For the first time last timeFor those who want to start working as a dad”, and this is my second post.

This time, I would like to introduce the differences between married and unmarried people, and what I learned from my own experiences and mistakes when going on dates from the second time onwards.
 

first

I've thought about how much I should keep in touch with, such as promises of date dates and daily silly conversations.

As a result, this was different for each man I met.

It may be a matter of course, but each man has a completely different personality and lifestyle.

There was also a slight difference between married men and single men.
 

Married

When I was dating a married man, I tried not to contact him as much as possible.

After all, it is preferable to think about the family first, so I think it was best and smoother to match it when it was convenient for the man.


When I was in a relationship with a certain man, there was a time when we only communicated over the phone.

This is probably because the content of the exchange is less likely to leak to a third party.

Most of the time, I would call you without notice, or call you when the man was alone.
 

Married (results)

That's how I kept in touch and promised a date, but somehow I felt guilty and the timing wasn't right...

While doing so, there were times when contact was cut off in a way that was close to natural extinction.

Rather, it may be more correct to say that I was getting tired of matching the timing, and I couldn't keep my motivation when I started dating.

"Hot and cold personality', so I think there were many times when things didn't go well with married men.
 

Unmarried

Compared to married men, I think that the relationship itself was very smooth and enjoyable.

When I met a certain man, I was able to have a free love relationship because there was no one who was dating each other.marriage” was also a wonderful encounter.


However, I had to be careful.

That is when there is a man who you are dating in private, but it means that men are more likely to notice subtle changes that are different from when they started dad activities.

Until now, I can't do it during the time I used to exchange phone calls and emails, and I often turn down appointments for dates...

Various things can happen, but from such a situation, "パ パ"rather than,"boyfriendThere are not a few men who seek a presence close to ".
 

Unmarried (Results)

If the original purpose is "Sugar dating”, you need to be careful about your private life.

Although it is a dad activity, it is a supportive position from the man's side, so feelings such as jealousy and bondage may be born.

For those who have dreams and goals and are doing dad activities, sometimes it is difficult to continue the relationship unless they prioritize dad activities over their own private lives.

Sometimes you have to make some sacrifices to get something.

You don't have to have romantic feelings for men, but I think it's important to always maintain a sense of respect and gratitude for your support.
 

A Final Word

Regardless of whether you are married or unmarried, be considerate of men and never forget to be grateful.

I think that's the secret to being able to continue being a wonderful dad.


I sincerely hope that your wonderful relationship will continue...