I am working as a receptionist for a major company while also being a dad.
I was nervous about what to do if someone from the company or business partner found me at the dating club,
When I first registered for a dating club, I didn't know anything and accepted offers from all men. (I regretted that I should have told the club later that men in the same company or related companies are NG)
So please listen to my experience because I was afraid three times.
・Offer from the president of the business partner
I met with the president of the company I always deal with at work, so I met him several times on the phone and served tea, and we had a business conversation, so we were acquaintances.He is a serious president and a firm person.
One day, when I got an offer from a dating club and went to the meeting place, there was an uncle who looked like something I had seen before.I thought it was the president of a business partner.
Moreover, I came to the company yesterday and just met him.
When I was speechless and frozen, the president said, "It was you after all."
It seems that I was exposed, so I thought that I would even make an offer (at this time, my whole face was exposed because it was before I started wearing a mask).
What surprised me when I talked to him normally was that he was a bit strange and perverted, even though he had an image of a serious and straight-laced president.It was easy to talk on the contrary because there was too much gap from work.smile
At work, he seemed to have been interested in me for a long time, and then a woman who looked like me was registered in a dating club and offered me an offer.At first, her heart was pounding and she was impatient, but when I talked to her, she turned out to be a strange uncle, so it was surprisingly fun.
As a result, I think that this time was good because he bought me favorite things and gave me a large amount of pocket money on a dinner date.He's the president of a business partner, so when I meet him at work, he's really serious and treats me like nothing happened, so it's kind of strange.Somehow I've been working as a dad for XNUMX years with that person.
・Offer from company manager
The general manager is not my direct supervisor, but I have never spoken to him and only knew him a little.
I noticed the manager when the offer came and I met him at the meeting place and while we were having a conversation over dinner, I realized that he was the manager of another department.I was wearing plain clothes, so I didn't notice it at all until then, and the other person didn't seem to notice it at all.The director is an elite and admired by everyone, and when I met him this time as a papa katsu, he was a gentleman and a gentle person.
I had written "Occupation: Receptionist" in my dating club profile, so I was asked, "What kind of company do you work as a receptionist?" I said something, but I thought that he was a person who listened to the gentleman and did his job.
After that, I sometimes met him at work, but I didn't notice it at all, and I went on a date with him many times, but he didn't say anything, so it was fun.
I still don't know if he's aware of it or not, but I can get the pocket money I want and I'm enjoying being a dad.But in my heart, I'm afraid that if someone from the company sees me during the date, I'll find out. (At this time, I hadn't told the club that it was NG for people from the same company.)
・Offer from the same company
There were XNUMX people in sync with the company, including different departments, and one of them was offered.In the same period, I was in the sales department of the same age, but although I was young, my grades were good and I think I was getting a good salary.But I knew that there was no woman who was not popular with women and had never dated properly.
When I got the offer, I was in my twenties, so I thought I wouldn't like it if I knew someone who was young.
On the day of the meeting, when I went to the designated place, there was the same classmate, so I called the phone number that the club gave me to confirm, and the classmate answered the phone. Nice to meet you.It seems that the other person was surprised, but I thought that the profile picture was similar.I said that, but this is a dad life, so he told me to stop talking about work, but I was awkward all the time during the meal.We dated with a promise not to tell each other that we were working as dads, but I was really worried about what kind of face I should make when I met him at work.The feeling that I thought it was a dad activity was quite limited.
It seems that the other party is not popular, so he enjoys his days off by dating women.
Since then, I have told the club that it is NG to book with people related to the company through papa katsu. (I was late to tell you, but...)
In this way, in the dating club, only men can see the photo of the face and the man makes the offer, so I think you may meet people from the same company or acquaintances.
At the dating club interview or if you are worried about whether there is someone from the same company from now on, it is better to consult and tell the club casually so that you can enjoy and feel safe as a father. Please consult with the club before doing so.
