• TOP
  • I received my first offer and will have my first date soon.
    It's my first time doing daddy activities, so I went on a meal date with someone about 3 times older than me...

Question

Question date: 2023/01/20 11:49

I received my first offer and will have my first date soon.
I'm nervous because I've never had a meal date with someone about 3 years older than me because it's my first time doing dad activities.
I am eating at the hotel restaurant.

・Be careful with your clothes
・What should I talk about with people in their late 50s?
・When asked by an adult, is it okay to clearly tell the desired amount, or is it better to answer YES or NO after asking the daddy's desired amount?

please tell me.
Thank you in advance.

report a question

question answerAnswers: 7

Female member

potashumu

column article

This is Umu Potashi, a female member.

congratulations on your first offer
I was also a mixed feeling of excitement and tension.

〇 Clothes
I wear clothes that highlight the strengths of my style.
It's like a well-balanced look.
I'm especially careful not to wear clothes that don't fit my size, and to make sure that the lines of my underwear are not visible.
If the size does not match, wrinkles will appear in strange places, and you will feel that you have worked hard.

〇Conversation
What kind of relationship do you want to have in the future?
I think the first topic is a little different.
First of all, I listen to what the man is saying, and even if it's a little over the top, I give a nod, surprise, and laugh.
From there, when the man asks something, I say what I think, and if the man responds well, I just play catch in the conversation.
As for what I talk about, I talk about myself, and if I have a similar experience to what the man said, I will say, "It may not be similar at all, but this happened." I guess
Even if we don't have anything in common to talk about, I play the association game in the interior of the store, the food, the ingredients, and the time we spend together.

〇 Adult dating
I refuse suggestions from others.
I do not negotiate.
Basically, to continue or not to continue
I didn't set a minimum price when I made my first offer.The reason is that the presentation is different depending on the person, so the first offer was in the sense of knowing the flow of dad activities, so I prioritized experience over money. (He's a good dad, so he's still continuing.)
After that, it was decided that it would be this amount.
I'm not saying that my method is good, but I didn't know if I would get an offer in the future, so I think it would be good to use it as a basis for deciding whether I can do daddy activities.

the most important thing
The other person made time for me
that you made an offer
Various settings
I think it's all about thanking you for all the money and time you've prepared for me, and expressing that with words and actions.

i hope i can have a good date
do one's best!

This is my own opinion.

  • Answer date: 2023/01/20 20:26
Female member

Camellia

I am happy with my first offer!

・ About clothes
It's a hotel restaurant
I think pumps are good for a beautiful dress.
I think it doesn't have to be a dress.
SNIDEL or RoyalParty would be fine.
Even cheap ones that can be purchased at GRL etc.
Do your ironing properly
There is no problem if you dress well.

・About conversation
Rather than talking about myself
If asked, keep it to the extent that you can answer,
The most important thing is to enjoy listening to your partner.
Don't forget to smile and nod.
I will join you on the phone, but when you get to your seat
"I'm 〇〇. Nice to meet you."
"Actually, the first offer was Mr. 〇〇,
I'm a little nervous today (laughs)."
It would be best if you could say thank you for the offer.

・About adults
I basically wait for the other party's presentation.
Depending on the type of relationship you are asking,
When you meet someone for the first time in your first offer in your teens,
While having a worrying old woman's heart...
Please don't force yourself to tell me.

I hope you have a wonderful date!

  • Answer date: 2023/01/20 12:55
Male member

Seattle

column article

If you don't already have a daddy, wait for the man to present the amount.
Don't be okay with less than XNUMX.

  • Answer date: 2023/01/20 13:51
Female member

Phosphorus

Congratulations on your first offer!

The man of the other party is good to see the photo and profile of the questioner!I think that's why I'm offering you, so I think it's good to meet with a feeling of gratitude.

If you're in a hotel restaurant, how about a simple one-piece dress that doesn't look too childish?
Pumps or short boots because it's cold.

Even if you don't care about what you say, the other person will ask you a lot of questions, so I think you should answer as much as you can.
As for the allowance for adult dating, I think it's better to decide by yourself that you can't do less than this.

However, when it was my first time, I didn't even think about it and didn't even negotiate.
The other man was a good person, so I received more than enough allowance, so the result may have been good...

Please feel free to enjoy your meal!

  • Answer date: 2023/01/20 15:37

sunflower

column article

Please enjoy your first date~

・The dress is a neat one-piece dress that is not flashy, and the accessories are modest (recommended for pearls).

・If you are in your late 50s, I get nervous too!I'm sorry I can't give you any advice!

・It is better for adults to ask for the desired amount
(It's still my first time and I'm a teenager, so it shouldn't be that low)
If you don't say YES or no clearly, you'll be dragged into Yaba P, so be careful!

  • Answer date: 2023/01/20 20:01
Male member

Fuu

column article

First offer was good

cute
That posture already feels good
It's heartwarming

when you meet a good daddy
A question you don't have to worry about
Please check the answers of other respondents
please refer

Only allowance from me
I think it's good to wait to hear from Papa
Only the minimum line that can not be compromised is held in the questioner
Clearly if there is no minimum line
Tell and agree before going to the room or refusing

Also, if there is no talk of allowance
Always agree before going to the room
Be careful not to regret later

To dads who don't talk about allowances from dads
The probability of being able to continue with peace of mind is low
If you're a dad who wants to go to your room without talking about your allowance
You may decide to refuse

May you meet a good daddy

  • Answer date: 2023/01/20 23:20
Male member

Die

If a woman in her teens and XNUMXs looks too beautiful, it's like appealing to her as a daddy.

I don't think it's embarrassing for each other if parents and children, professors and students can see it.

For me, it's enough for women to dress close to normal.

If it's just a restaurant, it's safer not to wear a hoodie or jeans.

Let's decide the line in yourself about the allowance, and let's wait for the other party's presentation.

If there is no problem with the feeling and the allowance presented by the other party exceeds a certain line, it feels like it will develop beyond that.

  • Answer date: 2023/01/21 00:26

Related questions

  1. What kind of clothes should I wear on a real date?
  2. From the club's point of view, do you have any tips for finding good women?I feel like my batting average is going down lately...
  3. Do the representatives and staff have any experience of registering or using a dating club? (Or mistress experience) Target without experience...