Hello, I'm Natsuyuki.

It's been really hot every day...

I'm sweating just by walking for 5 minutes in the heat of the crowd.

How cool and calm,The issue that Natsuyuki is currently working on is whether to walk while letting the good scent of shampoo waft in the air.

After all, I want women to be refreshed at all times.

I don't want to be the kind of woman who whines with sweat!

Well, we digress,

This time,I would like to introduce the disadvantages that I felt after joining the dating club.

Regarding dating clubsI think the word "disadvantage" has various meanings..

Disadvantages of work

Disadvantages of dating strangers

Then, the fear of having a relationship with the opposite sex,I think that is also a disadvantage.

Let's take a closer look.

Disadvantages of work

First, there are the disadvantages of working.

I think there are various purposes and reasons for joining a dating club, but among them, "I want money", "I want to earn money",For those interested in dating clubs, the world isn't so sweet.

At first glance, I feel like I can easily get a high amount, but I think it's rare to receive a job request in the first place.

After all, there are many women registered.

All the women who pass the interview look at the face, style, and personality, so

It's all about beautiful women with good style.

There are many veterans who have been with us for a long time.

So, it's a great opportunity to get a job assigned to me, and I say, "Thank you."I have to thank you.

There are very few chances of getting a job.

And even if I get a job, if it doesn't suit my circumstances or I'm not feeling well, I still have to refuse.

It is quite difficult to work in one dating club, so it is a disadvantage that it is difficult to adjust the schedule with private time.

And even if you put in the effort, take the time, and want the job, you may not get enough money.

At the dating club, the amount of money you can get depends on the other man, so this is the most difficult part.

Even if you entertain a lot, there are so-called "stingy" men, and even if you think you entertained them,There may be cases where the other party is not satisfied.

If you complain there,It will cause the relationship with the man not to continue, and there is a possibility that the next job will not come around.

So, "I want money"Thinking about joining a dating club for the reason

Not recommended.

If you join a dating club, be patient

"I wish I had a job~"It's going to be stressful if you don't have a light feeling.
 

Disadvantages of dating strangers

Next, about the disadvantages of dating someone you don't know.

If you think this is simply "not funny",On the other hand, I am stressed about dating clubs.

Conversely, the benefits of dating a stranger at a dating club

• meet new people,
• find new possibilities
• to discover a new world,
  な ど

It's akin to exploring uncharted territory.

If you feel anxious, dissatisfied, or scared about it, the dating club is not for you.

Also, "because it's only one time anyway"If you want to go on a date with a clear attitude, you will be disgusted by the other party.

Men have a lot of experience and have a severe eye for women.I don't want to do it."
 

I actually had an experience like this.

I once went on a joint date with three people, and when the man who chose me at that time was alone with me, he said,I was

"A while ago, when everyone was eating, Mr. A,I really didn't want to do it.Something,I'm here to eat free food, or rather, I'm here to earn pocket money,Before sex, I didn't feel like talking to a man.Alas, the worst. "

After all, I'm going to find out.

In fact, after that date, Mr. A contacted me,It was like this.

"Thank you for your hard work today. Was everything okay after that? Today's man,Everyone was bad.I don't like it at allI was stingy, and I wanted to go home from the meal time.Sure enough,I got very little money.Natsuki-chan, how much did you get? ”
 

Ms. A was a girl who was completely earning money.

On the other hand, the other Mr. B was enjoying himself.

"Natsuyuki-san, thank you for your hard work~. Today was fun! I,The man I was with, who works in finance,He also talked about various things in the industry,It was really interesting.What kind of person was Natsuyuki's opponent? ”
 

This Mr. B hit it off with a man on his way home,It is said that they have met several times since then.

That is to say,For people who can't find the fun of dating someone they don't know, dating clubs are full of demerits and uninteresting..
 

Fear of having a relationship with the opposite sex

Finally, about the fear of having a relationship with the opposite sex.

this is,Trust relationshipis not it.

Of course, at the beginning, we are “nice to meet you” to each other.

how to communicate wellThe problem is whether we can open our hearts to each other.

If I block my heart with "I'm scared" and "What should I do?", even men won't say anything.I can't even get the communication of the body.

Instead, it's important to listen to the other person's tastes and ways of thinking, convey your own feelings, and build a relationship based on mutual trust.

Once trust is established,Men care a lot about women.

Even here, feelings will grow in the other man.

We can have a good relationship like lovers.

"scared"Rather, it is more important than anything to have interest and affection for the other personで すRight.

that's all,How about talking about the disadvantages of dating clubs this time?Did you?

Natsuyuki's "work" and "encounters" are hard at the dating clubrather than asking for

"I wish we could be lovers." "I want to have fun."with a light feeling

I think it's good to relax and participate.

Xia Xue