I'm sorry that Rena was a little careless.

Papa had become Lena's stalker without knowing it.

When I thought it was scary that I knew everything that Lena didn't say, I realized that I was being netstalked (Netost) in all sorts of ways.

I want all the Papa-katsu-joshi reading you to be careful, and if you get stalked, I want you to deal with it immediately, so I'm sharing Lena's experience.
 

Social Media

First of all, Lena used Facebook and Instagram for work, and posted work content and photos openly on social media.

But if you don't need it, you should never do it.

Photos are the bare minimum, the account is private, and it's best not to do it if possible.

Of course, it's better not to give out your real name, and in case you do, for some reason, it's a good idea to take measures so that even if you search by your real name, it won't show up in the search results.


Nowadays, even if you don't know your account name or your real name, people can find you even if you don't tell them your account name or real name.

In fact, I was surprised to receive a friend request on Facebook from my dad who knew Lena's phone number without even realizing it.

I didn't tell that dad about my account or my real name, so I was super hasty.

Moreover, there are about 3 mutual friends, what kind of acquaintances do you know? !I got scared.

Also, Lena keeps her private and business accounts separate, and keeps her private accounts, which are tied to phone numbers and email addresses, private.


I'll show you my ID when I exchange lines, right?

Isn't that ID the same as Instagram and Twitter?

In Rena's case, an old ameblo was discovered based on her ID, and her high school name was revealed, so be careful!
 

Personal Information

In fact, this daddy was a daddy who had just met and asked for personal information.

Five minutes after we met,My name is ◯◯◯◯ (full name), but what is Rena's real name?I asked.

Lena said,My real name is Serena, but people call me Rena.'' he muttered.

Neither is my real name.smile

Dad then asked for my last name.

why?I think, but why?Isn't it a bad impression to ask?

That's why I thought I didn't have to hide it, so I answered with a random surname.


After that, I asked about the house in detail.

When I answered in the ward, I was asked at the station and asked about the name of the building and how many streets it was along.

I heard the same from my family.


On the way home from the first date "I'll take you homeI was really scared.

Even if it saves taxi fare.

Because I've been ambushed in front of my house... (See Stalker Papa article. LOL)


The last is "I want to transfer my allowance, so please tell me your account number and full name."is what they said.

I want money, but I don't want to tell you my name.smile


Lena decided to only receive the allowance for that day, pretending that she didn't have the bank account information, and asking for personal information next time.

I was right.


This daddy sent me messages more persistently than anyone else, but I never met him again.

"I found Lena's FacebookIt seems that he sent screenshots and saved the restaurant photos posted by Lena, "You're eating such good food, maybe it's a date with Daddy?' and sent me something.

If you list the store Papa took you to, your account may be searched for later, so be careful.


After that, I was able to find out the rent market price for a single person living in an apartment in the area where Rena lives.How are you paying this rent?” and ended up with a message.

On top of that, he kept calling me to the phone number I used to meet up with, and even changed my phone number (I wonder if he used a public phone).

Since then, Lena has become more mindful about how she uses social media….
 

Privacy invasion

In hindsight, I wondered if Papa wanted to take advantage of Lena's weakness, or really wanted to know about Lena, or was suspicious of something about Lena. I don't understand what it was or what it was.

But I guess that's the nature of this stalker dad.

Were you trying to expose Lena's true identity and use it for something, or were you trying to use it as a story to make Lena do what you wanted?

Or did you have a distrust of something about Lena and wanted to find out?

I can't hear it anymore and I don't know the truth, but my privacy was terribly violated by a dad I just met, and it made me feel really, really bad.


I don't think there are any girls who will like a dad who does this, and I wonder what benefits there are for him.

bad taste?Weird personality?It was a daddy that Rena could not understand.

By the way, Lena knew Papa's real name from the name of the restaurant reservation, so he knew his true nature.

I don't mean to say it.


Winter 2019, I think Lena may have a lot of strange dads.