How I spend my money before I start working as a dad

Before I started working as a dad, my clothes and wallets were hand-me-downs from my older sister, and I rarely spent money other than traveling.

I like to save money, and my savings were steadily accumulating.

When I first started working as a dad, I remember the important "3I put it in a case and cherished it for a while.

Being able to receive pocket money after turning 26

Fresh and sorry, but happy, and somewhat embarrassed.


But after a few times, I got used to receiving money right away.

When I get pocket money, I'm happy, I want to use it as soon as possible!That's all I feel.
 

I can't see you for a month and a half.

When I was talking about when I would see my dad again, I said, "I can't see you for a month and a half"They said.

Dad will be away from home for a business trip from September to mid-October.

So we can't see each other during that time.

I really like my dad as a person, so I felt really lonely.

However, I didn't give it to my dad at all, "Please do your best!We are waiting for you to invite us again in the latter half of October!"said.


Until a little while ago, even if I couldn't see you for about a month and a half, I think I would have passed as usual without thinking about anything.

But the money my dad gave me that I treasured away "I'll get 3 again soon" I started using it more and more.


Until now, I used to buy clothes only once every few months to save money, but now I'm buying more and more clothes, shoes, and cosmetics.

After all, the expensive ones are of good quality and the packaging is also luxurious, which made me feel better.

I always used up the cash my dad gave me right away, and even cut my cards more often.

In addition, I thought that there would be a positive income next month, and I could afford to misunderstand.

It's really a point to reflect on.


The next month, the bill on my card was ridiculous.

Before I knew it, my account balance was almost gone.

I haven't seen you for a month and a half, but I realized how hard it is.

Before I knew it, my money had disappeared in an instant, and my savings were almost gone.I need to earn even a little!" I thought.
 

second dad.

A month and a half is a short period of time, but I thought I had to earn even a little.

For this month and a half only, I decided to go out to eat with my second dad.

When my dad comes back from a business trip, I want to prioritize him above all else, so it's only for a month and a half.

So the second dad is no longer needed when the dad comes back from the business trip.


Daddy eats "3"I will give it to you, but for the past month and a half, I have been eating meals at the local market price"1'But I decided to go out to eat.

If you go out to eat twice,2' income.

"2"It's completely different with and without. "2I thought that I could earn even if it was just ".I felt that it was too early to lose my senses.

"1” alone is a lot of money.For me"1"Also"2I felt that there were few.


Looking for my second daddy, I decided to meet him.

The meal with the second dad was a private room izakaya. He was a kind person with a five-year-old child.

I don't think I need to continue with this daddy, so I treated him casually without worrying about it.

I didn't like the smell of iQOS, so "odor~! Make it up to 2!I was saying something like that.

I thought it would be only once with me who can't smoke iQOS, but it seems that the dad didn't mind it, and so far he invites me to eat about once a week.


A mediocre second dad with no excitement.

It seems that there is no present.

The content of the conversation is normal, so there's nothing in particular, but I think I'll enjoy this mediocreness for a month and a half only!

And the feeling of missing my dad was distracted by meeting my second dad.
 

The right way to use the money you earn from Papa-katsu

With the money my dad gave me, I used to buy a lot of things I wanted.

This was really dangerous.

Because if my relationship with my dad gets worse, or if I go on a business trip like this time, I won't have the income I was counting on.

I was dependent on papa katsu.


Daddy activity occupies about 8% of my head now.

Continuing from the last time, I will give advice on how to properly use the money I got from dad activities, although I am looking at it from above.

Clothes, shoes, and cosmetics are necessary to be cute, but you should only buy them occasionally.

Because they are consumables, like living expenses, so in the long run there will be nothing left.


I'm also very against moving to a place closer to the station just because I can afford it.

Because if you raise the standard of living, you will suddenly be in trouble when your daddy is gone.

In my opinion, it would be good to use it mainly for non-living expenses, such as saving money, taking lessons and obtaining qualifications, investing in yourself, hair removal, etc.

I relied too much on my dad's money, and I was misusing it.

I was trying to raise my standard of living.


It's only for young people to get pocket money.

It is possible to be suddenly abandoned by Daddy.

Don't rely on your dad's income, don't change your standard of living, and think about how you spend your money!

Last time, I told you not to depend too much on your dad.

Don't rely too much on daddy's money, don't forget to cherish the money you can get just now!


Finally, as a record, let me write a little bit of my heart right now.


I want my daddy to come back from his business trip soon.

It's the same with my pocket money, but I like my dad as a person, so I want to meet him soon, go for a drive, and have a meal.

I'm very happy that you send me pictures of the scenery and meals you took on your business trip.I want to go too, but it's far away.

Anyway, I want to see you soon.

And pseudo-romances are so much fun, but I want a real boyfriend, not a daddy!I need to do my best too!


Thank you for the above.