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【question】
Why do men leave contact information for women they are no longer interested in and sometimes reply to them?I feel like it can't be helped to be popular with uninterested women, but does being popular lead to self-confidence when contacted?
【Answer】
Thank you very much for your question.
"The rumor that a good woman fluttered is the quickest way to get popular."
This is a quote from the main character Haru in the manga "Trillion Game".Your question can be answered with just this quote.
quantity over quality
What do you need most to make money?
Physical strength, effort, talent, luck, time.
There is no doubt that they are all very important factors, but money is the most necessary thing to earn money in a capitalist economy.
The most necessary thing to earn money is money.It's a very unreasonable story, but capitalism is like that.
The rich get richer and the poor get poorer.With a few exceptions such as wars and revolutions, this law has not been broken for hundreds of years.
It can be said that men's popularity has exactly the same structure as capitalism.As Haru said, you need to be popular in order to be popular.
I want it because everyone wants it.It can be said that brand bags, trendy shops, and popular idols are all basically based on this law.And male mote is no exception.
Because he is popular with many women, he wants that man.The unreasonable law that it is necessary to be popular in order to be popular is established in this way.
Therefore, it can be said that men tend to think that they want to be popular with the other woman, whether they are interested in the other woman or not.Even if there are other women of interest, it is necessary to be popular with women who are not interested in order to drop the favorite woman.
There is no reason to delete / There is no reason not to be popular
Since you are asking this kind of question, you probably think that it is meaningless to delete the contact information of men who are not interested and to be popular with men who are not interested.
So why do you think that deleting your contact information and being popular is pointless?
Even if it is guaranteed that you will never see that contact again, that is no reason to delete it.Modern smartphones have a huge amount of storage space, and virtually unlimited contacts can be registered, so even if you never use them, there is no need to delete them.
The same goes for being popular.Even if it is guaranteed that we will never meet again, where is the need to be hated?
And in both cases, there is no guarantee that it will never happen again.Maybe you have that man in your business, or your friend might be married to him.
In other words, if the questioner intentionally deleted their contact information, it is not that they do not see the merits of leaving their contact information, but that there is a disadvantage in leaving it.
So what are the drawbacks?
I think it probably means that seeing the name makes you feel uncomfortable.
Women generally don't want to be liked by men they don't like.This is probably due to the biological strategy of the female sex.Being impregnated by an unfavorable male is a fatal loss for females, and it is thought that females have a tendency to keep unfavorable males away in order to avoid this.
On the other hand, there is almost no disadvantage for a male to impregnate a female that he does not like.Rather, as a survival strategy, it is best to impregnate anyone, and this may have led to the trait of not letting females away.
So whether men like it or not, there is no merit in keeping females away.It's completely female thinking that it's meaningless to be popular with the opposite sex you don't like, and it can be said to be incompatible with male strategies.
