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Question date: 2022/07/27 09:57

There is a woman who made an offer and decided to go on a date.
Yesterday, from the club,
I received a message saying, "The date has become inconvenient for the woman, and you said that it would be OK if it was another date that Mr. (I) suggested when I offered you a date."
I still have vacancies on the above "other days", but I thought, "I wonder what it's like to suddenly reschedule from the first date." Let me think,' he replied.

I want a long term relationship.What I am concerned about in the above case is that even if I rescheduled and dated according to the woman's request, and even if the conditions were met and we started dating, she would reschedule on the next date or I could not contact her.You can't have a long-term relationship with someone like that.In the end, I think it would be better to leave the offer blank at this point.I live far away, so going to Tokyo on a date is quite difficult.

The woman is very beautiful and the club profile is also written that it is good.

Would you like to accept the rescheduling?I apologize for the length and detail.Please answer.

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question answerAnswers: 13

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Nana Ayase

Why don't you give me some rescheduling?

I doubt humanity.

If you're beautiful and have a good profile, you'll have an expensive dad.
I think that I can continue for a long time if the treatment that is higher than the expensive dad and the appearance and humanity of the questioner are good.

If you can't give a high allowance, you should quit being a beautiful woman. Just making an offer is a waste of money.

  • Answer date: 2022/07/27 12:26
Female member

Phosphorus

Is it work that it is inconvenient?It's this time of year, and I've become a rich contact.I think you can think of a lot of things.
It may be difficult to say because I was in close contact with him, and if he said that it would be another schedule date given by the questioner, I don't think it would give a bad impression.

If so, it is impossible for the questioner.If you think that, it won't be good for both of you to date from now on, so why don't you decline and offer someone else?

For me, I think the best relationship is one where you can take care of each other, whether it's work or poor health.

  • Answer date: 2022/07/27 10:11
Male member

Seattle

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It depends on how much you want to meet, but there is a high possibility that it will be "I will be rescheduled on the next date or I will not be able to contact you. I cannot have a long-term relationship with such a person."

It's fine if you just want to meet once, but why don't you stop?There are already many beautiful men out there.Would you like to be XNUMX stars?

  • Answer date: 2022/07/27 10:04
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Kazu

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I will respond.
There are times when even I have to ask for rescheduling, and we both agree.
I accept that the fact that I had to ask for a reschedule just happened to happen on the day I was set up.

I don't think you'll know if you're going to be in a long-term relationship until you meet at least once.
I think it's useless to think about this and that if we haven't met.

  • Answer date: 2022/07/27 10:09
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Maezawa (Staff)

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Doesn't that mean she's menstruating that day?

How about asking the staff?
I can't answer
If it's my period, I'll reschedule, but if it's not, I'm wondering if I should cancel it.
Please let me know if I should reschedule.

if you write like

I can't give you a specific answer
I think you should reschedule.

If you get a reply like this, it means you're on your period.

If not, I think you should cancel.
If you get a reply saying, I think it's another reason.
I think it's good to think about whether you won't regret not dating that woman.

However, during this time, I heard that CS began to lie after FS and CS broke up.
Although there may not be such exchanges as above
If so, I have to say that the future of the universe is bleak.

Basically answer honestly
If you can't respond, give at least a hint
I think most of the staff say.

  • Answer date: 2022/07/28 01:51
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date ◎ dream

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Basically, I only work within a radius of about XNUMX km, even if I say people nearby, but even if I'm rescheduled, I can deal with it without much impact, so I'm flexible about that.
There was no reschedule for the first time, but I think it can't be helped because various things happen in life.

>It says that the women are very beautiful and the club profiles are good.
If I were you, I would change the schedule and meet you.

  • Answer date: 2022/07/27 13:39
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Paper

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It may be that there is no edge to be rescheduled by setting.


On a normal date, a woman's rescheduling is inevitable, but as expected, there was not a single woman who rescheduled on the setting or on the first date.perhaps…


But it's nothing to worry about.
That attitude may interfere with long-term continuation.



PS

Also, this time, since the questioner has given an alternative date, shouldn't it be considered a rescheduling? ?Just change it to another day.

  • Answer date: 2022/07/27 13:07
Male member

Losing man

Respond to rescheduling.

Compared to men, women's physical condition changes much more rapidly, and women are creatures that have to be rescheduled.I don't think I can do dad life if I don't understand there.

The only weapon for the elderly like us is "comfort".What are you going to do about being rescheduled?
Leisure is a really great weapon, and there are times when it can beat even regular boyfriends.

Also, if you really don't like risk, you have no choice but to find a nearby woman.If it's a nearby woman, it's a minor injury because it's about to fly the hotel bill when it's rescheduled.

  • Answer date: 2022/07/27 10:30
Female member

Akari


If such a thing becomes a negative evaluation,
Club dating itself may not be for you
not kind

woman looks cute

Because it is a relationship with mutual circumstances,
It is natural for us to meet when it is convenient for both of us.


I can see through the thoughts of the questioner who wants me to put myself first no matter what.
Man, it's decided unreasonably


Akari

  • Answer date: 2022/07/28 05:21

sunflower

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I'm the kind of person who doesn't mind being rescheduled.
Questioner, how about going back to a blank slate this time?

do you hate yourself?That's the best way to decide.

  • Answer date: 2022/07/27 17:45
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Fuu

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I would reschedule

Even on the first date, I have a plan that I can't miss
you may get in

wait and see
I myself have many requests for rescheduling.
Since there is no problem of distance like the questioner

In the first place
Since we are young women, we are more interested in events than
I think it's better to think that there are many

If you absolutely want to follow this schedule
A lot of allowances per month, for one questioner
Get squeezed or daddy is the questioner without an offer
Why don't you look for a woman who is only Mr.?


  • Answer date: 2022/07/27 23:05
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Fuu

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I would reschedule

Even on the first date, I have a plan that I can't miss
you may get in

wait and see
I myself have many requests for rescheduling.
Since there is no problem of distance like the questioner

In the first place
Since we are young women, we are more interested in events than
I think it's better to think that there are many

If you absolutely want to follow this schedule
A lot of allowances per month, for one questioner
Get squeezed or daddy is the questioner without an offer
Why don't you look for a woman who is only Mr.?


  • Answer date: 2022/07/27 23:05
Male member

Die

I don't want you to reschedule because your allowance will be higher than other men.

I think you should tell a woman on the first date that if you reschedule, you'll break up immediately.

By the way, if you don't allow rescheduling even though your allowance is low, you won't be in a long-term relationship with any woman.

Personally, I've never had a problem with rescheduling...

  • Answer date: 2022/07/27 18:55

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