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First time face-to-face allowance problem

Hello everyone.Keisuke UranoIs called.

It's been 10 months since I started using not only dating clubs and dating clubs like Universe Club, but also dad activities apps.

This time, it is not a dating club / date club, but a big problem in the dad activity app "Is there an allowance for the first face-to-face meeting?I would like to touch on ".


"Is there no allowance for the first meeting?" problem

There is a reason why I decided to write this article.On the bulletin board of a certain dad activity app,A big controversy over the allowance for the first meetingbecause there was

The trigger was the following post by Yume, a 22-year-old college student.In addition, it is not a copy and paste, it is arranged a little.


"Putting myself in the position of a man, I sometimes think that giving an allowance to a child who doesn't like me might hurt my wallet 😢 In addition to the time we meet, there is also time to move and prepare.To compare it to a restaurant, there are countless efforts such as material costs, transportation costs, and store maintenance costs to provide food. If you don't give an allowance for the first time, I feel like you're going to eat and drink at a restaurant for free because it's a taste for the first time 😰 Women make efforts and appearance to entertain for men Of course, it's natural to be thorough, but I think it's a very sad thing to say that there is no allowance because it's a response that wastes effort and time.What do you guys think?"


By the way, Yume doesn't have a photo of her face, so I don't know what she looks like.Judging from her profile and postings on message boards, she seems like a serious woman who is just starting out as a dad.


This postburst into flamesIt is


Pros and Cons from Men and Women

From mencriticism such ashas been sent.

“Meeting through an app is mostly done by photo processing companies, so it’s more like an interview. I honestly don’t agree with being asked to pay for an hour’s tea.”

"Men are also busy, but they use their time. How do you think about that? Isn't it even?"

"I don't understand the analogy of a restaurant. If I were to force myself to use the same analogy, I'd just see if the food was on the menu. Before deciding whether to eat or not. It's not a free meal."

“It’s a very self-centered way of thinking.

"Basically, it's a stance of meeting and doing it. That's why I can't meet anyone."

"I don't understand the point of not uploading a face photo and paying for a face-to-face meeting."

“In the case of restaurants, the meeting is to choose the restaurant. With so many women, the meeting is to choose a restaurant based on a tabelog or something, and to actually see the restaurant before making a reservation and using it. I'm not in."

“There are a lot of women who ask me to meet them, because the majority of them are men. It is strange to think that


on the other hand,Voices from women who agree with herwas sent a lot.

There was also a lot of criticism of the above man's opinion, and it became chaotic.

Some people said, "Personally, I think it's fine without any allowance because it's before dating," and "There aren't many women, so there's no choice but to meet."


days of heated debateAfter that, the controversy ended with Yume's next post.


"The article I posted the other day about the allowance for the first time received more than 60 responses. I learned a lot from those who affirmed it and those who denied it 😊 There are as many ways of thinking as there are people. Of course, I learned that how smart I can be as an adult when my ideas don't match is what I will need in my future life. Please 🙌 ✨”


It was a sentence that conveyed her personality, but the controversy was not settled.

Ladies and gentlemen, what do you think about this "allowance for face-to-face meeting" problem?

(Well, I don't have this kind of face-to-face meeting at a dating club or date club, so it may be a story from another world, wry smile)


If you want to prevent no allowance due to the supply and demand balance

Unlike proper dating clubs and dating clubs like Universe Club, complicated problems are involved in "face-to-face" in Papa Katsu app.Many women use highly processed photos, and some of them are completely different people.Moreover, recently, black-market traders have also entered the market,A woman who is completely different from the picture comesThere is also a thing.


Daddy live app encounters are completely different from dating clubs and dating clubs, and the management side says "We just provide a place to meet” is the stance.Screening is lax, and there are many apps that are even lax about identity verification.After matching, many troubles occur because such individuals decide the terms and conditions through direct negotiations.


The imbalance between men and women also complicates the problem. It is "the side to meet and receive an allowance"A lot of women, very few men.As for the actual feeling level, is it a ratio of about XNUMX% for men and XNUMX% for women?Many women are unable to meet men in person, and men often send messages such as "I want to meet you" and "Please let me meet you" in addition to "likes".


In general, it is an abnormal world where young women in their 20s are flooded despite being "just middle-aged men".This worldOverwhelming buyer (male) marketwill beThere is an imbalance between supply and demand.


Pricing in the market is determined by the supply and demand balance.For that reason, there is a certain amount of men (about XNUMX% in my experience) who ask for “no allowance for the first meeting” in the Papa Katsu app, and the number of women who meet without allowance is increasing.The trend of “no allowance” will increase more and more in the futureI think.


By the way, I would like to tell the women who are reading this article who have no experience with daddy activities and women who have no experience with daddy apps.

Now, the current state of the dad live app is like this.The app has the advantage of being easy to use, but if you want a proper allowance, you want to meet a man who has plenty of money instead of a man who is reluctant to give it out, and you want to have a good relationship, you can use dating clubs and dating clubs. is recommended.You may want to try just registering.


*Illustrations and photos of womenIllustrated ACThe free material of the bar picture isО-DAN.

Is it hereditary?I have loved women since I was a child.Eating delicious food and drinking alcohol with a woman is my favorite time to be lively.Thanks to the smiles of women and the pleasant conversations with women, I somehow manage to live every day, lol.Around XNUMX, married, media.I hope everyone has a good meeting.

Article by Keisuke Urano

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