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Question date: 2022/08/28 10:53

Is it an ant to tell p that you want to pay for beauty?

It has become a hot topic on the Internet before, but women are highly demanded to take care of their appearance, and it costs money.
I also have a household account book, but the reality is that the money for beauty care is inflated unavoidably at beauty salons and various other things.

I thought about my own merits and merits for P in having them bear the cost of beauty care and wrote them down.

[Benefits for me (pj side)]
・I can become a more sophisticated me than I am now
・Self-investment and effort in other areas
・Because the part related to life such as beauty expenses is provided, you can like p who pays even more

[Benefits on the P side]
・Become treated as the first team, be liked
・You can have a kind of Pretty Woman-like experience where you can make a girl cute with your own hands.

For example, hair removal is expensive, but it's a natural era.
Honestly, isn't it okay to live personally?It's a faction, but some people wither when it comes to socializing, so in such cases, I would like to receive a beauty fee as an investment.

Also, in front of p, I will try to some extent (because I don't hate beauty), but I also wanted you to understand that "minimum feminine beauty" costs money.

If you have any advice about the content or how to actually convey it to the other party, please let me know.

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Male member

Early

I'm none
If you like someone, you propose to spend money on beauty from yourself, so I think that the questioner is not that kind of subject.
For the questioner, the questioner may not be the first army, just like the dad is not the first army.

I think it's better to think about how to be liked in the first place, rather than how to convey it well technically.

  • Answer date: 2022/08/28 13:38
Male member

Paper

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It's a pity to tell from a woman.


Without hesitation, when it comes to telling about beauty other than allowances, a woman who is quite a father,


>・Be treated as one army, be liked

I can only say that to a woman who thinks like this, and who doesn't care if she gets cut.


I like playing pretty woman

I've lost the will to write an answer...

  • Answer date: 2022/08/28 12:44
Female member

Aya

How you appeal will change depending on your relationship with your dad.

There are dads who don't want to pay for their beauty, no matter how nice the child is, and there are dads who are like, okay, okay.There are some dads who will give you something depending on how you do it, so it's important to make sure.

The only safe thing is

(XNUMX) Show that you are working hard at work and school in addition to beauty on a daily basis, and report that you did beauty with your dad's money, saying, "As a reward..." allowance)

⑵ Express your joy by saying something like, “My dad let me go to the beauty salon the other day and the treatment was great!

(XNUMX) Get daddy to give you money to go again

Is not it.

The point is to show that you are making some kind of effort other than beauty, rather than just begging, to give a sense of "reward".

  • Answer date: 2022/08/28 11:08
Male member

Kazu

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What men think is different for each person, and I don't know what men think about the questioner.

I will only write what I thought after reading the question, only about the merits on the father's side.

>・Be treated as one army, be liked

It means that you are not in the first army now.
It seems more meaningful to give money to a woman who has already entered the army.

I know I can't quantify the favors, but please be as specific as possible about the benefits.

>・You can have a kind of Pretty Woman-like experience where you can make a girl cute with your own hands.

Just giving money is not my hand, and if I give money, does it mean that she will become my favorite woman?
Even in Pretty Woman, Lewis had women tailored to his liking.

> For example, hair removal is expensive, but it's a natural era.

I agree that hair removal is the norm these days, but most women pay for hair removal with their own earnings.
Don't hesitate to pay for it, but please clarify the benefits of the payer.


Personally, I think I'll only consider it when a woman asks me for money while flashing something amazing that I've never asked for.
If you are a woman who has sex, you have little resistance to solve it with money, but if you are dating a woman who likes your personality, you have a strong feeling that you will buy it with money.
If a woman who likes your personality and is in a relationship offers you that kind of deal, I think you'll lose a lot of interest.


I read and added Mr. Potashiumu's PS.
that's right.If you're going to go logically, I think it's going to be unpleasant for both of you if you don't put more logic into it.
If you want to go emotionally, I think that women have to invest in raising their father's feelings for themselves so that the father will give money without feeling uncomfortable.
I think smart women who are good at living do that.

  • Answer date: 2022/08/28 11:20
Female member

Nana Ayase

It's for my own sake that I don't say money

Skillfully bring awareness to beauty

Why don't you do your manicure while talking?
If you let me say that, it's this one

It's a trick that can't be thrown away by never saying money

  • Answer date: 2022/08/28 11:40
Male member

Seattle

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Women who say anything other than cash should say goodbye immediately.In the flow of the story, when the man wanted to give it to me, I gave it to him.

Therefore, negotiation of the amount of the first allowance is the most important.

  • Answer date: 2022/08/28 11:52
Female member

Misato

Certainly, if you want to spend money on beauty and fashion, it will cost you a lot of money.
But I don't think that's what I'm saying.
Before I started Daddy, I used to buy cosmetics at drugstores, and I had never had nails or false eyelashes.
When I met my current dad, I started to think that I wanted to be a little more beautiful as a woman, so I started using my treatment for beauty care.
Then, one day, she told me that I was more beautiful than before, and I thanked my dad for allowing me to do such and such things.
After that, she said that she would let me go to a beauty salon and would buy me clothes, underwear, and cosmetics.I didn't take it for granted and was very surprised.However, I feel that if I said it myself, the result might have been different.

  • Answer date: 2022/08/28 12:19
Male member

Die

Isn't it okay to use the allowance I'm giving you for beauty?

I think it's more like a dad who doesn't care about beauty like me.

You are free to use your allowance...

If you want more allowance, you have to increase the number of times you meet.

In the end, I could only convey that I wanted more money.

  • Answer date: 2022/08/28 12:33
Female member

potashumu

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I'm Potashiumu.I am a female member.

Beauty bills can add up...I understand.
I think you should try talking to your dad.

Depending on your relationship with your father,
If you are a dad who supports you,
Because I want to be like this!With the stance that
If you're a dad who feels the benefits of dating you, dad has these benefits too!With a stance like that .... It may be better to think about how to convey it.
* Men's opinion is more reliable around here

Don't listen to strange requests
I have to make sure it doesn't sound like the allowance I'm receiving now isn't enough, and I think it would be more convincing if I told my dad how I'm using the allowance I'm receiving now. ....

I'm going to use the treatment I received for Elaboto!I often tell my dad how my life has changed by using it for cosmetics or what I use the treatment for.

It's my own opinion, but...

P.S
After reading Kazu's comment, I thought,
Maybe if you divide the merits and so on
There is a possibility that it will go in a bad direction, so it may be safer to appeal with emotions! ?I can't.

I'll do my best too (*•̀ㅂ•́)و✧
I will become a smart woman who is good at living!
Papa is watching here, but be prepared ♡

I will study the opinions of other respondents.
Thank you very much.

  • Answer date: 2022/08/28 11:10
Male member

Losing man

I am fully aware that it costs a lot of money because I put all my effort into "cleanliness" such as appearance and smell, and I do a lot of beauty care.

In addition to full-body medical hair removal, we also do stain removal and cosmetic surgery, and especially teeth cost money.
I think it will take about 2 years to get the teeth.The cost is about 200 million yen left only for teeth.

I understand more than anyone else that it costs money, so if I like a girl, I pay for beauty before a woman tells me.

Conversely, if a woman asks me to, I won't put it out.

Mr. PJ
eh?really?Is it true?Whole body medical hair removal 60 yen?Can you really give it to me? ”

Losing man
I'll put it outBecause I want you to be prettier and prettier.Don't worry, I'll send it separately from your allowance.

Mr. PJ
happy♡


I'm satisfied with this farce, the creature called Papa.
If you tell me, this farce will disappear, so I won't pay for it because it's not fun.

  • Answer date: 2022/08/28 11:10

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