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Question date: 2022/11/24 08:38

Please tell me how I can live strong.

I am a college student who is currently looking for a job.
Using apps and clubs, I have been working as a dad since I was a first year university student.
When I first started, I had a lot of ambitions, such as becoming a kira kira papa active girl or finding a fat papa and climbing to the next stage.However, recently, I don't have any goals that I want to achieve as a dad, so I'm doing it as a side job.

At the same time as dad activities, I have also made preparations for job hunting and what I worked hard during my school days.
Also, in the past few months, I have had a boyfriend for the first time in my life.

I was planning to develop a daddy as it is, but when I get a boyfriend, I feel uneasy that I'm betraying my partner because he values ​​me.

On the other hand, I felt that it would be a loss to decide to spend my days without doing dad activities just for a boyfriend who doesn't know if he will get married.
I think it's a bit risky to narrow down to one person from my point of view, who earns money from dad activities.

Looking at my father who is kind to me and has a boyfriend, I think it's a waste of time to worry about it objectively, but even so, I can't get rid of my anxiety.

What should I give priority to in my life now?
Is it papa katsu, love, or job hunting?
If you think about it in a normal way, I think it's a matter of course that I'm job hunting, but I'm personally worried about it.

So far, I haven't gotten that big of a profit from dad activities (unfortunately, my appearance level is average or below depending on the person).
The reason why I am working as a dad is simply because it is fun to meet interesting people who have economic power, so I can't decide to quit.
Since the female college student brand will end someday, it's a waste to use it while it has a shrewd market value before it ends!I am doing it in the spirit of

By the way, when it comes to job hunting, I don't have any work I want to do, so I just want to finish it as soon as possible.
If I were to invest my time in job hunting, it would definitely give me the greatest return, but even though I knew it in my head, I couldn't move.

Sorry for the lack of text.
Anyway, in many ways, I'm having a hazy day.
Please give me some advice.

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  • Age: 20s
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Male member

flag maker

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① Plan your job hunting schedule first
② Next, make an appointment with your boyfriend
③ Dad activity at the last available date and time


Perhaps the questioner is worried or simply dislikes job hunting.Job hunting without making excuses.

  • Answer date: 2022/11/24 11:54
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Mac

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Worrying is the flip side of being able to afford it, so it doesn't matter what you prioritize.I think you should decide according to your mood.
The important thing is to decide for yourself, not someone else's suggestions.If you decide for yourself, you won't regret it.
As for my relationship with my boyfriend, I don't even know if he's really sincere and doesn't work for himself in the first place.Even if you are sincere now, you may become a father in the future.At that time, you can continue to live as a dad with a wide range of humanity training to forgive your opponent.If you don't find out, it won't be cheating, and if you don't confess, you may believe it.It's an extension of lying to the dads saying, "You're the only one."True sincerity is not there, but how far can you stick to lies.Is it possible to forgive someone else's lies?
There may be objections, but I think so after living for 60 years.What was that cleanliness when you were young?I feel like I was just immature.
Failure in your 20s can become a springboard for success in your 30s and 40s, like Othello, so you don't have to be afraid of failure. I can never fail because failure in my 60s is just miserable.
Also, there was a question before that surprised me about the changes in female college students, but in short, it's like this.After half a year, I've really changed like a different person.It's interesting to me because it's like watching a tadpole grow into a frog.
I'm a little curious about what kind of frog the questioner will become, but most of them become ordinary ordinary frogs and their lives after that are fixed or stable.Now is the transformation period.No, it's not that kind of pervert lol

PS
The other day, when I was sorting out the line, the icon of my daughter who was playing 4P about 3 years ago was a two-shot with a young child, and it made me smile.I guess that's how everyone ends their relationship.

PS2
It's not that lying is bad, but making the other person unhappy is bad.Lies can make people happier than the truth.I hope you bite there and master the lie as one tool of life.Many women live like that.

PS3
One vote for Flame-san lol

  • Answer date: 2022/11/24 10:36
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Seattle

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Everything.Everything is important.
If you try little by little, you will surely be able to do it.

To the extent that you don't get sick, squeeze it all in moderation.
My daughter is 21 too, good luck.

  • Answer date: 2022/11/24 09:47
Male member

basil

It's a good choice for job hunting.
Even if you get married after dating, unlike our generation, you can't rely on the dream of being a full-time housewife, or even the income of a man.
As you can see, there are at most XNUMX years left for a stable dad life.
Think over a span of about XNUMX years and look for a job that you can hold on to.
If you look around, how many people work comfortably and depend on the company.

  • Answer date: 2022/11/24 13:08
Female member

Akari


Because I don't have the job I want to do or the person I want to be,
I feel like I just want to escape to various lukewarm waters

However, you should understand that it is difficult to get more rewards than other people with such a thing.

First, after winning one company anywhere


Akari

  • Answer date: 2022/11/24 15:12
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Paper

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Daddy life is something you don't have to know.

Something like legal drugs, no, more than drugs because I'm not interested in drugs.Quite difficult to get out of.


So, in life, it's love, but now I'm job hunting.

Daddy activities have zero priority.But I can't seem to quit...

  • Answer date: 2022/11/24 13:48
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Kazu

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I think that in order to live strongly, you must have a strong will and carry out what you have thought out for yourself, without asking questions to strangers or being influenced by their opinions.

By the way, I don't think there is such a thing as a female college student brand.
The next stage is reminiscent of a salaryman's assistant manager or assistant manager.

Graduation from university seems to be on the horizon, so why not think about graduating from a way of life that asks other people's complexions and makes you dance?

  • Answer date: 2022/11/24 09:00
Female member

Marika

Papa life is a bonus.
It's not something that should take precedence over anything else.

I work and have a boyfriend, and it's stable, so it's fun to be a daddy as a bonus, and I can't think of something like this becoming the center of my life and income.

Marika

  • Answer date: 2022/11/24 23:41
Female member

potashumu

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If I had a healthy company life today as well
I have only harsh opinions
It's a little difficult to write. I'm Umu Potashi, a female member.

It's already slip resistant
You're talking about the premise that you've got a number of employees, right?
It's seriously bad if nothing is decided at this time.

By the way, I feel close to the person who asked the question.
You chose a job.It was a company that I couldn't get into because of my educational background, so I was happy that I was able to come up with a strategy.
Peace and security that can be hung at a white company.
But since I chose lukewarm water,
I want to be a person who can put hot water in lukewarm water
Because it is lukewarm water personally
It may be said that I chose to be able to be about 45 degrees by myself lol

Oops, leave that silly talk aside

I have already received a satisfactory offer,
If I could say to my future self that I was satisfied
I should quit my job,
Right now my boyfriend is important and I cherish this time,
If my future self was happy at that time, I think I should quit being a dad now.

Then you'll have free time, right? (Though I have to do my graduation thesis well)
What do you do in that spare time?
In order to earn your own money, it's a good idea to prepare now in case the company you got a job offer from doesn't suit you.
An office worker who doesn't touch a computer properly
It's just a world of baggage.
Don't just look at the future where you can't decide anything by yourself,
First of all, what I can do
I think the questioner should look at his own feet.

If you haven't received a job offer, don't say gdgd
Let's get to work right away.
Even if you can't do anything as a new graduate
How long does it take for a company to find value
It's a lot shorter than the period you can live as a dad.

By the way, there is no future in Papa life in the first place,
Don't wear the wrong one lol

This is my own opinion.

My dad told me so, so I thought it might be so
XNUMXrd student! ?
No, seriously, it's not about dad life
Review including self-analysis at the internship,
Analyze the company, find a job you can continue to do or what you want to do, and study SPI (Is it different now?) If you don't do your best, you won't be able to get a decent job lol
Daddy will die before you,
There is also a risk of being involved!

  • Answer date: 2022/11/24 18:48

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