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【Questions】
My recent regular dad (monthly) insists on going on a trip.
To be honest, I don't consider travel at all in this kind of relationship.
To be honest, it's hard for me to have my dad by my side all day long, even when I sleep and when I wake up.I don't have a smile and a spirit.
I always politely decline, but lately I've been so persistent that I'm at a loss as to what to do.
monthly allowance +10I would consider it if I could get it, but it's hard to talk about money with regulars.
I wish my dad would talk to me about money....
Ladies, what do you do in a situation like this?
I'm sorry daddy, but it's hard to be restrained for a long time.
【Answer】
Thank you very much for your question.
Subscriptions are a hot topic these days, but it's human psychology to want to use as much as possible once you've signed a subscription.
The same can be said for dad life.e.g. once5A woman who was paying a ten thousand allowance20If you subscribe for ten thousand, you will try to meet more than five times, which is the customer psychology.When you sign a subscription contract with your dad, we recommend that you think about it carefully before signing a contract.
Also, as can be said for all industries, customers do not voluntarily raise prices.It's a matter of course, but from the customer's point of view, there is no merit even if the price is raised.Therefore, it would be wise not to hold on to hope that Dad will raise the price.
Under these circumstances, let us answer your questions.
In addition, in answering the following2We will use points as a condition.
Condition XNUMX: Prohibition of measures that could end the relationship
Condition XNUMX: In principle, it is prohibited to increase the number of sales per month
Condition XNUMX goes without saying.I'm worried because I don't want to cancel the contract with my dad.Therefore, it is an absolute condition not to spoil Papa's mood as much as possible.
Condition XNUMX is also important to you.Even if you can avoid traveling, there is no meaning if the number of times you meet increases dramatically.As long as you have a subscription contract, the basic policy of the store is how to reduce the number of business days.
Phase XNUMX Consider the number of times
In avoiding trips from dad, first think about how many times you need to avoid.
For example, if there is a condition that the target amount will be accumulated in half a year,1As a degree of avoidance, it is good to go through XNUMX times.Of course, it's not like I'm going to say it every week, so in fact, if you do it XNUMX-XNUMX times, there's no problem.
Menstruation: XNUMX times
Papas want to have sex with the questioner, so menstruation would be an effective means.In the unlikely event that your dad says that it's okay, just say, "I'm going on a trip with my dad, so I want to be in perfect physical condition," or "I'm sad that I won't be traveling with my dad."
Bereavement: XNUMX time
A bereavement is a classic excuse for slacking off, but it can only be used once.It's too standard, so please be careful when using it.
Friends' weddings: XNUMX-XNUMX times
Depending on the age of the questioner, a friend's wedding is an effective means.
Circle training camp: XNUMX times
If the person asking the question is a university student, a circle training camp would be a good excuse.
If you say it's a friend's trip, you may get in a bad mood, but I think it's relatively easy to pass if it's a circle training camp.
Final exam period: XNUMX times
It is also limited to university students, but the final exam period can also be used as an excuse.
Anyway, my appearance is good, so it's hard for Papa to complain.No matter how you feel about it, there is no doubt that it is an excuse that is easy to pass.
Corona: XNUMX times
Putting aside the question of what social norms are, corona can also be used as an excuse.
However, if you say "I got corona"PCRIn extreme cases, the relationship may even end.
Therefore, it is better to keep it muddy as an excuse, saying, "It looks like a cough, and it might be corona."If thisPCRNo problem, and above all, no need to lie.
Corona is XNUMX times as an excuse for XNUMX weeks in XNUMX times.
picture! ?I want to go I want to go! !
I've prepared some excuses like that, but no matter what excuse I make, it's inevitable that my dad will be dissatisfied because I didn't actually go on a trip.
So let me introduce you to one last method.
This is a bit long, so I will explain it in conversation format.
Papa: “Would you like to go on a trip next time?”
Woman: "Where are you?"
Papa: "There's a nice hotel in Kyoto."
Woman: “Wow! Great!! I want to go!!”
Papa: “Well then, how about this weekend? Two days and one night from Saturday.”
Woman: "Wait a minute!"
Woman: "Oh, it's Saturday.17I have plans to……But I really want to go, so is that time okay? ”
Papa uh……That's a little tough."
woman……I wanted to go."
Here you go.
The advantage of this method is3point.
XNUMX) You can create a feeling of wanting to go
XNUMX) Dad will refuse
17Even though I have a plan until that time, I can say that I want to go even after that, so the feeling of refusal is considerably reduced.Moreover, in the case of this method, it will be a form of refusal from the father, so it will be a very good production.
Also, as a derivative technique, instead of "I have plans until 17:XNUMX,"13The same effect can be expected by killing time the next day, such as "I have plans from time to time."However, this is more likely to be asked, "What are you planning?"
Well then, what should I do if my dad says "I'm fine with that, let's go" with this method?
That is the third advantage of this method.Even if there is nothing you can do about it, it is possible to shorten the travel time as much as possible.
1Being with daddy during the day must be hard.but17I think that the spiciness will be considerably reduced if it is from around noon the next day.If dad really wants to go on a trip, it's difficult to avoid any roads, so you should at least take measures to shorten the travel time.
