Hello, I'm Natsuyuki.

today,"When do dads want to use the dating club to meet girls?"I checked.
Natsuyuki is a girl, so while I can understand the feelings of a girl who joins a dating club, I have a thought.

Why do men go out of their way to use dating clubs to seek out new encounters?

Because if it is a one-time encounter, a hostess club is fine,
If you want to go on a date, don't you feel that dating sites are quicker?

Moreover, since the dating club is a membership system, I think that the membership fee will be quite high, especially for men.
Still, after all, dating clubs are popular among men.

Why.
I looked it up.

When I looked into it, I found that there are quite a few companies that run dating clubs.
The characteristics are also really different depending on the club,
  - Low membership fee
  ・Where the age group of girls is young and there are many students
  ・There are branches all over the country, so you can use it anywhere
  ・Where you can start from email or chat
  ・ A place where even beginners can start
  ・In a high-end membership club, only girls who have passed the interview,

Etc. There seems to be various dating clubs.

Next, the needs of men seeking girls are as follows.
  ・I want stimulation in my life
  ・ I want someone to talk to or a lover
  ・ I want to meet new people
  ・I want someone to eat with me when I'm lonely
  ・I don't like spending time alone while on a business trip.
  ・ I want to meet a girl immediately without troublesome exchanges
  ・I want a sexual partner, etc.

It seems that there are many people who want a partner with whom they can have a good time by satisfying their desires and further enhancing the quality of life while maintaining the current life as it is.

Men, especially those who have a good job or have a good life, have a strong desire to improve, and actually spend a lot of time alone, so I think many people feel lonely. increase.

Natsuyuki thinks that there must be such a psychological desire.
That's why Natsuyuki always wants to share her kindness with men who go on dates with her.

And when I searched for various reviews of men who actually use dating clubs, I got the following impression.

• After joining the dating club, I was introduced to a girl who looked like a model.Eating together, walking around town, and just being with someone who looks so good makes me feel happy.
  I am proud to say that I have such a wonderful partner.
•  I usually work abroad, but I have the opportunity to come back to Japan regularly.
  　Before, every time I returned to Japan, I spent about a month lonely by myself.
  　Now, when I come back to Japan, a girl I met at a dating club will date me, so I can't help but look forward to it.
• I broke up with my wife, didn't have any children, and was spending all my time working alone.After I broke up with my girlfriend's wife, I regained my friendships and kindness with women, and I was able to live a very peaceful life.
• I regret that I should have joined the dating club sooner.Until then, I had spent time and money on go-to parties and cabaret clubs in search of a meeting, but in the end there was no good meeting.The girls in the dating club have good personalities and all have nice faces and looks, so I feel safe and I am grateful to have a good relationship with them.
• At the company, I am called "President, President" every day, and for some reason, everyone bows their heads in a reserved manner.My friends also told me, "Because I'm the president," and I started to feel a sense of distance.On the other hand, the girls in the dating club don't say anything about me because I'm the president, and they treat me well.When she eats with girls, goes shopping, talks about games that have nothing to do with work, and talks about travel, she seems to be able to return to her original self, and it's fun. can spend time

For men who are active in society, their pride gets in the way of their titles and positions. Dating clubs are members-only and protect personal information, so you can rest assured.

Compared to cabaret clubs and joint parties, girls are also relatively calm, and it seems that the attraction of dating clubs is that there are many girls who are willing to go on dates that they want.

Even if there is trouble or dissatisfaction, the dating club will mediate without direct conflict with the girl, so there is little risk.

I see, dads join the dating club with that kind of feeling.

It's the same with Natsuyuki, but if you don't just think about your own position and protect yourself, but also understand the feelings of the other person you spend time with, I think you'll be able to have a better date. You also need to study your voice.

Also, if you have any opinions from a male perspective, please let me know.