Now that the number of unemployed people due to the new corona is increasing, the number of women who are in need and start working as dads is increasing.Compared to before the coronavirus, the number of women newly registering for the Papa-katsu app has increased dramatically, and it seems that papa-katsu has become popular among housewives.This time, I tried to approach the reality of such a housewife's dad life.

Daddy activities are increasing among housewives... What is the trigger?

What is the trigger for ordinary housewives to step into papa activities?I asked a woman who is a housewife living in Tokyo.

① My husband's company is in a recession due to corona
“Originally, when I was in my twenties, I was doing daddy activities at a dating club.At first, it was to earn money to study abroad. After meeting about five dads, I worked part-time at a cabaret club and saved 20 million yen for studying abroad expenses.When I got married, I quit the cabaret club and left the dating club at the age of 2. My husband worked two years ago. I quit my interior design company and started an apparel company.In the beginning, my husband's company was doing well, but due to the corona crisis, it went bankrupt at once... My husband is not a mentally strong person. At one point, she even thought about committing suicide, but she stopped thinking about it because she has two children, and is resting at home now.

I will be working as a temporary worker for the household finances, leaving housework and childcare to my husband.However, I couldn't live on my salary alone, so I re-registered to the dating club I was previously registered with without telling her husband.However, I was at a loss for words when I learned about the current market price.As expected, I hesitate about relationships with adults, so I only eat meals, but the market price seems to be 5000 yen to 1 yen.What's more, it's hard to get an appointment when the adult relationship is NG.So, I recently signed up for the Papa Katsu app and met several dads and received about 4 to 5 yen a month.” (Female, age 36)

The most common reason for housewives who are dads is that their husband's work has become depressed due to the corona disaster.It seems that there are many cases where daddy activities are started because her husband has teleworked and her overtime work has been cut, or her bonus has decreased due to the corona sickness.On the other hand, there are also housewives who started dad activities for a slightly unusual reason.

② Husband's dad activity is discovered ...
"The reason I started dad activities was because it turned out that my husband was doing dad activities. It's been 10 years since I got married, but I couldn't have a child due to my infertility. I was also sexless.One day, I found a dad activity app that my husband had registered.At first I was very angry, but if my husband is going to do it, I will do it too I tried to register for a different Papa Katsu app as a guess.

I was scared at first, but when I met my dad, he treated me more like a woman than my husband, and even gave me money.Besides, my marital relationship has improved since I started working as a dad.Having sex with my dad made me feel more confident and less frustrated.Maybe you've been sexless and frustrated until now.Of course, her husband doesn't know that I'm doing daddy activities, and I don't think her husband knows what I'm doing either (laughs)" (41-year-old female)

Where do housewives live as dads?

Where do housewives look for dads when they do dad activities?I asked her about the technique to find her dad, which is a major premise that her husband and acquaintances will not find out.

① Dating app
“If you use a major dating app, you can set the scope of your profile public, and even if someone you know finds you, you can pretend that you are looking for a friend. It is recommended to use jargon to blurt out, "I'm looking for people who can play with me."Also, it's a problem if my husband finds out, so I write down NG items such as "I'm a smoker" and "I can't see you at night."In addition, "Future If you write down your dream, such as having a salon at home, you will receive a message from your dad saying, 'I want to support you.'" (29-year-old female)

②Married party
“Married parties are recommended in the sense that there are many dads who are married to each other and are looking for a straightforward daddy relationship. If you want to find a daddy, I recommend a party that has a higher age limit than myself.Every time I eat with an older man I met at a married party, I pay 1 in the name of taxi fare. I receive yen. The other side also gives it to me without thinking that it is a dad activity, so there is no sense of guilt for each other.” (32-year-old woman)

③ Dating club for mature married women
“If you want to find a dad with little trouble or trouble, dating clubs are recommended. Men need a membership fee and an income certificate when they register, so they can feel secure because they have financial strength. It's going down and it might not be that different from using an app to help daddy... Also, there are some people who have offered a high price at first, but after meeting many times, they haggle.Negotiate yourself. For confident people, it might be better to meet them in person instead of going through a club.” (38-year-old woman)

Housewives' dad activities are increasing

Now that it can be said that the corona recession, the number of housewives who are working as dads seems to be on the rise.Personally, I think you should do well so that your family won't find out.Housewives also have a lot of things to do.