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Exchanging messages with my dad and what I kept in mind

The first thing I kept in mind when interacting with my dad was,environment in which you are placedwas to talk about everything.

Of course, I was trying not to show off to my dad.

The reason is that I knew that ``Papa can see things like that,'' and I didn't think he was interested in me looking like that.

I was convinced that what Papa was interested in was "the me who doesn't show off or put anything on" and not "the me who is a wild performer".


When my dad was exchanging messages, he always said, "If you have any troubles, please feel free to contact us."And"If you work so hard, you can't take lessons, can you?Take a break from work and do your best for your dreams.I will help youwas saying.

Honestly, those words really helped me. (Because it was hard just to live everyday.)

That's why I thought I'd try to face my dad as my "real self" instead of "decorating myself" as much as possible.

Normally, I don't get spoiled by people, but when I exchange messages with my dad, I try to be spoiled because I'm naive.

Even if I was really tired, I never said anything.


However, in front of my dad, if there are things I don't like about my entertainment activities, I honestly say, "I want to quit', or when I'm really tired, I try to cry in front of my dad as hard as I can.

I was trying to expose myself as I was.

When we meet, I try to make a bento for my dad, and I always wear the accessories that my dad gave me.

I tried to approach them with the feeling of "Is this what a couple is like?"


Also, the exchange of messages may have been quite important.

For example, since we're different ages, I refrain from using pictograms as much as possible.I thought, I tried to communicate in short sentences as much as possible.

once to dadTired of reading messages?I have heard that.

Then Papa said,It's short and easy to read"He said.I was happy.


When we met, I always brought something that I made myself or something that my dad and I could eat together.

Lunch boxes and sweets that are popular now.

My dad just happened to love sweets, so I thought, "I'd be happy if my dad was happy," so I always brought some.

Since I was always indebted to him, my biggest feeling for him was to naturally say, "Do what makes him happy."


I always tried to maintain the feeling of giving back.

Tips for spending quality time with Dad

I was always concerned about my appearance first. (It will be my own effort, but...)

For example, in the summer, I wore clothes that were a little light and slightly revealing.

However, it is not a gyaru style.

For example, it feels a little conservative.

I think it's easy to imagine the atmosphere of wearing a miniskirt.


I also paid attention to the color scheme.

I have red accessories, but I choose light blue clothes for clothes.

I thought that if I dressed too flashy, my dad would be very careful when walking with me, so I tried to be as neat and tidy as possible and not stand out so much when I walked with him.

I wasn't a dad who cared much about what others thought of me, but I thought I'd do what I could.


During the time we spent together, I tried to stay close to him as much as possible.

I folded my arms, wiped up food when I spilled it during meals, and gave him a shoulder massage. (I just wanted to do my best.)

It seemed that Papa was very pleased with such trivial things that he wanted to do.


Because of the age difference, my dad said "I am exhaustedI felt that this easy-to-understand gesture that makes me feel like "I'm sure it will come to me."

One example was when I was having a drink with my dad in the hotel lounge bar.


When it happened to be a deep story, I was a little teary-eyed, so I said, "I'll lend you my handkerchiefI lent him a handkerchief, and I remember him looking really happy.

To be honest, I thought it was "normal".

But from my father's point of view, I think he was really happy.

I think that this kind of accumulation is the "knack for sharing time with my dad".

I felt that if each girl did what she wanted, it would be a precious and very meaningful time spent with her father.


On the other hand, I thought that being too considerate "may increase the distance between me and my dad", so I felt that it would be better to just face each other.

However, if you simply do what you normally want to do to your parents, you will be really happy if you do it for your dad.