Hello, I'm Natsuyuki.

The other day, I was approached by a man who asked me to be his partner.

The man has a beautiful look, a sense of cleanliness, and a wonderful smile.

I politely declined because I had a weakness of thinking, "Is this person okay?"

At that time, I suddenly thought, what kind of characteristics did this man perceive in me that he wanted me to be his partner?

So this time,

I would like to introduce what points men value in their partner when they seek a woman as a partner.

 

By the way, the "partner" here is the "partner" of the relationship like Papa Katsu.

What men look for in a partner

1. independent
2. i like sex
3. can talk
4. do not pry into private
5. have goals and life plans
6. i know what i like
   
   Let's take a closer look.
    

independent

After all, unlike children, they have an adult relationship, so I have a good impression of an independent woman who can think and decide on her own money issues, opinions, and actions.

A woman who can get along on an equal footing with her father, instead of relying entirely on her father, will gain the trust of men as a partner.

In addition, women who have their own tastes and preferences in beauty, clothing, and hobbies, and enjoy taking care of themselves with their own money seem attractive.

When I give presents, instead of a woman saying, "I want that, I want this," when I see a woman obsessed with something, I feel happy and say, "Okay, let's buy XX!" is.

A woman who is independent and has her own style is attractive, not a woman who is greedy and spoiled.
 

i like sex

In dad life, when you have an adult relationship, you can't remove the compatibility of sex.

Men don't feel attracted to girls who are embarrassed and don't want to be touched in the first place.

On the other hand, women who are proudly naked or who are not shy are also no good.

Even though he likes sex, he is embarrassed, teased, and in some cases intensely demanding each other,

I'm looking for a partner who can communicate with my body like that.
 

can talk

It is important to respect and accept each other as partners.

You can't build a good relationship if you're just looking for a physical relationship just because you're a daddy.

For example, even if you have an opinion on a date, instead of trying to push through it, take in your dad's opinion,

The ideal person is someone who can think and act on how to come up with an answer that both parties can agree on.

Also, a smart woman who can give reasons for her opinion rather than being emotional will gain the trust of men.
 

do not pry into private

Having a relationship in papa katsu is a kind of special relationship.

Instead of digging deep into each other's private lives, you want someone you can enjoy spending time with.

At the same time, rather than trying to monopolize the other person, it's best to have a partner who can communicate with you while keeping a reasonable distance.

For example, even if the other person has a wife or another girlfriend, it is ideal to be able to have an open relationship without jealousy.
 

have goals and life plans

For girls who are doing dad activities, dads not only play with them, but also think about the child.

If your partner is a girl who is restless, has no goals, and is always dependent on her dad, your dad will think, "Is this girl okay?"

Even though I'm working as a dad, I actually have a goal and I'm working hard towards it.

When he meets a girl with a strong core, Papa

“This child is doing his best.
 

You will be able to recognize your existence as a partner and support you.
 

i know what i like

This is also a very important factor.

A girl who is indecisive, doesn't know what to do, and doesn't know what to do is childish as a partner.

A woman who knows what she likes will be more sensitive to what other people want.

I don't do things that men don't like, and on the contrary, I can do what I want them to do without saying anything.

In addition, someone who knows how to keep calm when something happens, and who knows how to relieve stress, will be a great partner for the other person.
 

What do you think about the characteristics men look for in a female partner?

But don't you think the same can be said for women?

When I look at a man as a partner, I also emphasize the same points.

Looking back at the man who was approached this time,

"Is this person okay?"
 

The reason why I felt unreliable was because I was indecisive, and what does this person want to do?It was caused by the fact that I could not see the state and goals of my private life at all.
 

Forming a relationship as a partner means understanding and acknowledging each other's popularity and independent style, rather than just judging each other's personality as a good person or a bad person.

Respecting each other and wanting to spend time together seems to be an important hint for forming a wonderful relationship.

Xia Xue