Hello, I'm Natsuyuki.

When I was watching TV with my father the other day, an actress appeared.

The father who saw the actress said,

"Oh no~, Mr. 〇〇, you look beautiful every time I see you~ You seem to have a good personality."
 

I was surprised to hear that.

"Eh, what's so beautiful?! Your personality looks super bad!"

Men's preferences vs. women's preferences.

Especially when you look at a woman, isn't there a difference between looking at a man and looking at a woman?

Aren't there girls who are really popular with men, even if women think they're ugly?

So, today, I would like to introduce the point of admiration for women in "Men's preferences vs. Women's preferences".
 

Asking each other for things we don't have

Interestingly,

From a woman's point of view, "I admire that woman! I want to get closer!"

From a man's point of view, "I want to be that girl! I want to get close to her!"

What is the difference in sensitivity between men and women?

Women that men admire have certain characteristics.

In particular, it seems that I can be honest with women who envelop me with feminine care and healing power.

I think it's the same psychology that women want men to be masculine.

We ask each other for things we don't have.

It seems that the tolerability of a woman that men admire is to be calm, not panicked, and calm.

For example, in a conversation, you are a good listener, or you say, "What?so what happened? ’, or if you praise your confidence at just the right moment, men will feel a sense of security.

And men are instinctively not good at caring, so they hate negative thinking women who complain and whine, women who always complain of poor physical condition, and indecisive women.

I always feel a sense of trust in a child who is always healthy and has a bright atmosphere.
 

Desire to be swayed by a devilish woman

Also, there seems to be a point that attracts women's atmosphere.

Men are always on the lookout for women.

There are a lot of women in the world, and there are girls who are strong in S, and girls who are spoiled and M.

When men come in contact with various types of girls, they get distracted.

That's why women who can change their facial expressions and attitudes according to the situation are attractive.

For example, I have a desire to be swayed by a devilish woman, but I would like you to keep a firm line between public and private matters, such as your attitude in front of your boss, in front of your friends, and when you are alone.

If you date a woman who says this, you won't get stuck in a rut, so men will find it fun to be by your side all the time.    

Also, women who want to know everything about the other person or want to say everything about themselves are not popular.

Also, women who brag about their glory, coolness, and what they are good at are no good!

A man's instinct is tickled with adventurousness and curiosity when there are parts that can't be seen even if he explores.

Men are more likely to approach a woman who is a little mysterious rather than revealing everything.
 

When it comes to appearance, atmosphere is important.

The point of a woman's atmosphere to be popular with men is not to have a well-groomed face and style, but to have a clean feeling and a good scent.

Men are sensitive not to the smell of perfume or harsh makeup, but to the smell of shampoo that suddenly smells, or the scent of clean fabric softener that is faintly transmitted from clothes.

The points that men think, "This woman is a good woman. I want to get closer!"
 

The dexterity of the hands is a point of admiration

On the other hand, what does a woman look like to a woman?

The characteristics of a woman that women admire is that they have a clear style of their own without fear of isolation.

Women are basically swarming creatures, so many of them don't agree with those around them or express their opinions clearly.

In such a situation, I get the impression that a woman who can express her opinion without hesitation and assert herself well is cool.

Also, being feminine is important.

For example, dexterity with your hands is something I admire.

A woman who is good at sewing, good at cooking, beautiful handwriting, and has wonderful skills looks like a woman with good taste.

Fashion is also a big deciding factor for women.
If you know how to dress well or have your own fashion style, you will want to imitate it.

Above all, she is a fun woman to be with.

A woman who is a good storyteller, who laughs all the time, and who is always surrounded by friends is attractive to women.

This is the image of women that women long for.
 

How much do you know about the creature called "woman"?

So how was it?

Differences in how women and men feel about women

How much do you probably know about the creature called "woman"?
 

I feel like it's in the part that says.

The admiration of women from the perspective of men

I think you have quite a bit of ideals for women, concepts of women, and images.

On the other hand, I think that women's admiration for women is realistic, or it is closely related to life, and it captures the real appearance.

In conclusion, when aiming for male uke when doing dad activities,
 

It's a shortcut to get yourself closer to the ideal woman that men think of, but by gradually showing yourself in your private life, wouldn't men feel a sense of security?
 

And I'm sure that a woman who is liked not only by men but also by women is attractive to men and they don't want to talk about it.

Xia Xue