conversations, calls, emails, etc. 
Daily communication is the key for daddy girls. 
The appearance is plastic surgery and esthetics.It costs money. 
But brushing up your communication skills can be done for free.Only effort is required. 

Communication with my dad, which I usually do as a matter of course, 
Have you ever thought about communication that will benefit you in the future, so that it works to your advantage? 
This time, I will tell you about communication techniques that build win-win relationships using theories of psychology. 
I'm from Daddy"Rena-chan is a good listener. She's a girl who can talk properly and make me want to meet her again. There aren't many girls who can communicate like this. Am I wrong?"I heard so many complaints and consultations that my ears were full of calluses. 
It is a technique that can be used not only for dad activities, but also for love, work, and all relationships, so it is recommended that you acquire it.

Everyone tends to turn to the "talking side" 

People are creatures that feel pleasure in "talking". 
That's why everyone gives priority to their own pleasure and ends up being the "speaker". 
And as a result, it often happens that "I'm not listening to people," "It looks like a conversation but it's not a conversation," and "I'm arguing out of order." 
"How do you feel?" is more important than "What is the other person saying?" 
Building a win-win relationship requires the highest level of skill in the listening stage. 
It's a skill called "listening with empathy". 
“Listening with empathy” means listening from the other person's point of view and trying to understand the other person with sincerity from the bottom of one's heart. 
Listen to how the other person feels, not what they say. 
Many people find listening with empathy to be time consuming, but the time you spend listening to your inner voice can pay huge dividends in trust. 
You want to tell your dad how attractive you are, but when you listen to him, try to control your desire to talk as much as possible. 

start by listening 

I am interested only in the parts that I am interested in, and interpret and evaluate from my own point of view.
It is not possible to build a win-win relationship with “how to listen”. 
First, listen deeply with interest. 
For example, if the other party is a dad, ask yourself, "What kind of troubles does your dad have? Why are you working as a dad?"
Or what are you thinking about today? Let's start by trying to understand . 
Once you can do that, try listening empathically from the other person's point of view. 
Try to empathize with how the other person sees the world. 
"Listening" is more important than "talking" in communication that builds win-win relationships.  

Understand through others, not through yourself 

“Listening” is to see the world from the other person’s point of view. 
Judging the other person's world through your own world is not "listening to the other person's story." 
In the world through your own world, you will utter the following words. 
"I enjoyed playing karaoke, so I'm sure my dad will think it's fun to go on a karaoke date with me today, and I'm sure he'll go on a date with me again."interpretation. 
 
 "I want to see my dad more often, but it's not realistic because of dad's budget."Evaluation. 
"Are you invited by a subordinate girl at the company?"The search. 
"Papa should pay more attention to his appearance."Advice. 
 
None of these are comforting ways of listening. 
Please listen to the story while looking at the world from the perspective of daddy. 

 How to understand through others that you can practice from today 

Here are four ways you can start seeing the world through Daddy's eyes. 
Please try to reference. 
 
XNUMX. Repeat the story. 
Example: Papa "I hate my job" ⇒ You "I hate my job" 
XNUMX. Replace the contents of the story with your own words. 
Example: Dad "Recently, I don't have the motivation to work" ⇒ You "I see. You don't want to go to work." 
XNUMX. Reflect the other person's feelings. 
Example: Daddy ``Is it okay if we break up early today?'' ⇒ You ``You look kind of tired.'' 
XNUMX. Reflect your emotions while replacing them with your own words. 
Example: Papa ``Is it okay if I break up early today?'' ⇒ You ``You look tired, so please break up early.''
I want to." 
 
 
What did you think? 
The communication technique introduced this time is a dad active girl who wants to notice a long-term relationship with her dad
Not only that, but also hostesses who want to improve their skills, whether they are sales people who have a lot of entertainment or those who are aiming for a promotion.
Mr. is also a win-win communication technique that changes the evaluation of those around you when you wear it. 
If you're worried that you can't build a long-term relationship of trust, give it a try.