doesn't demand my value.

If the other person does not understand your feelings,
It's not about the other person's behavior,
First of all, I think it's because I'm missing something.
Even if I do my best, I think it's because I'm not trying hard enough, or because I don't have the feeling that I'm doing my best.

It's nice to have a relationship where you can broaden your horizons as a person, become kinder, and improve together.
Is it a long-term relationship?

It's my opinion,
To the man who offered me,
I'm not a good person to the extent that I can impose my own values ​​and continue the relationship, so the questioner may not understand, but I felt sorry for the man I was dating.

'Cause money is how you judge yourself in a general way
You're not earning that much from a full-time job, are you?
From the general theory of the world Such an evaluation is excessive.
That's why, in the first place, I'm overly self-conscious about being a dad who complains about money.

I thought.

Self argument.Strawberry

• Answer date: 2023/02/20 14:06

• iine

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Male member

Seattle

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I think I can sayIf you're a good-natured papa, you might have ears to listen.

Nose hair is natural.
If I had the money, I wouldn't buy a wig.

There is a timing for the allowance to increase without permission, and if you wait, it may take a year.
Other people will be able to tell you that you're giving them 10 yen, so be polite and be prepared to cut ties with them.

• Answer date: 2023/02/20 15:09

• iine

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Female member

Camellia

I don't basically negotiate about allowances
I am sorry that I cannot answer
I will answer about the appearance.

As far as I have read your question,
I would like to tell you frankly.
The iron rule is to start with yourself when things are difficult to say.

I'm worried about stains...
I couldn't point out my friend's nose hair the other day... or something?

Anything is fine, so I can bring it up as a topic
Isn't that the first step?

• Answer date: 2023/02/20 18:26

• iine

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Male member

Fuu

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well it's impossible
goodbye
looking for a new daddy

With a dad who doesn't fit the conditions in the first place
because we shouldn't date
From now on, the first thing I refuse to do is
Are you sure

• Answer date: 2023/02/21 07:13

• iine

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