• TOP
  • Thank you for your help.The other day, I made an offer, but on the day of the first date for two consecutive first dates, I was in the misery of canceling at the last minute...

Question

Question date: 2023/01/28 10:30

Thank you for your help.The other day, I made an offer, but on the day of my first date, I had to cancel at the last minute.

I'm not particularly angry, but both were a few hours before the date (for the second one, it was after getting to the meeting place), so I couldn't handle things like switching to a meal with a friend or acquaintance, so I had no choice. I ate alone.

By the way, both were private room shops, so I felt sad.

It's difficult to cancel a reservation at a restaurant without a last minute cancellation, and if you cancel the restaurant, you lose the trust of the restaurant.

The above is a bit of a complaint, but what is the percentage of seniors who cancel their first date at the last minute?

It's been a while since I registered, so I thought it would be dangerous to make a reservation at a restaurant above a certain level if there were many cancellations.

I can't tell if it's just bad luck or if it's the reality of the dating club that the first date is canceled, but what are you doing to prepare for a last-minute cancellation?

Also, if you cancel at the last minute, will you be rescheduled with that woman?

  • gender male
  • Age: 40s
  • Member: Universe male member
  • Member ID: 10148
  • Who should answer: Anyone, representative, staff, male member, female member, back office, column writer

report a question

question answerAnswers: 5

Male member

Fuu

column article

In one of my early columns,
I know how you feel
I have eaten alone in a private room

There are a certain number of last-minute cancellations
If you first offer a woman with many stars
can be avoided a little

If you are contacted in advance and cannot come on the day
I will reschedule, but it will not come suddenly on the day
I don't risk dating women

The other woman is young, so it's a light paste
I had an interview with my friend
There are a certain number of women like
Let's put on the ability to discern (laughs)

  • Answer date: 2023/01/30 00:13
Male member

Kazu

column article

Out of about XNUMX offers, XNUMX late cancellations, XNUMX request for postponement due to an accident the day before, and XNUMX delay due to overtime.
I've never experienced a last-minute cancellation, so I haven't taken any measures.

The woman who requested a postponement the day before was not the woman I was so enthusiastic about, so I canceled it.

  • Answer date: 2023/01/28 10:33
ス タ ッ フ

Maezawa (Staff)

column article

Blog post

Two cases in a row is...
Last minute cancellations are tough.

Previously, in that case, staff
"I have a meal reservation and I can't cancel it anymore, so would someone like to come eat?"
and tell

The staff would go to the meeting place and let me eat together.
How are you now?

Well, if you think it's useless to eat with the staff, I wouldn't recommend it.
I can't say anything because I may be told that I can't be busy right now.
Keep in touch with the staff there
(I hope my impression at that time is good)
When a nice woman comes to register, I'll be able to contact you with priority.


>If you cancel at the last minute, will you be rescheduled with that woman?

In the case of last-minute cancellations before the morning of the day, there are more reschedules
In the case of a last-minute cancellation, I get the impression that most people don't offer that woman anymore.


>Is it just bad luck?

Since there is almost no continuity, I feel that I was quite unlucky.

  • Answer date: 2023/01/28 12:14
Male member

Die

I have never experienced a last-minute cancellation on the first date when I was on a setting date.

There is only one time during a letter date, but I asked the shop to wait for a while and called another woman.

I was lucky then.

Depending on the specific occupation, such as a CA, it may be necessary to factor in cancellations to some extent.

  • Answer date: 2023/01/28 22:03
Female member

Nana Ayase

I wonder if it was offered to a very difficult woman

Or was it an offer on a very cold day the other day?

Still, I think it's bad to cancel at the last minute, so I've never done it, and I've never been asked to.

If you end up with a last-minute cancellation
Please call the staff and find a woman who can come that day.

For other details, please ask the staff on LINE.

  • Answer date: 2023/01/29 11:16

Related questions

  1. Isn't there trouble if someone with a wife finds out?
  2. I don't want my friends, family, and boyfriend to find out that I'm working as a daddy, but is it okay?
  3. From the club's point of view, do you have any tips for finding good women?I feel like my batting average is going down lately...